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Here's my take on it:
You're dealing with an organization that is run by an all-male club. Most of the men who enter this club decide to do so at a very young age - many right out of high school. They tend to be very immature in most respects - with psycho-sexuality being only one area. Many are stunted... they do not progress through some of the psychological developmental milestones. These tend to be guys who never dated and who find women to be discomfiting, frightening, and mysterious. They tend to be nerdy types; even their relationships with men aren't entirely "normal". It's like they're 10 years old in some respects, and they never really progress beyond that. They tend to be weak, dogmatic, pathologically introspective, childish, self-loathing, and incredibly self-absorbed.
Suddenly, after a few years in a protected seminary environment, these remarkably weak and ineffectual men don a roman-collar and are thrust into a community where everyone is calling them "father", kissing their ass, hanging on every word they utter, jostling to be near them, and showering them with attention, money, favors, and respect. Most live like kings. They become local celebrities literally overnight. Before long, they begin to believe they deserve it. The worst among them rise to the top and become bishops, monsignors, and cardinals. Some become predators, others are consumed with power, and most will preserve the life they believe they are entitled to at any cost. They will circle the wagons to protect their kingdom, to protect themselves, and to protect one of their own. It's hard to imagine a scenario with more potential to explode with corruption, debauchery, greed, and psychopathy. It's an accident waiting to happen.
All of it... the child rape, the cover-ups, the stonewalling... it all goes back to the truly fucked-up psychological make-up of many of the men who choose to be priests. And the only way to stop them is to (1) cut off their money and (2) prosecute. It's a hopelessly messed up organization, it creates much harm, and it needs to be brought down.
IMHO
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