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JohnnyCougar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-02-05 04:29 AM Original message |
Why the fuck do I always attract girls with low self esteem?!?! |
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BikeWriter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-02-05 04:36 AM Response to Original message |
1. Women! If you ever think you understand one you're done for! |
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tavalon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-02-05 04:45 AM Response to Reply #1 |
3. Actually, that goes for believing you can understand |
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BikeWriter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-02-05 05:45 AM Response to Reply #3 |
5. That may be true. Everyone's reality is different. :-( |
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tavalon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-02-05 04:43 AM Response to Original message |
2. I have the reason for you but |
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paula777 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-02-05 11:20 AM Response to Reply #2 |
14. How exactly did you start attracting a different type of partner? |
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tavalon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-03-05 01:53 AM Response to Reply #14 |
92. You start your recovery |
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roenyc (824 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-02-05 05:25 AM Response to Original message |
4. cause they are easy. |
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MsAnthropy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-02-05 09:32 AM Response to Reply #4 |
6. BINGO! |
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JohnnyCougar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-02-05 11:47 AM Response to Reply #6 |
22. Hey...if I could find a strong woman, I would definitely relate to her |
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Freebird12004 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-02-05 03:27 PM Response to Reply #22 |
66. We are out here ~ so keep on looking ! |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-02-05 01:06 PM Response to Reply #6 |
42. That's an unfair generalization and there is nothing easy about |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-02-05 01:13 PM Response to Reply #42 |
45. Is low self esteem really a deep seated emotional problem? |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-02-05 01:16 PM Response to Reply #45 |
46. Heck it's probably one of the MOST deep seated since it is rooted |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-02-05 01:20 PM Response to Reply #46 |
49. I see what you're saying. |
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bobbobbins (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-02-05 09:57 AM Response to Original message |
7. Obviously because they have lower standards |
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sniffa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-02-05 09:58 AM Response to Original message |
8. they're easier for you to manipuLate |
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bleedingheart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-02-05 10:00 AM Response to Original message |
9. still water runs deep... |
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leftofthedial (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-02-05 10:01 AM Response to Original message |
10. quit thinking about it |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-02-05 11:24 AM Response to Reply #10 |
16. This kinda shit pisses me right off. |
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leftofthedial (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-02-05 02:34 PM Response to Reply #16 |
56. I mean except for the ones who are great |
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bearfan454 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-02-05 11:53 AM Response to Reply #10 |
23. Come on leftofthedial |
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leftofthedial (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-02-05 02:35 PM Response to Reply #23 |
57. some of my favorite people are women |
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Commie Pinko Dirtbag (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-02-05 12:15 PM Response to Reply #10 |
33. I feel like Agent Smith here. |
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leftofthedial (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-02-05 02:37 PM Response to Reply #33 |
58. I'm not a big fan of the species at the moment |
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merh (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-02-05 02:52 PM Response to Reply #10 |
60. Gee, couldn't tell |
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leftofthedial (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-02-05 05:18 PM Response to Reply #60 |
71. thanks |
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merh (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-02-05 05:41 PM Response to Reply #71 |
76. Most definitely, it is a death, you have lost a part of you! |
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Hand (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-02-05 10:56 AM Response to Original message |
11. Insh'Allah... nt |
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MsAnthropy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-02-05 11:57 AM Response to Reply #11 |
27. What does this mean? |
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Hand (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-02-05 12:44 PM Response to Reply #27 |
36. "Allah wills it..." |
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MsAnthropy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-02-05 12:57 PM Response to Reply #36 |
38. Thanks! That clears that up. I just may have to steal those. |
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Lydia Leftcoast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-02-05 03:09 PM Response to Reply #36 |
62. It's "shikata ga nai" |
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Hand (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-02-05 04:48 PM Response to Reply #62 |
69. Actually, it's either... |
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Lydia Leftcoast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-02-05 05:15 PM Response to Reply #69 |
70. Sorry, Hand, it IS "shikata ga nai" in standard Japanese |
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Hand (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-02-05 07:02 PM Response to Reply #70 |
