Have you ever been openly propositioned for sex by a stranger?

[Gothic Sponge]

I have been a few times...I never took the offers. Even if i found the girl attractive, i could never just have sex with a stranger. I'm not a prude, but i guess i'm old fashion. I've gotten much grief from male friends for not jumping into bed with these women.

:eyes:

[HEyHEY]

1. That depends on "Stranger" and "Openly"

[Tweed]

15. HA!

Very true HEyHEY, very true.

[dorktv]

2. Does online count?

[HEyHEY]

4. Stop bringing that up dammit!

I told you I was kidding.... :think:

[Wat_Tyler]

3. Yes.

And did. Mixed results, really.

[RagingInMiami]

5. Yes

But unfortunately, they've all been men.

[iconoclastic cat]

6. I'm with HEyHEY: Define "stranger."

What does that mean, exactly? No exchange of names or pseudonyms? Nope. First name only, after having met socially? Yeah, sure--I called it "college."

[Gothic Sponge]

9. example

A girl i had never met before came up to me and asked if i lived near by. I told her yes, and why? She said "take me there and fuck me."

[HEyHEY]

11. You met Canuckamok's mom?

[bloodyjack]

39. ZING

[iconoclastic cat]

12. Context is everything.

Not to turn this into The Red Shoe Diaries, but if you were at a rave or a club, this sounds like an everyday occurance. If you were at a parent-teacher conference, well, then, rock on!

[CatWoman]

7. you lying slut!!!!!!

not only did you take me up on my offer, you refused to go home afterward!!!!! :D

[Gothic Sponge]

14. Hehe! Sorry, but i was hungry and wanted dinner.

:)

[SarahB]

8. Yep.

Been propositioned a lot. Just sex in of itself is probably pretty easy to come by if that were all I was looking for in life. I'm with you though- never with someone I didn't know. I kissed a couple people I just met (a long time ago), but when it comes to sex, I have to know the person pretty well.

[ogradda]

10. of course.

i thought all girls were?:shrug:

[terrya]

13. Of course I have.

And sometimes it was great. Sometimes it was horrible.

T

[Taverner]

16. If only....

[karlrschneider]

17. Yes, hundreds of times, by both guys & girls. I accepted maybe 10%

of them...:eyes: (But not recently, this was long ago when I was younger and apparently somewhat attractive) ;-)

[MonkeyFunk]

18. Yeah. Recently.

I was out watching a band that my friend plays in and some Amazon woman from the moon pulled me onto the dance floor (I'm just a little guy, so anyone over 5-8 is an "Amazon"). After gyrating to one song she asked if I wanted to go to an afterhours party when the band was finished. I told her that I don't like parties with a bunch of strangers, and she told me that I was the only one invited. It kind of made my skin crawl. I said goodbye to my friends and slipped out the back door before Xena noticed.

[demnan]

19. Look,

I don't think there is any woman on the planet who hasn't been propositioned for sex, not once but at least a fifty times, and that's if you don't even visit bars and stuff.

Well that's just it. And the sex would not be good enough to sway most of us because, you know, that's just how it is.

[cry baby]

20. No! and I'm getting impatient!

[vpigrad]

21. I thought that only happened in movies!

I've never heared someone say they've been propositined by someone they didn't know. You learn something new everyday.

[B Calm]

22. Many many times, but always for a price..

[jellybelly]

23. yes...don't know why...

but at least they were all very attractive men:shrug:

[skygazer]

24. Sure

I've often wondered how often anyone says "yes" to those offers. I mean, it's one thing when you've been talking and flirting and drinking all night and you're young and foolish (though I had a strict rule that I had to at least know their last name - which translated to me asking in bed, "by the way, what's your last name?". Shoot me - it was the 70's) -

Where was I?

Oh, yeah - that's one thing. But when someone out of the blue asks for a blow job, I have to wonder if anyone has ever agreed to it.

[whodiedandmadeUSgod]

25. Does this count?

I was in a book store looking up at the shelves when young man came up to me and casually laid a bag at my feet. He was standing way too close and I felt uncomfortable when I looked down I saw his bag contained several sex toys. I walked away very freaked out. I'm a married lady so I usually don't visit bars etc without my hubby so that's as close as I've come to being offered sex with a stranger in a long time.
BTW I was looking at photography books.

[Parche]

26. strangers in the night

Depends on what "Is" is........................

and I need to be propositioned right now....I am at the Pubic Library

[whodiedandmadeUSgod]

31. Wait....let me find my bag.

[Piperay]

27. YES

being a female it happened to me quit often, even had it happen in the library. :shrug: I NEVER took anyone up on it, that's just not me.

[Solon]

28. I was propositioned by a prostitute once...

This is a weird story, but anyways, I was at a stoplight on the way home from work, it was after midnight and I was working security, in other words still had my uniform on. Anyways, this lady comes up to my car and says she has car troubles, so, being the nice guy I am, I pull into the Blockbuster parking lot at that light where she was waiting. As soon as I stop, she gets in the passenger side, I really should have locked my doors, anyways, she then told me she needed bus fare and she would give me a blow job for 20 bucks. I was like :wtf: I mean seriously, that is fucked up. So I said, no way in hell, and before you ladies think I'm lying, she was missing 2 front teeth, and was old enough to be my grandma, thanks by no way in hell. I gave her some pocket change I had, even then I had to be nice, and told her to get the hell out of my car. Still, :wtf: Still couldn't believe that shit, and from the outside of my car, I still technically looked like a cop.

[sniffa]

65. you passed on a gummer!!?

awww, i hear gummie bears are the best.

[Lone_Star_Dem]

29. Sure have.

Many, many times. I'm not into that, however.

Funny story. One guy actually tried to tell me he was a virgin and wanted me to be his first. Ummmm, ya, right. :eyes:

I wonder if that line has ever worked for him? :shrug:

[laheina]

30. Yup.

And it never fails to creep me out, especially when guys are agressive about it.

[Dzimbowicz]

32. Once upon a time I was a Marine

and naturally I was propositioned by many a prostitute, and I always declined. The fear of VD (or STDs as they are called today) has always caused me to keep my pants on. Seeing what gonorrhea did to some of the guys around me was enough for me to learn this lesson.

[DrZeeLit]

33. Yes... Once in Paris... a stranger asked for directions and then

held my hand and took me to dinner. We had a marvelous time. I tried to speak French and he tried to speak English. Candlelight. Great food. And the wine flowed. Talk of politics and art and religion -- all the topics mom said to avoid.

And we walked outside and in the glow of the streetlight, he kissed me.

But I didn't take him back to my hotel.

Later, my best friend asked me why.

And here were my REAL two reasons:

1) I didn't want the front desk at my teeny tiny hotel to think I was just another American ho ho ho.

and

2) I had not been single in about 15 years and wondered... how does one get out of pantyhose gracefully.

I do think about him sometimes.

[Hardrada]

34. I think so.

There was a girl in one of my college classes who mentioned a price to me for which she would do it but I never had any disposable income in those days so we just hung around the one area where the college had a jukebox. O yes, I did have a few "Let's go back to my place," suggestions in grad school but only a few ever amounted to anything.

[Wapsie B]

35. Yes.

Even me.

[hfojvt]

36. Mostly by guys, and usually because they could not see me

I found that the online chat service is actually a booty hunt and had three guys proposition me, sight unseen. Also, once I was walking to a grocery in Lincoln, Ne and this guy drives up and starts talking to me. It was a strange conversation, but it never mentioned sex. However, later I thought that he thought I was out cruising, as the neighborhood was known for, and if I had been, he was willing to pick me up.
Then recently a woman my age (40 something) started a conversation at a local quick stop and quickly offered to have sex with me if I bought ten dollars worth of drugs which she would split with me. Well, in the first place, I did not have $10 on me. In the 2nd place, it seemed like "an offer too good to be true" (a police sting, or set-up for a robbery). In the 3rd place, I do not do drugs. In the 4th place she was only moderately good looking. And so on.

[miss_kitty]

37. Of course I have!

:silly:

[northamericancitizen]

42. Have you ever read..

"Zippless fuck" by what's her name?

She wrote about meeting a stranger in a train, not too many words exchanged and pleasing each other.

I thought it was pretty exciting.


Like most women, I had many proposition. I refused most of them.

As a young woman (in my 20 and 30) I occasionally proposed to a good looking, sexy, stranger.

[FuzzySlippers]

44. "Fear of Flying" by Erica Jong?

And yeah. Of course. Every woman has been.

[miss_kitty]

47. fear of flying

erica Jong. yeah. When it first came out. Way exciting!:)

[jdonaldball]

38. Does having my leg humped by dogs count?

[bloodyjack]

40. Yes

I always declined, because I suppose I just don't have it in me to fuck a stranger if we share little more than a basic mutual attraction. The very act strikes me as being a bit beastly. Plus, do it enough times and you lose any shred of sexual innocence you may have had, and wind up an old slag incapable of loving.

Yeah.

[lazarus]

41. Yup

The worst part is when you're propositioned not quite so openly and don't figure it out for a while.

I was offered a three way once, and didn't figure it out until 12 hours later, after we had all shipped out (last night of Tech School in the Air Force).

