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Edited on Wed Oct-08-03 12:16 AM by scottxyz
This editorial clearly and sympathetically expresses ideas that I've been trying to put into words for years.
I am tempted to send it to my father, a straight white male who always votes Republican and then always regrets it later. He did not go to college (and often said he wished he had - he is an excellent public speaker and thinks he could have made a great lawyer). When I was younger I was very studious and not terribly athletic, and my father would often get angry at me for "always having my nose in a book." We had season tickets to the local NFL team, and for many years he dragged me to every home game hours early so we could "tailgate" in the parking lot, cooking meat on a grill and tossing around a football. I was bored to death (and usually freezing my butt off) sitting in the stands for hours on end watching a bunch of guys in protective gear knock each other around in manly fashion, but I went through with it because I was young and I knew my father thought this would be a good way to "bond" with his son.
I was valedictorian of my highschool class, and although my father was clearly very proud of me, he also would say things like, "You really ought to read the sports pages sometime. You never know, you might be at a job interview and they might ask you who won and it won't look good if you have no idea what they're talking about." (I've had lots of great jobs since then, and nobody ever mentioned sports at the interviews.)
My father was a second- or third-string football player when he was in highschool, he was in the Army, he works as a real estate broker, and has had many years of economic difficulty. Currently, he's separated from my mother, and he lives in a trailer home now with his new girlfriend. (My parents always had nice two-story houses with garages, and bought new cars every few years. At some point in the early eighties the house got foreclosed on - I don't know the details as I was away at college.) My father has no health benefits, and he and my mother haven't divorced so that he can pay to stay on her health plan (she's a secretary - planning on retiring any year now).
I went to an Ivy League school on a scholarship, came out as a gay man in my freshman year, and ended up working in computer programming. When he found out I was gay, my father said he wanted to sell his house and move out of town and "Do as the Soviets do": regard me as a "non-person". I went back to sophomore year at college and only went back home about 3 or 4 times since.
My father and I have never seen eye-to-eye on most political issues, and he knows I can't understand why he consistently votes Republican, against his own economic best interests and against the best social interests of his only son. (My sister was a lesbian for several years as well - at the moment she's seeing a guy so she says she's "bi".)
I think my father, like many suburban couch-potatoes raised on network TV, is not terribly sophisticated. He still buys into that childish notion that "nerds" aren't real men, and so policy-wonks probably bore him, whereas W with his faux Texas accent and cowboy boots and simplistic worldview probably seems like a real take-charge kind of guy to him. (Personally, I've heard a lot of plausible rumors that W himself may have had gay experiences - but that's a whole 'nother whole can of worms. Google "Victor Ashe" and "George Bush" for details on that one!)
Suburban American life can be pretty boring, people are lonely and unfulfilled, and when they're supposed to be choosing someone who has the brains to run the country, they end up getting confused and voting for someone that entertains them in some way. I've often said that the genius of the Republicans is to appeal to lonely, unfulfilled people's need for devotion and belonging.
It looks like the same thing is happening with Arnold today. He admired Hitler and he treats women with disrespect and his supporters rough up nuns at rallies - and these thuggish ways probably have a sort of appeal to guys who believe in "masculinity" while at the same time feeling not-quite-masculine enough in this precarious modern world. Never mind that voting for Arnold will lose California the nine billion dollars the state could recover from the Enron bilking - getting a little vicarious testosterone rush must be worth 9 billion dollars to guys whose masculinity has been seriously bruised by being cogs in the late-capitalist system.
Americans need to learn that being an intellectual - or being gay or female or any other minority for that matter - doesn't equate with being weak. In fact, being something other than a "straight white male" is a big challenge in this society, and it can really toughen you up and sharpen your skills. Straight while males who are intellectual in some way can also become quite tough because of the isolation they must endure in an anti-intellectual society.
W is very weak, and if he hadn't been born with a silver spoon in his mouth, it's quite possible he'd be sitting on skid row right now. But he seems like a "real man" to some clueless people, and frustrated couch-potatoes like my father are yearning to bond with and support someone who projects that sort of no-nonsense tough-guy image.
Maybe it's an atavism - maybe there was a time when a no-nonsense tough guy was really the kind of person you needed as a leader, back when people lived in small groups and we had very little technology. Nowadays, the world is pretty complicated, and a tough guy won't cut it if he isn't also pretty bright. The right wing has had a lot of success equating stupidity with toughness, and intelligence with weakness. It's a brilliant strategy that has led many poor and middle-class people to vote against their own self-interests.
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