The Long and Grinding Road

[The2ndWheel]

http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/12438812/site/newsweek/

The rat race is turning into a marathon. Inside the lives of 'extreme commuters.'

At 5:40 a.m., the alarm blares news-talk radio and Bill Small rolls out of bed. With a two-hour commute ahead of him, the Chicago doctor wastes little time. He showers, dresses and is out the door by 6. At this hour, his car is the only one navigating the winding streets of his upscale neighborhood in St. Charles, Ill., a quaint community nearly 50 miles west of the Chicago hospital where he works. Small's routine is so finely tuned that he won't stop for coffee if there are more than three cars in the drive-thru. Today there are just two, and he picks up an extra-large. But there's no time for a bathroom break, so Small, 41, won't allow himself a single sip for nearly an hour. At the halfway mark, he takes his first swig as he hits gridlock on the Eisenhower Expressway. With the sun rising over the Chicago skyline, he crawls along, placidly listening to sports radio. Finally, he arrives at exactly 8 a.m. Though he won't return home for 12 and a half hours, Small still says the killer commute to and from exurbia is worth it. "It's a nice place to raise kids," he says. "And it does feel like you're away."

[Dora]

1. I count my blessings every M-F morning.

I am glad that we were able to buy centrally and near a major bus route. We can avoid the commuting headache for as long as we don't have a need to relocate.

I can't imagine willfully giving up precious time with my husband and son in order to buy a house that's bigger and further away. I understand that for many the flight to the suburbs isn't a choice. There are, however, those families who only need 2,400 sf to live comfortably, but find themselves purchasing 4,000 sf farther away vs. 3,000 closer in. People are starstruck by size, and fool themselves into believing they're getting "more house" for their money.