84. AH HA!!! |
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Lydia Leftcoast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-03-05 11:43 AM Response to Reply #84 |
100. Okay, and to hijack it further, did you know that |
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CJCRANE (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-03-05 04:18 PM Response to Reply #36 |
103. It means "God willing"... |
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regularguy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-02-05 11:11 AM Response to Original message |
12. Because people with high self esteem are really annoying? |
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Lex (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-02-05 11:17 AM Response to Original message |
13. The question should be: why are YOU attracted to girls with low |
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JohnnyCougar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-02-05 11:35 AM Response to Reply #13 |
17. I'm really not anymore....I really thought this girl was better... |
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merh (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-02-05 03:14 PM Response to Reply #17 |
64. Strong women or women with "high self esteem" are often just |
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JohnnyCougar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-02-05 05:32 PM Response to Reply #64 |
74. Thanks...I think that's the best advice I ahve gotten so far. |
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merh (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-02-05 05:39 PM Response to Reply #74 |
75. The beauty of the message of Christ that so many miss |
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Aiptasia (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-02-05 11:23 AM Response to Original message |
15. Because girls with self esteem wouldn't have anything to do with you? |
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JohnnyCougar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-02-05 12:13 PM Response to Reply #15 |
32. That's wrong...I am a great person. |
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NewJeffCT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-02-05 11:36 AM Response to Original message |
18. Unfortunately |
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Worst Username Ever (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-02-05 11:37 AM Response to Original message |
19. My past 4 relationships have been with women who have been raped. |
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bobbobbins (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-02-05 11:40 AM Response to Reply #19 |
20. Yup, i've gone through that too |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-02-05 11:43 AM Response to Reply #19 |
21. What are the statistics on how many women have been molested or raped? |
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Worst Username Ever (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-02-05 11:56 AM Response to Reply #21 |
26. Statistically a lot more common than reported, but |
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MountainLaurel (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-02-05 01:01 PM Response to Reply #21 |
40. 1 out of 4 |
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JohnnyCougar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-02-05 11:56 AM Response to Reply #19 |
25. Exactly...It's not like I TRY to find girls with low self-esteem anymore |
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Worst Username Ever (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-02-05 11:59 AM Response to Reply #25 |
29. Nah, they mature faster than us. |
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amazona (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-02-05 01:19 PM Response to Reply #19 |
48. it is probably just coincidence |
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Worst Username Ever (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-02-05 02:05 PM Response to Reply #48 |
55. I'd like to think the later, of course. |
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THUNDER HANDS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-02-05 05:26 PM Response to Reply #19 |
73. I used to think all women were weird |
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sendero (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-02-05 11:53 AM Response to Original message |
24. I could never... |
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JohnnyCougar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-02-05 12:02 PM Response to Reply #24 |
30. I don't know about that relationship thing... |
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bleedingheart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-02-05 12:21 PM Response to Reply #24 |
35. good advice |
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kiraboo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-02-05 11:58 AM Response to Original message |
28. Oh My God. This thread is full of shit! |
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JohnnyCougar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-02-05 12:11 PM Response to Reply #28 |
31. Well actually... |
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alittlelark (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-03-05 03:14 AM Response to Reply #31 |
97. see post # 96. |
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EC (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-02-05 12:18 PM Response to Original message |
34. We always seem to make the same mistakes.... |
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okieinpain (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-02-05 12:46 PM Response to Original message |
37. A little advise, quit acting like you care, women hate nice guy's |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-02-05 01:01 PM Response to Reply #37 |
39. Well of course! |
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okieinpain (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-02-05 09:35 PM Response to Reply #39 |
89. it's true, it's true. and when I say nice guy's I don't mean wimps |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-02-05 01:08 PM Response to Reply #37 |
43. Because a couple of females told you |
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okieinpain (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-02-05 09:32 PM Response to Reply #43 |
87. nope don't hate women, I just stay out of the way. I know a bunch |
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Lydia Leftcoast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-02-05 03:14 PM Response to Reply #37 |
