who here has done, contemplated, or discussed doing what Jack Ryan did?

[Beaker]

Poll question: who here has done, contemplated, or discussed doing what Jack Ryan did?

Republicans apparently do it(or at least attempt to do it)...what about those red-blooded Democrats?
have any of our fellow DU'ers and their signifigant others followed thru with their fantasies?

[eyesroll]

1. I take it you mean consentually...

It was alleged that Jack Ryan dragged his wife into the clubs and tried to coerce her into participating.

[Fenris]

2. That's kind of strange

I mean, if you're into kink like that, you're entitled. But what he did is allegedly nonconsensual, so it's very, very wrong.

[pocket]

3. I've done a couple before

but not at a club.

Hell, I was in commercial porn once. (softcore, though)

[aquart]

4. Are you trying to whitewash Ryan?

Because that's what this looks like.

No sale.

[Beaker]

10. ????

i don't understand what you mean by that...? my wife and I have been to a few clubs, and I was wondering how many others might have done the same...

[DrWeird]

5. That's absolutely disgusting.

I'd never run for office as a republican.

Yuck. I need a shower.

[Career Prole]

6. I get plenty of hassles from one.

No way am I letting in reinforcements.
:thumbsdown:

[nothingshocksmeanymore]

7. It isn't about swinging...it's about one partner setting the other partner

up to do things they don't want to do.

If both parties to a couple are in a space of permissiveness with one another and go for it, then fine...if a man sets his partner up to do something she doesn't wish to do and basically forces her into it...then he's not treating her as his partner or his equal...he's treating her as though she is a tramp and a cheap piece of shit...and yeah...I've been on that end of it...and not felt good about it.

[Beaker]

11. no...this poll is about swinging.

if you want to start one about one partner setting the other partner...blah, blah, blah, -feel free.

[nothingshocksmeanymore]

12. NO you said would I do what Ryan did and I answered the question

Next time ask if I would swing and I'll answer that question...and the answer is NO....I grew up a few years back...and in my experience most people into those kind of sex trips have major esteem issues.....fantasies aside...

[Doug Decker]

8. It's not what they did...

it's how he treated his wife (badly).

[Rabrrrrrr]

9. Crossed my mind in fantasy, I'd never do it actually, would never ask

So I guess my answer is "other".

Though I see nothing wrong with doing it, and it's fun to fantasize about, it just ain't me.

[supernova]

13. Jack Ryan apparently thinks the people around him are his property

to do with as he wishes. :puke: That's not sexy in any dimension that I know of.

Now that I got that out of my system, it might be titillating to read about once in a while, but I'm not inclided to do it. Sex is too emotional for me.

[LostInAnomie]

14. If I had his wife I would be up for anything.

YUM!!!

[burythehatchet]

15. 7 of 9 - sweeeeet