Although much less common, there are some HIV-negative men who willingly bareback with other men who they
know are HIV positive (even when they know the risks). There are many reasons for this including:
1.Some men like to "live life on the edge," and get pleasure out of taking their chances. You can say that these men
are "sexual daredevils."
2.If a guys boyfriend is HIV positive, he is sometimes willing to bareback with his boyfriend as a way of showing
his love, even though he knows that he can become infected himself.
3.Some men do not mind getting infected, as long as they get infected only from their boyfriend. They see HIV as a
special way to further bond their relationship with their lover.
4.Positive men often have their own social circles and friendships. Some men allow themselves to get infected in
order to get into these social circles. Being positive can give some men a "sense of belonging." Some HIV
negative men have also commented that "people with HIV get all the attention, so why am I missing out?"
5.Being positive sometimes brings with it an increase in social services and benefits (housing, food, public
assistance, etc.). A person who is HIV positive sometimes qualifies for more social services than someone who is
not infected.
6.Some men simply do not care whether they get infected or not.
7.Some men think that if they get infected, they will no longer need to use condoms (not knowing about the
problems associated with HIV reinfection, or other STDs).
8.Some gay men are fatalistic. Some of them think that getting HIV is inevitable, so they do not try to avoid it.
Some men feel that trying to stay HIV negative is too stressful, and ultimately allow themselves to get infected in
order to "just get it over with." There are even some men who think that AIDS is "just part of being gay."
There are several slang terms you may sometimes hear related to barebacking:
Barebacking parties = group sex parties where condoms are not allowed to be used. There are different types of
barebacking parties:
a.all positive barebacking parties (where everyone at the party is HIV positive)
b.all negative barebacking parties (where everyone is supposedly HIV negative)
c.Conversion parties (see below)
d.Russian Roulette parties (see below)
Bug chasers = men looking to get themselves infected with HIV.
Gift givers = men with HIV who are willing to infect bug chasers.
The gift = HIV
Conversion parties = group sex parties where bug chasers allow themselves to get infected by gift givers.
Russian Roulette parties = barebacking parties with both positive and negative men. Negative men take their chances
that they will be infected when having sex with the positive men there. Depending on the circumstances, the
participants may or may not know ahead of time who is positive and who is negative.
Bug brothers = a group of positive men.
Charged cum or poz cum = semen from an HIV positive man.
Fuck of death = intercourse where HIV infection takes place.
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