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Legal immigrants wait a long time doing it the right way
I will be waiting bloody years before I get right of passage into the United States to be with my partner in her country legally.
It does pain me to no end to see some of the comments I have seen here at DU over the past say eight months concerning immigrants, both legal and illegal.
A lot of LGBT couples ae FORCED to have their foreign partner stay in the United States illegally, because they have no other option. With what Bush* is doing, it will in fact give those LGBT couples a legal option to keep their partner in the country.
As someone who hates Bush* so much, but feels the pain of being torn away, not just from my partner, but a country I have loved for the longest of time this whole situation is tearing me apart.
You see, Sapphocrat and I decided a long time ago that if I was to stay in the United States it would be through a legal channel. We did not want to risk our relationship and do something illegal, because if we were caught, it would mean prison time for her, deportation for me, and most likely no other avenues for us to be together. Yet, with this so called amnesty Bush* is creating, had I stayed in the country illegally, it would have given me a right of passage, and Sapphocrat and I would be living together in the United States. That, would make life so much easier for us, and would take away a lot of the pain and guilt Sapphocrat feels, because her country has rejected me, treated her as a second class citizen, and the most important, the guilt she feels for things, because of family obligations.
And belive me, I do know how many here feel. Yes this will take jobs away from American citizens, hell Sapphocrat has been unemployed since the dot com crash of 2000, and I would love nothing more than for her to experience her own independance again by working. But what Bush*s propsal is actually planning on doing is giving the option of immigrants filling jobs that the American citizen doesn't want. (i.e: fruit picker, etc.)
I may get flamed because of what I am saying here, but you know what? I don't care. I have lived apart from Sapphocrat for near on two years now. In the last two years we have had the pleasure of each others company without computers and telephone lines between us for the grand total of 56 days. I am hurt. She is hurt. We are both tired of the forced separation, and because of the situation we are in, it has changed both our views concerning immigration, greatly.
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