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The difference is, the slogan that was given above "Abortion on demand and without apology!" Is not mine. I don't believe Abortion that is something that should be treated as casual or common place. It is a often tramatic experience on the mother and a major, if not the most major life decision of a person's life. The power over the *potential* development or lack thereof of a human life is a great power indeed.
Instead my slogan would be "Make Abortion safe and rare" as I believe a former vice president once said. I would like a society in which mothers, especially single mothers were not treated with disdain and so left to fend for themselves that many times abortion is the best possible option in the face of no other real possibilties. In my perfect world, there would be no abortion, because every child would be wanted by someone, and the pathology of the citzens would be such that there was a great and strong desire to nuture the mere potential for a new human life, even then difficult. But when difficult, society could be counted on not to abandon the mother, but to completely support the mother through every step of the way.
But as we all know, we don't live in my perfect world. However, I like to strive towards the ideals of my perfect world. Therefore, I take up the slogan of making abortions safe, which means protecting doctors, and ensuring the governemtn does not come between a woman and her right to professional medical care, and making abortions rare, which means continuing to evolve society to a place where woman feel more and more free and able to choose to bring that potential new life into the world, either because the support stucture is there for her, or becasue there are real an legitimate alternatives availible.
HOWEVER --
This is arguably one of the most difficult and complicated issues out there, and because of that, there is absolutely NO WAY I believe a bunch of congressional MEN thousands of miles away should tell any woman how to make decisions over her body! That's what's wrong with anti-abortion laws. A woman should be free to have medical consultation, free to wrestle with the tough decision, free to have real alternatives, but not forced to look at alternatives by the government, nor forced to endure word-of-mouth false promises about alternatives to abortion. This is arguable one of the most diffiuclt decisions of some women's lives -- it is absolutely imperitive in a free society that the freedom of the final decision be left with woman and rigourously protected! In this sense I am pro-choice, but I wish more and more people would choose "life" (sorry for the term) until a point where abortion was truly and voluntarily rare.
The reason why I take that stand, is because abortion is not murder. It is an ethical dilemma, but not one of murder. The ethical dillema is: do I use my power to stop this potential for life from become actual human life, a person? Also, and especially important for pro-choice folks like me, which is the higher value demand - a possibility of future human life or the present reality of an actualized human being -- whose needs are more important, if both cannot be honored and one must scarifice something? I side with ACTUAL life over POSSIBLE life and that's why I'm pro-choice. But I am not pro-abortion. I think abortion is sometimes an unfortunate necessity in a society that has gone so wrong so as to make it an unfortunate necessity.
There was a cartoon I saw in the ACLU building in my town. It was a picture of a doctor coming in to an examination room to see a woman, and he said: "I'm here to tell you you're pregnant, now this is going to be one of the most complicated, emotional, and challenging times of your whole live, filled with some very important decisions that will effect you forever.... so you're Congressman will be in in a minute to tell you what to do. "
That cartoon above, explains the reasons why I am pro-choice. That doesn't mean I don't wish other woman would make the choice to have the child, it just means I recognize and accept the realize that this is NOT always what's best for the mother, and I honor that.
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