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A) Many coworkers don't drink. Seriously.
B) I am not full time yet. They brought me in first as a contractor. As such, I'm still in a slightly tenuous place and while they love my work I'm deliberately expendable for a time period.
Having said all of that - there is one woman who is my only true "friend" at work right now. (I make friends slowly unless I'm working among geeks.) Her husband is conservative, so is she, but she has a heart and thinks that N.O. is WRONG WRONG WRONG. She almost started crying when I was telling her about the Rafiki dog story on Oprah, which almost set ME off.
We talk during lunch once a week. I made it clear to her my views, and that I don't like * at all, and she didn't criticize me so I'm currently treading very gently with her. Don't want to offend her, as she's my one friend. She actually came up with some good comments in our last lunch together. I told her that I didn't want people abusing welfare any more than anyone else, but that the government MUST be a safety net at some point. (Like after a hurricane.)
She agreed and made the point, "You know Bob (her husband) goes off on welfare mothers, etc. but I can't help but think, ' What if that's what I grew up with? What if my mother was that way and I knew no differently how to live? I can't judge them!'
So she's got a heart. She's a christian conservative, but one who is more that way because she's a Christian, not because she's heartless.
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