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Edited on Fri Oct-17-03 07:26 PM by ant
Carries a different implication than "I hate tomatoes," don't it?
But first, Never? Emotions are part of being human.
Yes, they are, and they can be wonderful things. However, I've found that in discussing issues that carry a heavy if not primarily emotional meaning for people, all logic flies out the window and it's impossible to discuss things rationally. I am not saying that's the case here, but the nature of the subject does make it vulnerable to that sort of thing.
In fact, I'll take this opportunity to say that as clear as it is to me that you are quite emotionally involved in this issue I really appreciate the way you're able to not take things personally and still think clearly. It's a rare and admirable trait.
In fact, I suspect if you can't feel all warm and gooey about the little things, you are just kidding yourself about the big stuff.
And I would agree, but the fact that someone doesn't feel warm and gooey about the same little things you feel warm and gooey about doesn't really mean anything.
I'm an old lady and my entire life I've tried to be brutally honest with myself about myself, which is not an easy thing.
And I'm a younger lady who's tried to be the same way.
Ultimately we're all just little ripples in time, but that doesn't mean I'll never buy shoes again.
Well that's good...so long as they're practical shoes.
I suspect -- and I could be very wrong, as I don't know you -- that you have a fear of intimacy that has got you bottled up from yourself and your own emotions. This is a common thing and could explain why emotions frighten you. I would have written a lot of the same stuff you are writing when I was younger.
I can appreciate why you would think that, but it's not true. I have often been told that I have a matter of fact heartlessness to me, but those who know me would laugh at that. Love of family, of friends, and of romantic partners are connections I value greatly. Love of country is not, probably because my personal relationships have crossed so many borders. That's all you're seeing here.
In fact, I often think that my strong left-brainyness makes me a stronger person emotionally. I am not afraid to show vulnerability, fear, intimacy, or any of those things, because it doesn't make sense to fear those things. Like you said, you end up closing yourself off from the world and causing more harm than good. It's just not rational.
You seem to want to run away from the concept of country. What's wrong with country? If I can fall in love with a man, or a cat, or children, why can't I be in love with a country?
You can be in love with a country, but the problem I have with patriotism is that it's love of your country.
I love India. I have a great admiration and respect for the values they've displayed in the context of nuclear disarmament. However, I've never been there, never held citizenship there, etc. Would you call my love of India patriotism? I'm not sure what you'd call it but it doesn't strike me as a passion that fits the definition of patriotism.
I don't mind the concept of country. Like I said, it has its place in other situations. In a discussion about patriotism, though, no, I don't like it. It's group think on the basis of superficial qualities.
All I've said is that this emotional reaction on the basis of country alone doesn't make sense to me.
And I don't like olives. I used to not like liver, but lately it's starting to taste better. Which is another way of saying that we're all different. Also, just because you haven't experienced something doesn't mean that someone else's experiences are not valid.
And I never said that.
I'll point out, though, in terms of the exchange in our subject lines: so you're liking liver 'cause it tastes better. You like/dislike foods because of the way they taste to you, but good taste is common to many different foods, correct?
So...why do you like America? Are the qualities that make the US good not also found in other countries? Is it those qualities you like or the US that you like?
If it weren't for patriotism -- the real thing -- the U.S. would have become some kind of extremist facist/theocratic mess a long time ago. Patriots in many lands have accomplished awesome things. You are stuck in the "jingoism/natonalism" mode, it seems. You should learn some history.
Probably. I would be curious to hear about reformers in any country that were motivated by love of country itself rather than just a strong sense of justice and a belief in human rights. I don't think feminists were motivated by love of America, for instance, they were motivated by a love of equal rights and a desire to improve the lives of women (and not just American women).
This particular discussion is in the context of American political dialogue, and how the Right Wing is controlling that dialogue by controlling language. In my lifetime I've seen people shrink away from admitting they were liberals because the "L" word became a pejorative.
I can understand the practical need to develop a concept of patriotism that counters the right-wing version. I understand the political aspect of this, but that's not what I've been talking about. I saw this more as an opportunity to discuss the merits of patriotism itself. If all you're interested in is a politically useful tool then I'll concede that internal consistency is not really required, and that's probably why I'll never be elected to public office.
And I've met young women who fully believe in gender equality but who don't admit to being feminists because they think that means they don't shave their armpits. Whatever.
Yes, well, you'll get no argument from me on that one. Sigh. I opened this dialogue because I wanted to discuss the issue with others, and in so doing enhance my own understanding. Patriotism is a many-faceted thing. It IS love of country, but what does that mean? What is "love"? What is "country"? Don't accept surface definitions.
That's what I've been trying to get at! What is country? What is it you actually love? My position is that what you're seeing as country really has nothing at all to do with country but simply human relations and issues that transcend national borders. What you seem to love is NOT unique to the US, so it can't be the US itself that you actually love, and so therefore what you're describing is NOT patriotism.
This is what I've been talking about, by the way. I'm not that concerned with the political dimension you mention elsewhere.
What I've said is that patriotism is not jingoism, and it's not nationalism, and that words mean things.
Again, I understand what patriotism is NOT in your eyes, but I have yet to hear a definition that is consistent with at least the idea of loving/valuing country. Like you said, words mean things, and you can't take the love of country part out of patriotism.
Why should I, indeed? Frankly, I find it useful to butt heads with people, so here I am.
I find it useful as well, just don't expect people to respect your opinions when they have fundamental disagreements with the values those opinions are based on. Hey, it's nothing personal. ;)
You ARE aware that international issues are discussed here, right?
That's not what this thread is about, though, is it?
No, but the point you were originally making was that: This web site is all about American politics, espcially national American politics, and one might assume that if you are a participant on this forum that you give a shit about American politics on a national level. If not, why are you here?
The assumption seems to be that taking an interest in American politics = love of America/patriotism. My point was that that's a huge leap to make. And yes, that IS what this thread is about.
There's some truth in that, but it so happens I'm in the U.S. Take care of what's in front of you.
Right. Again, though, I don't see what that has to do with patriotism. "It so happens..." Your location is a coincidence. It's not fundamental to the values you're expressing here.
And mothers are very focused on their own children, which is why we've survived as a species. There's nothing wrong with that.
This isn't the same thing, though. There's a logic to focusing on your own children. Survival, making sure your genese survive, etc. I don't see that same logic in focusing on USers over people from other countries. I live on the east coast, and I have as much of a personal investment in the people of Oregon as I do in the people of China. My activism may focus on the people in the DC metro area, but again, that's not patriotism.
By taking care of my country in a liberal sense I benefit all countries. If I abandon my country to the neocons I am leaving those other countries to the wolves, so to speak, because an America given over to the neocons would be a terrible thing for the rest of the world.
I don't see what you're describing here as patriotism. I see it as being an active part of your community and the world it lives in, and it's something that people in communities all over the world feel. Again, I feel like you're trying to take the "love of country" part out of patriotism, and I just don't think that's possible. If you do that you're no longer talking about patriotism.
What about the forums on this board that deal with international issues? What about the foreign nationals who participate on this board? Where do they fit in in this point you keep making about DU being all about American national politics?
We're discussing American national politics on this thread. If you want to talk about something else, start your own thread.
We're not discussing national politics, though, we're discussing patriotism. Again, I understand the political component of that, and if that was your point in these comments about DU then I see your point, but your initial comments seemed to be aimed more at a connection between concern for issues and love of the country those issues take place in, so now I'm confused about what point you were trying to make in the first place.
Edited to add, just in case, that I do not hate Pakistan. I was just making a point.
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