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Magrittes Pipe Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-23-05 10:07 AM
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Do not go gentle into that good night.
This morning, I learned of the tragic passing of Molly, Mrs. Grumpy's Sim. Although I'd only known Molly a short while, she came to be as a member of my own family. Her infectious laugh, the way she tossed her hair, her ability to always be there for her friends through thick and thin -- it was these things that made Molly the kind of person one never can forget. Not that I'd ever want to.

Old age should burn and rave at close of day;
Rage, rage against the dying of the light.


And now she's gone. Because of a kitchen fire. A fucking kitchen fire; it would be funny if it weren't so fucking heartbreaking. She never was much of a cook, she always said. But now, I'll never get to hear her bitch about the cake falling or the fish coming out under- or over-cooked again. And it tears me apart to be forced by fate to face that fact.

Good men, the last wave by, crying how bright
Their frail deeds might have danced in a green bay,
Rage, rage against the dying of the light.


I met Molly during a very hard time in my life. I was wrestling demons nobody should ever have to face, even when they bring it on themselves. I honestly didn't know if I would ever see the light of day again. But she was there, like an angel in her radiance and kindness, and she extended her hand to me. She pulled me from my barren ground and brought me into the verdant pasture of Life, with a capital fuckin' L, she picked me up and taught me to believe again. She taught me what it truly meant to be a friend. And, in my conversations over the past 12 hours with some of the many people who loved her, I found that I am far from the only one.

Wild men who caught and sang the sun in flight,
And learn, too late, they grieved it on its way,
Do not go gentle into that good night.


Last week, Molly and I had an argument. Quite a dust-up, really. It seems she'd started seeing someone new, someone I didn't think was good enough for her. Truth be told, I may have been a bit jealous. Still, it started from that, and then just ballooned; and passive-agressive prick that I am, it soon spiraled out of control. