Tell me your deep dark secret...

[Glenda]

Me? I watch my neighbor walk across the parking lot with lust in my eyes. This is my only character flaw, I swear!

(Sorry, every time I tried to write "I swear" above, it came out as "I sweat" lol)

[plcdude]

1. I love

autoeroticsm

[Glenda]

2. I bet you're quite good at it too! n/t

[plcdude]

12. Well I just

have to keep practicing so much it seems.

[Nikia]

3. A couple of things

That I won't share here even though as far as I know, no one here knows the true identity of Nikia.
I have just started counseling and had planned to tell the counselor everything, but she just seems too nice. The first session just touched on things that I'd tell any aquaintance anyway. I am more comfortable telling friends deep dark secrets once they have told me something equivalent or worse. I know that this isn't going to happen with the counselor so I need to get over this.
Maybe the stuff isn't any worse than stuff than other Duers have shared in the past. I am just extremely judgemental of myself and think other people are that judgemental of me as well.

[Glenda]

6. I agree, it's hard to tell counsellors stuff...

Because it's an unequal relationship. They hear your "bad" but you don't hear theirs.

THink of it this way. All people go into being therapists because they are trying to figure out something about themselves, and often it is something weird. So if you can think of your consellor as having some deep dark secret they are not sharing, maybe it will make it easier.

:hi:

[LDS Jock]

4. I have a bigtime crush on a straight DUer

who barely knows I'm alive. :cry:

[BlondieK143]

5. I already know.

It's okay. :D KIDDING!

[LDS Jock]

9. lol.. smarty pants

[aQuArius]

16. Wonderful things can happen with a DU crush!

Ask me, I know! *sigh* :)

[RagingInMiami]

24. dude, that's not a secret.

Everybody knows. You make it so obvious.

[LDS Jock]

25. who is it then?

tell me and I'll know its obvious

[Rabrrrrrr]

7. I already have my walls plastered with pics of Will Pitt in a bunny outfit

And I didn't even know about the bet he made with LynneSin! I've had them up for almost two years.

[Glenda]

8. Shrines are good!

I never knew Will Pitt looked so good in a bunny suit until I saw the thread today!

:hi:

[rug]

10. I really want to see LynneSin in a bunny suit

[Magrittes Pipe]

11. My entire life I've struggled with the idea that I'm just not good enough.

There's no reason -- my parents have always been enouraging my whole life; my friends, my lovers.... Nobody's ever said anything to me to make me feel this way, I just do.

I simply don't trust myself not to fuck things up.

[Glenda]

13. Do most people feel that way?

Are there certain areas where you feel good enough, and other areas not?

[tjdee]

14. I want to be famous and rich.

Oh wait, I think everyone knows that. That's not deep or dark.

Unless you knew my reasons for wanting to be rich and famous, muahahahaha.

[More Than A Feeling]

15. When no one is around, I play the air drums while listening to music

I am so ashamed :silly:

[BikeWriter]

18. Oh, my Dog! Have you considered therapy, perhaps electro shock?

:(

[More Than A Feeling]

20. *rolls his eyes* or I could just get a drum set, and play for real n/t

[BikeWriter]

26. Uh, that might work.

;)

[Left Is Write]

17. Assuming I *did* have a deep, dark secret,

it would no longer be a secret if I shared it on a public messageboard, so, no.

I'm not even going to say whether I HAVE a deep, dark secret!

:)

[Lavender Brown]

19. I have a crush

on a guy who works at the grocery store in my neighborhood. *blush*

[SarahB]

21. My deep, dark secret....

Is that I'm an immensely boring person without anything that could probably qualify as a deep, dark secret. I have had such a dull, boring life is probably the only way to put it. I'm not trying to be down on myself. It's just pretty much the truth. Anytime, I try to insert an interesting experience into it, it doesn't work out for whatever reason, so I should just learn to accept things for what they are. :shrug:

[Glenda]

22. You can feel lucky having a boring life...

Sometimes excitement brings troubles

:shrug:

[SarahB]

23. My only excitement are troubles.

I just have nothing pleasurable or interesting. Not whining, it's just the way things were meant to be for whatever reason I guess. Acceptance is the first step in facing what someone has to face sometimes.