and this might be the only way to get parent to address the issue. Also might be the only way to get medical/mental health care for the kid.
Our society does not seem to place much value on care and parenting. We rely on TV to occupy their minds (and keep them out of our hair) and microwaveable foods they can nuke themselves to feed them. Our kids will have more problems because of it.
For some eye opening experiences, go to a local school, talk to the administrator and tell them you want to just observe classes. Do this several times. You all might be flabbergasted at how poorly prepared a lot of kids are to participate in the social setting of school. It is amazing how many kids simply do not know how to behave or respect others.
Then there are the kids who really are violent. They are real and they need to be taken seriously. They need help. If a six year old already has a history of attacking other people, seems likely he is pretty upset about something in his own life. Do we let the attacks continue and just hope the violence does not escalate or do we intervene? How do we help the child and protect the other kids too?
It is just not a good idea to ignore or treat lightly this sort of behavior when it occurs more than once. Kids have a tendency of ratcheting up their behavior until they
finally get a response.
News story from yesterday: 16 year old girl charged in death of another
http://www.14wfie.com/Global/story.asp?S=2864202&nav=3w6oVfATYeah, it is stupid to arrest kids for showing up at school with tiny toy guns, but when a kid has a history of violent attacks, it might be a good idea to look into why. Sometimes that means the kid has to be put into the system.
Our job is to keep an eye on what happens to these children and make sure the system helps them, not just warehouse them.