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ScreamingMeemie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Sep-09-03 10:44 PM
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Arrrgggghhhhh!!! My daughter asked me if she could join the Civil Air
Patrol. It's a junior freeper kind of thing. She helped them out this weekend at a festival and now she is all gung ho to join. I think she met a cute boy or something. She is 13 and we usually okay anything she wants to try out, but this group seems like so much brainwashing of 13-21 year olds. HELP!!!!!
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sugargoose Donating Member (270 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Sep-09-03 10:46 PM
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1. Make her write an essay
Explaining what positions of theirs she supports and why.

Maybe if she really looks at it she won't find so much in common with them
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ScreamingMeemie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Sep-09-03 10:54 PM
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7. Good idea, and thanks. We did this when she wanted to make her
first Communion, and we had suspected she wanted the pretty white dress. Thanks for your input.
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Corgigal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Sep-09-03 10:50 PM
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2. I don't think so
My husband was in it because he liked the kids. I was active duty Air Force and I'm not a Freeper. If shes like most kids she will join, get her uniform and within 6 months she will move onto something else.
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ScreamingMeemie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Sep-09-03 10:53 PM
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4. I am somewhat relieved to hear this, thank you. The brochures she
Edited on Tue Sep-09-03 11:38 PM by MrsGrumpy
was given turned my stomach quite a bit. I am truly hoping it is the cute guy thing. I hope I did not offend you in any way, shape or form, I just read the info and it didn't sound very appealing. If I did offend you, I offer apologies.

I have an Uncle (ret. Lt. Colonel in AF) and I just sent and email to him asking advice.

Thanks again, Laura
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Corgigal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Sep-09-03 10:54 PM
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6. No problem
The kids do make nice friendships. Also they do check out the adults but make sure anyway. I would like my 13 year old join the Civil Air Patrol but do my damnest not to allow her to join the military.
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Jack_Sparrow Donating Member (59 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Sep-09-03 10:51 PM
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3. time for bed
I thought that said "Civil War" before clicking the link.... :eyes:
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ScreamingMeemie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Sep-09-03 10:53 PM
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5. Nighty night. Methinks you've had too much rum.
:-)
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Jack_Sparrow Donating Member (59 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Sep-09-03 10:56 PM
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8. or I am just an incurable history geek!
But WHY the rum???
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Democrats unite Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Sep-09-03 11:10 PM
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9. Mrs. Grumpy how much do you know about...
Civil Air Patrol? I was in the Civil Air Patrol In Florida in the late 70's early 80's. I thought it to be a wonderful experience. Our main mission was to fly daily flights along the S.W. coast of Florida looking for stranded boats or people lost in the ocean. There was nothing political about it. We were a buch of kids, supervised by a bunch of adult pilots. Our one goal was to help people. Please do not destroy my teeange memories and tell me that is not what it is about today.
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ScreamingMeemie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Sep-09-03 11:37 PM
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21. Not much. That is why I am here. The woman who had approached my
daughter is a staunch God,Bush and American power kind of person, so I was rightfully concerned. I will have to look into it farther. Thanks.
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BurtWorm Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Sep-09-03 11:11 PM
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10. Are there any communist cells in your neighborhood
with cute 13 year old boys in them? (Always offer alternatives.)
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BiggJawn Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Sep-09-03 11:22 PM
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11. "Junior Freeper Thing"???
Thanks a fuckin' BUTTLOAD!

I was a Cadet Warrant Officer in the CAP from 1973 to 1977...
Search and Rescue was our game.

You really slap the face of all the men and women and young folks who've served in the CAP since WWII.
We bombed U-Boats,(and maybe sunk one) when Adm. King insisted that the East Coast was safe from Doenitz (what an ass)
We have spent uncounted man-hours searching for lost aircraft and rescuing downed fliers.

I swear, just because there's uniforms involved, some people IMMEDIATELY start thinking "Hitler Jugend"...

Your daughter could do a lot worse.
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ScreamingMeemie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Sep-09-03 11:32 PM
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14. Direct quotes from the brochure I received....
"In these times of National upheaval..."

"Many of our cadets go on to rewarding careers in the military"

Letter from Mother of cadet, "It has renewed our faith in God, that HE in his infinite wisdom, brought my son to service for his country"

These things bother me, I asked a question, I won't apologize for being worried, but I do apologize that you took offense.
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BiggJawn Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Sep-09-03 11:44 PM
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22. Oh. NO! That's not the CAP I was in...
I'm sorry I jumped you, Mrs.G...

Yeah, some did go into the Air Force (I thought the recruiter was too "eager" and smelled a Rat)but it wasn't pushed that hard (hell, how could you keep a squadron up to strength if all your kids were running away to Lackland instead of becoming Senior Members?)
And we did have a "Squadron Chaplain" (A kindly old Catholic Priest who wasn't into prosletyzing) but there was none of this "For GOD, Country, and FUHERER!" crap.

It used to be a great organization, pilots helping other pilots, and in some squadrons, a really cheap way for young folks to learn how to fly airplanes.

Sounds like the bastards have "Homeland Securitied" even this.
CAP is (was?) an Auxilliary of the USAF, not a part of Tommy Timber-toes' underfunded "Homeguard"

Maybe you should talk to the Squadron Commander, see if he's all gung-ho "Be vewwy,vewwy kwiet, we're hunting Al-Kaydee..." or not....
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Catch22Dem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Sep-09-03 11:23 PM
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12. I take offense
Where do you get "Jr. Freeper Thing?" Quite the contrary. CAP is a great thing for kids to get into. I won't take the time to extol the virtues here, but give it an honest look. I was in CAP for several years and I'm no Senior Freeper.
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ScreamingMeemie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Sep-09-03 11:33 PM
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16. Ummm,it's run out of a Church basement, they go on an annual hunting
trip (some of them). It was a concern of mine folks, if you took the time to read. I was asking for advice, not making a final decision. Thanks for jumping all over me. I guess I thought I could find good advice here?
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Catch22Dem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-10-03 12:29 AM
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24. WOW!
Not the kind of CAP I was a member of in the 80s. Not at all. We did really cool stuff. I remember I was about 14 years old, a plane went down in western Okla. We went in and did the searching. I did two days of searching and on the third day was asked to work the radios in the tower of this little tiny airstrip. Of course I had supervision, but this guy pretty much let me do all the talking and directed me on how to keep track of the 4 or 5 planes we had in the air, along with the half dozen ground teams. I was 14 and felt like I was running NORAD. It truly was the experience of a lifetime. Unfortunately, the wreckage was found, and there were no survivors.
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ScreamingMeemie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-10-03 12:37 AM
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27. That does sound really interesting and something she would like.
I will have to check into it, and the background of this particular group, again...thanks.
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Catch22Dem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-10-03 12:31 AM
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25. I didn't jump all over you did I?
At least I don't feel like I did. Anyway...apologies if that's how it came across. I'm also former Air Force, and thing CAP is a great experience for kids. My advice is (if you live in a large enough city) find another CAP Squadron. Sounds like the "Church Basement" Squadron is a joke. The best ones are the ones around AF bases and Guard bases. That's where the kids really get to learn about some really neat things.
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ScreamingMeemie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-10-03 12:34 AM
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26. Thank you very much for your advice. My husband told me I was
unusually "grumpy" tonight, so maybe I took you wrong. Please accept my sincere apologies. :toast:
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Don_G Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Sep-09-03 11:26 PM
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13. Civil Air Patrol?
Kinda of a Pilot's Asssociation that helps out in Air Searches when a plane goes down in the state you're in?

The Air Force supports it, but the Air Force isn't a rabid bed of idiots either. NASA picks and chooses from the best, and I recall an actor by the name of "Jimmy" Stewart retiring as a General from the USAF well after his combat action during WWII.

Besides, I got certified to fly single and twin-engined planes.

It was fun, but I never got to meet a lot of girls my age....
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ScreamingMeemie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Sep-09-03 11:34 PM
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18. Thank you for your input and for not jumping all over me.
These kids mostly seem to help out at church functions.
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Don_G Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-10-03 12:57 AM
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29. Just Speaking From My Experience....
As a Mom, you know better than I ever could....

As a Du'er, you're looking for informed input; I just wish everything and everyone on this Forum worked in the same manner....

Hard not to raise a child right without listening to every source availabile and...ultimately...doing what's right.....
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PassingFair Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-10-03 07:57 PM
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44. Mrs. Grumpy...
Is this a Catholic organization? Several other posters have indicate the presence of Catholic clergy. Did all of you guys meet in churches?
Just curious...
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ScreamingMeemie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-10-03 09:01 PM
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45. PassingFair, this one -it seems- is more catholic than the rest, I am
hearing. But, the brochure is very Christian oriented and is published by the CAP organization. So right now, the jury is out.

I was raised a Catholic, as you may know, and had never heard of it. But then, I have spent most of my life under a rock, which is what most AOL posters liked to remind me of...often, using more vulgar terms.

I am still thinking this is all about some cute guy named Zack. Be on the lookout for mentions of Zack during afternoon gab sessions at casa PF.
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FlaGranny Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Sep-09-03 11:32 PM
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15. My son spent several years in the CAP.
He loved it. He's not a freeper. He's very, very liberal. He got his radio operators license in the CAP. The CAP patrolled our coastlines looking for submarines in WWII. They search for downed airplanes. They are a good thing.
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ScreamingMeemie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Sep-09-03 11:35 PM
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19. Glad to hear that, Thank you. Nothing in the literature I received
mentioned anything of that nature.
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Ellen Forradalom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Sep-09-03 11:33 PM
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17. One of my recent colleagues was involved with Civil Air Patrol
He was a doofus with a bad moustache who had me do half his thinking. But they may not all be that way. Keep an open mind.
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ScreamingMeemie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Sep-09-03 11:36 PM
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20. Thank you, that's what I am trying to do. Seems like a lot of sore toes
here though, whoops, my mistake.
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FlaGranny Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-10-03 12:23 AM
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23. It's easy to step on toes around here.
:-) I'm sure this would be a good experience for your daughter. It is another life experience. While my son was in the CAP, he was "on duty" at the radio one Saturday when he witnessed a small plane crash on takeoff (no air traffic controllers - small airport). He was the first to call for help. Unfortunately the pilot was killed. My son was interviewed by the local papers. The interview was a very good experience for him. He learned that you cannot always believe what you read in the papers. They did NOT get the interview right. But, as I said, the CAP can be a worthwhile life experience.
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BeHereNow Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-10-03 12:44 AM
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28. Show her the pictures from Iraq!
If that doesn't work, lock her up for the next twenty years!
Holy Shite! If my kid wanted to do that I would chain her to
my ankle!
BHN
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FireHeart Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-10-03 04:22 AM
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30. I was in CAP
Long time ago. I found it to be a very interesting experience and my love of flying was enhanced a great deal.

I honestly don't know what it is like today. But back then, we had a marvelous time and we learned a great deal.

Unfortunately, during those days, it was "male only" and females couldn't get a foot in the door. Times change, thankfully. Your daughter might find a whole new world opening for her.

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JohnKleeb Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-10-03 04:52 AM
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31. say what
Your choice Mrs G, I dont know. I myself got freaked out by the ROTC people, and I never plan to join.
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FlaGranny Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-10-03 09:19 AM
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41. ROTC and CAP are two entirely different things.
CAP are civilian pilots mentoring kids and doing search and rescue.
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Booberdawg Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-10-03 05:17 AM
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32. I WOULD LOCK HER IN HER ROOM FOR THE NEXT 10 YEARS!
Just kidding - I was doin' a Skittles. :D

I thought at first it said Civil "War"!!:o

We are both parents - I've seen enough of you to know you are one of the pretty level headed people around here. You have received some good advice, and if it's just a cute boy thing you will handle that well. If it develops into an interest in the group I have no doubt your good influence would override any feeper inclinations of the woman who approached your daugher.

Yer gonna be okay. ;)
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JohnKleeb Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-10-03 05:19 AM
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33. Boober our eye sight must be the same because I made the same intial
judgement. If you really wanted to do a skittles you would add a swear or two a fuck or damn.
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Booberdawg Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-10-03 05:58 AM
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34. Hi John!
Well, a fuck or damn wasn't really appropriate in this case, or I would have. :hi:
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Booberdawg Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-10-03 05:59 AM
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35. BTW, what are you doing up on a school night anyway???
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ScreamingMeemie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-10-03 07:52 AM
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38. Thank you! Funny, when I posted this I said to myself,"Self, there are
going to be some people who are going to read this as Civil War, because I myself did. hahahaha.

Thanks for your backup, have a great day.

Laura
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trof Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-10-03 06:18 AM
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36. I was in the CAP
back in the 50s. I don't remember having a chaplain.
The HQ is here in Alabama, at Maxwell AFB.
Happened to run into the local commander at a meeting yesterday. If I understood him right, the CAP (at least in AL) has opted out of the HSA. Interestingly, it would cost too much in admin costs (which would not be reimbursed by HSA) to participate. HSA is beginning to sound like a paper tiger.

Sounds like CAP is kind of like Boy Scout troops & such. They are different from place to place and may reflect the biases of the organizers. If this one doesn't look good, then I'd advise against it.

I had fun in my squadron. Got out of school a few times to search for missing aircraft. Found one once and that wasn't so fun.
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ScreamingMeemie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-10-03 07:51 AM
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37. Thank you for your response. I am going to do some more research
and possibly look into other groups, because alot of what I am hearing is good stuff, and this group didn't portray any of this.

Thanks Again,Laura
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Braden Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-10-03 08:18 AM
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39. not a freeper thing
I knew several people who did it in their youth and loved it.

Young Republicans = BAD
CAP = Good
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LuLu550 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-10-03 09:09 AM
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40. DYSLEXIA STRIKES!
I read that "my daughter wants to be in the Civil War"...and thought
:wtf: ?????
I'm such a moron I should run for "presidnet."
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Kamika Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-10-03 09:33 AM
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43. why not
You would be able to read the speeches better then Bush
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CanuckAmok Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-10-03 09:29 AM
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42. "Brainwashing"?? Are you kidding? Lee Harvey Oswald...
was a member...and he turned out alright.
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