#9 from RG on August 4, 2005 06:24 PM
The Times article alludes to rumors that Vincent was romantically involved with Nour, his translator. In his book ItRZ, Vincent was very honest and open about his struggle to contain the attraction he had for Nour. She and Vincent were seen walking together around Basra regularly, and in a society that has restrictive ideals about the role of women, it's not surprising rumors would start up about them. Doesn't mean it's true, though; I doubt Vincent would be addressing all of his blog posts to his wife Lisa if he was having an affair.
#14 from Elizabeth Morgan on August 5, 2005 08:28 AM
As a good friend of both Steven Vincent and his wife, I can assure you that Noor was NOT a fiance! He had infinite respect for her and the difficulties her life had entailed. Knowing as he did what the consequences for a woman would be to have a relationship that was not approved by her family and her culture, he would not have placed her in such a position. He cared for yes, loved her as a close associate, and I am sure would be relieved to know that not only did she survive the ordeal that befell them, and proud (but not surprised) that in her pain she still showed her courage and anger when she yelled at the police when they finally showed up. I am personally confident that any gossip about them is due to the fact that Noor bucked the "tribal" norm and was a thorn under the saddle of many. To speculate about their relationship at this time is damaging not only to Steven's deep sense of honor, his love for his wife and his respect for Noor, but to the fact that these were two brave souls who banded together in search of truth. Please, let's have no more of this tabloid-sounding stuff!
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