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the word "spouse" on all employment forms, social security forms, medical forms, insurance forms, is replaced by the words "Spouse or legally contractual partner," then those homosexual relationships that have endured longer than a whole bunch of heterosexual marriages, disenfranchises American citizens who happen to be homosexual.
I am certain, that homosexual relationships have existed since time immemorial, but since the majority of us are heterosexual, we have not faced up, as a nation of equal rights and justice, to acknowledging such partnerships.
Our nation has, once upon a time limited, through bigotry and fear,equal rights, equal justice, to our fellow citizens who were "NOS", Not Our Sort. This included Jews, Blacks, Irish, Italian, French, Chinese, Amish, American natives, Germans and Japanese on specific occasions.
There would be no need for clogging the courts with lawsuits with regard to homosexual couples, if one stops fearing and tries a bit of understanding.
In our current time, as opposed to the time of the constitution, more and more homosexuals are "coming out of the closet."
We don't burn them anymore, as they did in puritanical Europe (Thence the name "faggots",) but we can't ignore them in a nation of supposed freedom, equal rights, and justice.
I really only knew of two homosexual couples. In the case of the two males, the relationship lasted more than thirty years. One of them committed suicide. His partner was threatened with arrest if he even attended the memorial service by the suicide's family. He has disappeared, and everything they had built together was left to the suicide's family.
In the second case, two females, the relationship has lasted for seventeen years. One became disabled, the other supports her, and cares for her, but is denied the right to be at her deathbed when the time comes.
I am heterosexual. My marriage lasted a little bit over thirteen years. My divorce was in 1969. But, if I predecease him, or vice versa, we would still be permitted into the room where the other one was occupied with dying.
One of us would have accessible to us the Social Security of the other.
There is every form of love and companionship, devotion and acceptance to be considered.
The only reason, except for a few--those who want to flaunt their difference, or those who emotionally want their love and devotion openly stated--that "marriage" is being sought is because employers, Social Security, hospitals, and our refusal to accept an injustice and equal rights to those different from us is codified on every legal document.
Change the wording of the legal documents, to "spouse or beloved contractual partner" in those documents that deny them equal rights, and I think there would be a great diminishment of those much photographed partners seeking marriage, who, although we may not understand them, are as much of a "couple" as any heterosexual couple.
I happen to be heterosexual (at the moment asexual) and I didn't really know too much about it, until I realized that these relationships, and the love and devotion demonstrated by these two couples I encountered was greater than I, a heterosexual, had experienced Although strange, and a bit uncomfortable when in their company, at first, I did see love and devotion. I saw a toleration of defects and disappointments that I, a heterosexual, could not endure.
But I still got benefits they can never have until gay marriage is accepted, or the wording is changed on Federal, Social security, medical, employment agreements, etc. are accomplished. They may seem strange or unholy or repugnant to the majority. But this IS America, and I think that those who respond just don't know anyone who is a homosexual and don't know the denials our laws, our fear of strangeness and differentness and religious edicts influence our denial of equal rights.
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