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Edited on Wed Jun-16-04 11:29 AM by jchild
In Mississippi, spanking is done in public schools. In my son's public elementary school, all of the teachers keep wooden paddles on their desks. Teachers are supposed to spank only with a witness present--usually another teacher.
When my son started kindergarten at this school, I raised my objection to the school's corporal punishment policy, and was offered (as were all parents) the option to write a letter objecting to policy and providing the school with an alternative discipline plan. I wrote the letter and told the school that if my son's behavior was severe enough that school officials considered hitting him, then they should call me to the school and I would handle his discipline. So, every year since kindergarten, I have sent the same letter in--to the teacher, the principal, and the superintendant, just so I know my and his asses are covered (pun intended).
When he was in second grade--a couple of years ago--he came home and told me that another child had entered my son's bathroom stall and attempted to touch him in a private place. The kid was aggressive and my son pushed him off. A teacher in the room next to the boy's bathroom heard the commotion and came into the bathroom with a paddle in hand--she told the little boy who attempted to touch my son to get back to his classroom, and then she WHIPPED MY SON--IN THE BOY'S BATHROOM, WITH NO WITNESS PRESENT.
As soon as I heard, I went to the school. I asked to speak to the principal--the secretary told me I would have to wait. I barged past the sec and into the principal's office, where I told her what happened and informed her that if that teacher so much as LOOKED at my son again, I would kick that teacher's fucking ass and sue the shit out of the school and the principal. (Yes, even though I am working on my PhD and should exhibit more refined behavior, I will throw down if I have to, and will do it as you said, swiftly and severely, when my kid is involved.) The principal was at a loss for words--I don't think she thought I was capable of such expression--but NO TEACHER has ever paddled my son, since. (Edited to add that they find ways to physically punish children who are on "no spank" orders. For instance, his teacher this past year put hers around his neck and said, "I can't spank you because you would tell your mother and I would get arrested, but I really want to hurt you right now." Let me just say that this is a whole other story, and I handled this problem with the superintendant.)
When I see the bathroom spanking teacher now, who is about 6" tall and 300 lbs--a hulk of a woman, whether I am at Walmart or at the school, I scowl at her. She quickly adjusts her path so as not to cross mine. I haven't lost my anger about this, and am not so sure I could control myself if I were ever closely face to face with her.
So, in a nutshell, beating kids with hunks of wood solves no problems--indeed, it causes more.
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