63. All that proves is that you work with a couple of psycho shrews |
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sandnsea (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-02-05 03:25 PM Response to Reply #63 |
65. It's phony, that's why |
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JohnnyCougar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-02-05 06:04 PM Response to Reply #63 |
80. I wouldn't call myself one of those guys. |
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okieinpain (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-02-05 09:30 PM Response to Reply #63 |
86. I know it's sounds mean, but it's true. females like those bad boys |
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Lydia Leftcoast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-02-05 11:30 PM Response to Reply #86 |
90. "Females" who have their heads on straight know that the "bad boys" |
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okieinpain (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-03-05 01:00 AM Response to Reply #90 |
91. yes, that's true too. I know some of those. but I know a lot more |
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Lydia Leftcoast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-03-05 11:22 AM Response to Reply #91 |
99. How old are these "females" you're talking about? 16? |
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okieinpain (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-03-05 04:02 PM Response to Reply #99 |
102. nope grown women 8 to 80. as an example my own mother left |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-02-05 01:05 PM Response to Original message |
41. Maybe you are just a "healing" kind of guy |
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amazona (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-02-05 01:12 PM Response to Original message |
44. everybody has low self esteem |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-02-05 01:19 PM Response to Reply #44 |
47. Everyone has deep seated emotional problems? |
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amazona (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-02-05 01:37 PM Response to Reply #47 |
52. is low self esteem a deep seated emotional problem? |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-02-05 01:47 PM Response to Reply #52 |
53. I don't think it is, no. |
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regularguy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-02-05 01:47 PM Response to Reply #52 |
54. Fantastic post! |
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Commie Pinko Dirtbag (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-02-05 02:57 PM Response to Reply #47 |
61. The more I know people |
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progmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-02-05 05:23 PM Response to Reply #47 |
72. i love your avatar |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-02-05 07:02 PM Response to Reply #72 |
83. Well thank you! |
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Squatch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-02-05 01:20 PM Response to Original message |
50. Are you attracting them or are they attracting you??? |
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JohnnyCougar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-02-05 06:17 PM Response to Reply #50 |
82. Both, I'm sure. |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-02-05 01:31 PM Response to Original message |
51. Steer clear of them and you'll be better off |
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MISSDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-02-05 02:48 PM Response to Original message |
59. Probably all women are insecure. I mean look at |
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MissB (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-02-05 05:42 PM Response to Reply #59 |
77. Wugh. Just wugh. (nt) |
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Nikia (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-02-05 04:21 PM Response to Original message |
67. A couple different things |
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jswordy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-02-05 04:42 PM Response to Original message |
68. I believe your trouble lies in the word "girl," and here is why |
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JohnnyCougar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-02-05 05:51 PM Response to Reply #68 |
78. I never felt like I was abused at all |
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radwriter0555 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-02-05 05:52 PM Response to Original message |
79. You are attracted to THEM. So next time you're attracted to a gal, run |
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JohnnyCougar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-02-05 06:11 PM Response to Reply #79 |
81. hehe...actually, that's how this friendship started out. |
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Joe Chi Minh (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-02-05 07:50 PM Response to Reply #81 |
85. Somebody mentioned |
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TufNeck (194 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-02-05 09:34 PM Response to Original message |
88. I hear |
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Swamp Rat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-03-05 02:13 AM Response to Original message |
93. Write a good-bye letter expressing what you've written in this thread, |
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JohnnyCougar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-03-05 02:30 AM Response to Reply #93 |
94. I dunno...I'm not sure I should write another letter. |
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Swamp Rat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-03-05 02:42 AM Response to Reply #94 |
95. "I really couldn't give two shits right now." |
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alittlelark (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-03-05 02:52 AM Response to Original message |
96. Let this thread sink in. |
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AlienGirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-03-05 04:54 AM Response to Original message |
98. Why does everyone think girls with low self-esteem aren't worth dating? |
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JohnnyCougar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-03-05 11:53 AM Response to Reply #98 |
101. Because it's impossible to love someone if they don't love themself. |
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