Are men in general just cold or is it just me?

[Lady Freedom]

Do they have to threat you like dirt when you tell them the line not to cross? Or that your not THAT easy?hummmmmmmm! :grr:

[Cheswick2.0]

1. I have no idea, care to give a few more details?

What happened?

[BigMcLargehuge]

2. some of us aren't

I'm not. I stay inside the lines.

[Brucey]

3. Yes. IN GENERAL, men are cold.

But some men are warm.

[KG]

4. stone cold, that's me!

:smoke:

[Lady Freedom]

5. Just because I won't...

Put out on a first date with a guy, he breaks the date before we go out, a day before, over my E-mail! Just because I tolled him I wouldn't put out!!!!!! :grr:

[BurtWorm]

6. That is disgusting. And cold.

And at least you found out before you went out.

[ForrestGump]

10. F*** him, then.

No, I mean, to heck with him. Hopefully he'll get tired of being rebuffed and start to get a clue but, really, who needs someone like that?

Move on, Lady - plenty better out there (somewhere!).

[SOteric]

11. So, I guess you he saved you the trouble

of having to sort out whether he really liked you; or whether he was just in it for the horizontal Tango.


Personally, I've known some incredibly wonderful men - so I know they're out there. Good bye and good riddance to this one.

[ForrestGump]

12. Yeah, like that old song:

na-na-na-na, hey-hey, kiss him goodbye...

(but don't even kiss the sumbitch)

[DEM FAN]

7. Cold. I Don't Think So. When I Have The Chance I Will Treat A Woman

Like The Goddess She Is. ;-)

[RandomKoolzip]

8. As a man, I'd appreciate some clarity here.

What does "Threat you like dirt" mean? Please be more specific and do not generalize all of us with ad hominem leading questions like this.


Apparently, you rejected some guy recently? And he didn't take it well? The man's biological/societal role is to be forward, to initiate male-female contact. He does not like to be shot down. Get used to it; this will happen dozens of times before you die and it hurts both parties equally (men have feelings too.).

[Flying_Pig]

9. It must be you......

Of course, I can't speak for other men, but I am as warm as an Arizona sunset, and as cuddly as a puppy. Treating *anyone* like dirt is not my MO, unless, someone treats me badly. Sound like an a bad attitude is developing here!

[BurtWorm]

13. If you want to find out how not cold some men can be

go over to the favorite undergarment thread. :o

[ForrestGump]

14. No, we're all HOT over there.

Hot and bothered...

[Booberdawg]

15. Sounds like a loser to be rid of then.

Be thankful he saved you some time. Sounds like a real pig.

[ForrestGump]

16. Is this the doofus who messed with you?

[Booberdawg]

17. LOL! No, I've never had a guy do to me what happened to Lady Freedom

I wouldn't go near pigboy with a ten foot pole!

[ForrestGump]

18. Me neither, though mine isn't (quite) ten feet

:o

[Demobrat]

19. You told him in an email the day before the date not

to expect you to put out. So he took offense. Without knowing the details, I don't know that I blame him. Why did you expect him to try to get you into bed on the first date? Isn't he a gentleman? And if not, why would you even consider going out with him?

[kodi]

20. ah, i see ya'll must have already dispensed with the blacks and jews

and now its on to stereotyping men.

sorry i missed the lynchin'

[ClintonTyree]

21. I don't know..................

I'm what I consider a gentleman, polite, respectful and not looking for a quick jump in the hay. I've been shit on by more than a few women who apparently aren't looking for a "nice guy", although that's what they profess to want. I'm not talking doormat here, but a truly repectful, progressive man that treats a woman as an equal. It seems that they prefer jerks who'll take on the neanderthal persona and then want to "change them". So I guess it works both ways, lets face it , there are a plethora of assholes, both male and female. Sorry you've had a bad experience.

[sasquatch]

22. I'm very shy and cold

That's a double wammy:wow: