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...one of those goofy mats with a hose attached to a blower that you put in the tub, and it makes bubbles. You can adjust the blower so that it blows hot air bubbles...they aren't too expensive, and they are better than the ones that hang off the side of the tub (safer, too, as you can put the blower "machine" far far away from the tub, even outside the bathroom, if your bathroom isn't huge).
Tell her to try the hot bath right before bed. Have a turkey sandwich and some vanilla ice cream or a glass of milk as an evening snack (the calcium and tryptophan will make her sleepy, plus, it tastes good!).
I cannot stress the importance of sleep discipline enough. ROUTINE is the key, and the benadryls will knock her out (didja know that when the nurse in the hospital gives a patient something to help them sleep, it's a double dose of OTC benadryl? Great for sedating an injured pet, too, but you don't want to exceed one for a small to mid sized dog). Dim the lights, better, still, turn them OFF, soft, soothing, drift-away music on the timer, no TV. What may help, especially if she has pain in the lower quadrant of her back, is to get her one of those wedges so that she sleeps with her feet elevated, and her arms on pillows. Sounds odd, but it works. In the meantime, pile up a bunch of pillows and tell her to stick her legs up on them, almost as if she were sitting while lying flat on her back. This may sound counterintuitive, but she may also want to raise the head of her bed as well--helps with sinus draining and breathing. She can do this with pillows and wedges too--some people go so far as to put the front of the bed up on blocks (looks stupid, but some swear by it--the poor man's adjustable bed!). Beats sleeping in a barcolounger, which is one way to try to get comfortable. If she sleeps on her side, tell her to stick a good sized pillow between her legs from knee to ankle. If her mattress sucks, put a board under it short term, get a foam topper, whatever is needed to make the surface more welcoming...then, when circumstances and finances permit, start shopping for a better mattress.
As for excercise, gentle, mild exercise is best. No pounding runs, no working out with the heavy bag, no tai kwan do. I recommend water exercise. Three times a week to start, build up from there. Check with the local YMCA or community center, sometimes they have a geezer group for pool exercise in the HEATED pool (I lived in a town where they actually had a FIBROMYALGIA-specific workout in the pool, but that was just outside DC, where they have everything) -- you get to know an awful lot of very nice, very interesting old ladies at those things, they take you through range of motion, stretching, and so on, and it is totally NON IMPACT. She will actually, really FEEL BETTER afterward, with the right group and with a heated pool.
Good luck to you.
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