I kicked myself in the ass for a good long while over that one. :silly:

[Seabiscuit]

43. Many times... but the most outrageous turned out to be the most direct:

In my mid-twenties I was living in Mission Beach and I'd just gotten up in the early morning and was walking north on the sidewalk to a breakfast joint when this good looking chick about my age walking towards me on the sidewalk caught my eye and blurted out: "wanna fuck"?

It was the early 70's. VD was rampant. I declined. Did I make a mistake?

[RadicalMom]

45. Human or animal?

[NorthernSpy]

46. ALL women have received such a proposition

I don't know why a person would want to ask a total stranger to do something like that. But then, there's a lot about people that I don't completely understand.

[RetroLounge]

48. Yes, a few times, way back in the day.

at least one of them was an amazing experience that I have never forgotten.

I will never ever hear Iggy Pop "I wanna be your dog" again and NOT think of that amazing woman...Sigh.

RL

[Dastard Stepchild]

49. Only once that I can really recall...

and not here in the U.S. It was when I was living in England. I was at a bar with a pal, and some rather drunk bloke pointedly asked me for sex. I started laughing because I thought he was kidding, but when I saw he wasn't, I skidaddled outta there.
Most people are much more subtle, but I'm sure the thought is there :)

[Left Is Write]

50. Yes, I have.

The most egregious example was a man who came up to me while I was on the payphone at a nightclub and said, "Do you want to come home and have sex with me?"

[ZenLefty]

51. Ask ZombyWoof about the svelte hottie with the nose ring

:o

[gollygee]

52. Yes

I was propositioned when I was 14 by an adult. I was walking to a 7/11 when I was 15 and was propositioned and offered money.

I've been propositioned a good number of times over my life.

[RetroLounge]

53. Does this count the time ZombyWoof hit on me?

:hi:

RL

[Frogtutor]

54. Do "cat-call" invitations count?

I think any reasonably attractive female who spends any time in public has had this happen...used to happen to me A LOT. Who knows if they're serious or not, though?

[GRLMGC]

55. I have a story about someone else

My friends were in choir in high school and they all took a trip to San Francisco (fabulous city, by the way). So they had some free time and were walking around and they ended up in a pretty seedy part of town. So they pass by this bar and there's this guy who turns around to one of the girls and, with a drink in one and and a cigarette in the other, thrusts his hips in a sexual motion and asks:"Do you want to join me for a session?"
Remarkably, she was about to answer when her friends pulled her away and ran.
I think it's a hilarious story.

[fluffernutter]

56. you're a good guy, Gothic. yes, i have.

i helped set up a dance club back in the day and was one of the managers, so of course it was a regular thing. it's fun to fantasize about, but i never could do it either.

[XNASA]

57. Oh that's the only kind of sex I ever have..............

When I'm propositioned by a stranger.

[Skittles]

58. HELLO - I'M FEMALE

nt

[SheWhoMustBeObeyed]

60. LOL - beat me to it

Of all the times, the worst was when I was waiting for a bus and two men in a car pulled up and solicited me. I was blandly dressed, it was broad daylight, but I was standing on a street corner so apparently I was open for business. :shrug:

[LDS Jock]

59. yes I have

having standards doesn't mean you are a prude

[Cuban_Liberal]

61. Several times.

I've only accepted once, and regret that I did.

[Orsino]

62. Well, the President...

...called, offering to screw me over, but it turned out that he wanted *me* to pay for it.

[buddhamama]

63. uh, yeah

i never took the offers, either.

[sniffa]

64. many a time

and usuaLLy by men (women are more discreet).

then, there's the prostitutes, but they're just working.

[underpants]

66. Yep-years ago two women followed our work truck back to work

It was a really crappy job but I was in unbelieveable shape and working outside (cutting grass) I had a great tan. They had been in the Hardee's we went to lunch at (I hadn't seent them) and they followed us back to where we were working.They pulled up (WITH the kids in the vehicle) and gave me their numbers. They said their husbands (Army wives) were out on training and well basically if I had called :bounce:

I didn't.

[tigereye]

67. that's cuz everyone loves those lawn guys, evidently,

UP. ;)

and yes, it was the 70s, in college, a time of too many bars, rock and roll and too much alcohol. This is back before casual sex carried "risk of death." And yes, most women have been propositioned by men in bars and elsewhere.

[edbermac]

68. NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

:cry::cry::cry::cry::cry::cry::cry::cry::cry::cry::cry::cry::cry::cry::cry::cry::cry::cry::cry::cry::cry::cry::cry::cry::cry::cry::cry::cry:

[Bertha Venation]

69. Yep. Working in the drive-thru at Del Taco.

The slime not only suggested I take a break so we could do it in his back seat, but got me to give him his meal for free. :eyes:

[DS1]

70. I've had to fight off my share of women now and then

believe it or not :shrug: