You know what really is dissapointing

[HEyHEY]

Finding at the bar last night - second hand. That apperently a good friend that I respect and admire quite a bit... does Cocaine sometimes. I don't know how much or whatever. But I went outside for a half hour, came back he was gone, I asked his buddy where he went and he said, "I think he just went to do some Charlie." I was very...shocked. I am wondering if two of the others, two girls that I have always held in high regard, are doing it too. I don't wanna break off contact, but I've always made it a policy of not hanging around with people who do HARD drugs, I'm not a chem-prude, I just dislike all that can come with it and prefer to be distanced. What would you do? DItch em? or Not

[Maple]

1. Find out for sure first

Don't just take somebody else's word for it.

Then make your choice.

[HEyHEY]

2. Yeah

I figured that'd be best to. I'm just not real good at confronting someone like that about something like that. I don't want it to totally destroy the friend ship.

[Maple]

3. Well you don't have to confront them

Tell him what his buddy said and then just ask.

[Wolfman 11]

4. maybe...

he actually went out to do Charlie. Do you have another friend named Charlie?

[HEyHEY]

5. No..but he is gay..so maybe

wait that's a unisex name isn't it!

[CanuckAmok]

6. Same thing happened to us last year...

...at a farewell party for some friends moving from Seattle to LA. They excused themselves into a bedroom several times, to do blow with people who had brought for the special occasion. Until that night. we had no idea they were into the hard stuff, and Mrs. Amok has a nose (no pun intended) for detecting coke-heads.

We didn't have to make the decisopn you're making, however, because our friends moved to LA, and we haven't seen them since!