Where's the 'I am 32 & living alone - does that make me a lesbian?' thread

[StellaBlue]

If anybody can tell me I would appreciate it - I wanted to read it last week but was using a freeper's PC so didn't get the opportunity...

Thanks!

[devilgrrl]

1. Uhhhhh....

That's I'm 41 and not married....

I said what I said and that's all there is to it. :shrug:

Leave us boring nerdy single people alone. And leave gay people alone while you are at it.

[Inland]

2. Oh, that concluded. We all decided that

if you were 32, living alone, and a man, you weren't a lesbian.

[ET Awful]

3. Oh damn, I was hoping I was . . .

I'm too old anyway, I'm 36 and living alone. :evilgrin:

[Inland]

9. Sorry, you are too old to be a lesbian. 32 and out. nt

[nonconformist]

4. But I'm 32 and married w/kids

can I be a lesbian anyway?

[Inland]

10. With gay marriage legal, yes.

We have to remember that being married now includes same sex marriage.

[StellaBlue]

5. uh...

I just innocently want to know where that thread is, as it looked interesting - that was really the subject line!

As a woman who has always suspected she "wasn't the marrying kind", I wanted to read it!

[devilgrrl]

6. Fine...

but you'll have to wait until the search feature is reactivated. There's a lot of traffic here, try a search later on today.

[Seansky]

7. Actually, I think it was about 41-42, and I AM 38 and responded to it

something as follows:

With the divorce rate as it is...

Female, 38 years old, wonderfully active relationship with with male partner for almost 8, not bad looking and rather a successful professional, Latin blood, and choose not to get marry 'cause, unless one plans to have kids, WHY mess up with something wonderful?

Anyway, it was a good thread.

And, if this is about Drier or Roberts, the bad thing there is that they might be too much of hypocrites...

[NNadir]

8. I was 32 and was living alone until I moved in with my future wife.

Later we got married and much later we had two kids.

We started living together in October, 3/4 of the way through the year.

This does mean I am 3/4 lesbian? Do I lose some fraction of my lesbianism for being a man?

[StellaBlue]

12. 32

and unmarried... isn't a tragedy for a man - only for a woman.

[LizMoonstar]

11. huh.

see, i always assumed that if you were a woman who liked to have sex with women, but not with men, then you were a lesbian, but probably not otherwise. silly me!

now i want to see this thread!

[charlie]

13. Link

http://www.democraticunderground.com/discuss/duboard.php?az=view_all&address=104x4839429

[StellaBlue]

14. Thank you, thank you, thank you!