One just from yesterday:
Thank you, Andy, for showing us the way
We are Democrats. We rarely agree on anything. We do not support our leaders and our candidates at a whopping 80% plus the way the do. Even helping Andy with getting the funds needed for his operation caused a lot of angry posts and disagreement.
And yet, and yet, for two glorious weekends we did come together and we did collect a lot of money: $25,000 during each weekend. We gave fives and tens, many who lost their jobs, who are faced with mounting bills of their own. But we put our differences aside and we helped, some by merely "kicking" the threads to keep them on top.
The Internet made it easy for everyone to opine and to fight and to engage in debates and name calling and even in pornos that normally they would not do in a face to face situation. Yet, the fund drives made us more than just nodding and clicking. We dived into our resources and we helped the best we could. Indeed, this was our finest hour.
And you Andy, like Teri Schiavo, caused us to think about health care, about the cost of life, and death and accessibility.
It has been said that most people generate 90% of their medical costs during the last six months of their lives, and that opinion referred mostly to the elderly. And we are told that universal health care, like Canada, would end up rationing it. That health care are so expensive now that tax payers will revolt. Perhaps. I don't know. I do know that I first would like to eliminate the obscene compensations that "executives" in the insurance industry - I won't call it the health care industry - get. I first would like to eliminate the obscene amount that the pharmaceuticals are spending on TV ads for prescription drugs. $2 million for 30 seconds of Viagra during the Super Bowl?
Even for those of us that have health insurance. Take a look at your policy and you will find a life time limit, around $1 million. A woman once told me that once her mother reached the limit she could not get any more treatments and she died.
But I am glad that you escaped that "rationing." That we made sure that you got the best that you could. Perhaps it was futile, I don't know. But you wanted it and we gave it to you. It was your right to get the best treatment that was there.
And yet, and yet, it would not be enough for us to just be charged to demand health care for everyone. It is possible - I don't know - that even after we eliminated the obscene compensation and obscene TV ads - that with all our new steps in medicine that there will be a finite amount of dollars available.
And we will not be able to think about universal health care without looking at how we view death. It used to be that we all lived in the same place all our lives. Our homes included multi generations of family members and dying and death was a natural aspect of life.
But we moved away. And when that dreaded phone call arrives in the middle of the night, we rush back home and we want to do everything, we demand to have the best done, even though it is clear that our loved one has lived rich life and it is time to say good bye. None of us want to drag on like Teri Schiavo but when faced with a beloved family member or a friend - can we do this? We have had several heart wrenching posts here about DUers who had to "pull the plug."
So, yes, demand that no one be denied the best health care available, but we need to know of when to say good bye, with broken hearts and tears streaming down.
Would I donate again, knowing that all it bought him was few weeks? Yes, of course, In a heart beat, even though I have never heard of you until those long weekends. I am grateful for all the DUers - and many other liberals - who mobilized to help Andy. But most, I am grateful to sfexpat2000, flyarm, merh, skinner and so many others who facilitate these fund raising, who gave their all, and then some.
Go in peace, Andy. Your beautiful soul is finally free of your tortuous body but I feel for your friends and family who are left with a huge void in their hearts. We are hurting with you, there is nothing that we can say but only: we are so very very sorry.
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And I raised the same topic on March 31 - but forgot - found it now when i searched the archives
Watching people die
In previous generations, death was viewed as a natural part of life cycle. Before social security, each household had several generations living under one roof, including members of the extended family and they often died in their own bed, with family members gather to say their last goodbye.
Now we send the dying to hospitals and to hospices where we are demanding to use the best in technology that money can buy to delay the inevitable by a few months, even a few years, even when it is obvious that the dying person has long ceased to enjoy his former life; even when it is clear that the dying person can no longer recognize us or interact with us they he or she used to. And thus, we just sit and wait for the person to die.
There have been several studies that showed that individual medical costs soar during the last six months of a person's life.
And we, the family members, who often live miles away and see our family member only a few times a year, now demand that every measure be used to prolong the life by a few months or a few years.
And we sit and wait for the person to die. The family of Terri Schiavo should have said their goodbyes years ago, but for their own reasons, not the least is the refuse to accept that a child should die before the parent - her parents refused to let her go.
And now we are watching the Pope on his last journey. Again, instead of leaving him alone, we prop him in front of thousands in St. Peter's Square for a miserable spectacle of an old, sick man, who has had a rich life.
Why can't we accept the fact that death is a normal part of life cycle, accept it and concentrate on our lives before that? Why not keep loving relations with our family members before they start their last journey, and then demand expensive procedures to alleviate our guilt feeling?
Rest in peace Terri. What a sad story, what a waste.
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No one replied to this one:
Simple hostility?
Not just for cyclists.
The Race Across America website reported about one of the women finalists and, almost as an aside, has this sentence: At 6.28 a.m. Valentin Zeller of Austria crossed the line after a ride, the low point of which was almost certainly being dowsed with gasoline by passing motorist near Camdenton, Missouri.
http://www.raceacrossamerica.org/files/raam2005/2005_da...And I was thinking that this fits into the hostility and polarization that RWers exhibit toward the rest of us. In general, I think that liberals prefer the human power activities of hiking, cycling, skiing camping and sail boating, while RWers like "power": big machines, big guns, big cars big boats..
Here in the Twin Cities, the parking lot of REI has the highest concentration, eve now, of Kerry/Edwards bumper stickers, while Cabella is clearly Bush country.
Trying to intimidate cyclists, mostly in red states, just fit into the hostility of the talk radio crowd. They have reached an age where they realize that they are not going to be as successful as they were hoping to and, of course, are looking for a scapegoat. And Limbaugh and his ilks are the perfect outlet for this: liberals! Hillary! Feminazi, etc.
Never mind that the jobs that normally would be theirs: unskilled factory ones, have disappeared thanks to the "market force" supporters.
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