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SarahB Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-03-05 07:38 PM
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Poll question: Would you date a woman who drove a minivan?
Edited on Thu Feb-03-05 07:39 PM by SarahBelle
I was thinking about getting another car (used likely, nothing major) with my divorce settlement, but in talking/negotiating with Mr. Belle, I think I may just pay off the last year of payments and keep the minivan, while he takes on another loan (we have a second vehicle, but it's crappy and on it's last leg anyway). Kind of good for me economically because I'll pay less than half of what it's worth really.

It's not like I ever would (or could) pretend I'm not a mom, but it feels so uncool to be single and drive one of these things. Oh well.
People have to like me for who I am, but it makes a humorous poll nonetheless. :D


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theorist Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-03-05 07:40 PM
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1. I don't see a problem with it.
Image isn't everything. Hell, I don't even own a car.
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nothingshocksmeanymore Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-03-05 07:40 PM
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2. Sure...Misunderestimator used to own a mini-van
:D
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SarahB Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-03-05 07:41 PM
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5. They have their benefits.
Right? :evilgrin:
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nothingshocksmeanymore Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-03-05 07:47 PM
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14. Absolutely
hell I have to borrow my mom's every time I go to COSTCO...can't fit the toiletpaper and papertowels in my convertible :D
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SarahB Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-03-05 07:54 PM
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26. Yeah, and we don't want to have paper goods...
on the hood of your car. :D
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TroubleMan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-03-05 07:40 PM
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3. Guys really don't care what type of car you drive

You're worrying about that sort of stuff too much.

Also, would you really want to be with a guy who would only be with you because you had a nice car??

What type of man would that be?
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SarahB Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-03-05 07:42 PM
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9. I'm being silly.
Besides, it's a nice van. Perhaps I can finally install the shag carpeting inside now though. :D
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Zing Zing Zingbah Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-03-05 07:40 PM
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4. If I was a man I would.
I think vans are so practical. I would like to own one some day.
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Texasgal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-03-05 07:41 PM
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6. Why not?
Mini vans have big back seats! :evilgrin:
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Fenris Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-03-05 07:41 PM
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7. Depends.
Nissan Quest or Honda Odyssey: maybe.

Toyota Sienna, Ford Windstar, or Dodge/Chrysler Minivan/Caravan/Voyager: less so.
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SarahB Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-03-05 07:49 PM
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16. It's an evil 2000 Grand Voyager!
Actually, we tended to prefer Japanese cars in the past, so we priced the Hondas when we were looking 4 years ago and they were just too darned pricey. I haven't had any problems though.

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guitar man Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-03-05 07:41 PM
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8. sure, why not?
Minivans aren't so bad, in fact, there can be some real advantages to a vehicle with that much room. :evilgrin:
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Wapsie B Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-03-05 07:45 PM
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10. Heck yes!
It's the driver who counts. Plus I like minivans. So much room.
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Nailzberg Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-03-05 07:45 PM
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11. Just tell guys it's your Shaggin Wagon.
Seriously. Even if you made it quite obvious that you were kidding, I don't think I would question the minivan.
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KG Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-03-05 07:46 PM
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12. tint the windows, put some spinners on - you'd be mackin'!
:)
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SarahB Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-03-05 07:50 PM
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18. Windows already tinted.
;)
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Quakerfriend Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-03-05 07:47 PM
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13. You know it's funny...the predjudice some have toward minivans
I will just tell you this.

Years ago, I had a Triumph Spitfire convertable...which everyone tried to convince me NOT to buy.

2 seater. hard top. bright blue. stick.

I had such a ball in that little sports car! It was so much fun being single tooling around in that little babe. And, the guys loved it, too.

Your kids will love it if they see you having fun!!



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Thtwudbeme Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-03-05 07:49 PM
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15. Michael married a woman who drives a
station wagon!

You can be cool in anything-
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Amaya Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-03-05 07:50 PM
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17. Sure I'd date a woman who drove a minivan
:D
but I definitely would not date a woman with a Volvo!
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SarahB Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-03-05 07:52 PM
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22. And you have the honor...
of being the only DUer who has ridden in my Shagmobile (well, not that I've ever shagged in it, but I digress a bit there).
:hi:
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AlCzervik Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-03-05 07:50 PM
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19. think of all the cupholders!!!
If someone wouldn't date you because of what you drive then they are unworthy of you.
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GOPisEvil Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-03-05 07:50 PM
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20. I've even made out with a woman in a mini-van!
It's all good. :7
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SarahB Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-03-05 07:53 PM
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24. Oh yeah!
:D
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Sanity Claws Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-03-05 07:51 PM
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21. Please don't worry about that
You have enough to worry about when you go through a divorce. Would you really want to date a guy who was so superficial that your vehicle would determine your date-worthiness?
Some guys are concerned about how financially secure a woman is, though. Not getting yourself overextended financially by getting a new vehicle will probably more important in terms of being attractive to practical, not superficial, guys.
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AntiCoup2K4 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-03-05 07:53 PM
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23. Hell, I drive one myself, so why not?
Hoping to get of mine before this summer, but it's been good (for the most part) on several road trips (aside from blowing out the transmission crossing the Rockies - that was a $1000 repair bill I could have done without)
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Rabrrrrrr Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-03-05 07:54 PM
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25. I don't that I would - minivans scream out just one thing: "I have kids!"
Not that having kids is bad, but I'm not one who would go willingly into a dating scene with a woman who had kids.

Granted, whether you have kids or not is gonna come up (hopefully) pretty soon in the relationship, minivan or not, so it's somewhat of a moot point. But I would be very unlikely to even approach a woman first if I knew she had a minivan.

It may be unfair of me, I don't know. But when I see a minivan, I think "mom".
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SarahB Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-03-05 07:56 PM
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28. That's cool.
One of those things I'd rather know upfront with a man. I figure it would be a lot worse to get attached to someone and then he says, "Oh, by the way, that kid thing is too much."
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HEyHEY Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-03-05 07:55 PM
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27. Hey, it's more comfortable than the back seat
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MikeG Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-03-05 07:59 PM
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29. Guys care more about how you treat them.
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StopTheMorans Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-03-05 08:00 PM
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30. hey, I'm a 25 year old guy who drives a 92 Buick Lesabre, and I've never
had any trouble with the ladies :7 noone will care, Sarah. You're you, and that's enough.
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Blue-Jay Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-03-05 08:06 PM
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31. Sure, if she was a drummer.
:D
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Thor_MN Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-03-05 08:09 PM
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32. Does she have a pulse???
That's about as selective as I am these days....
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miss_kitty Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-03-05 08:22 PM
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33. no
but then I'm a straight female

Sorry.

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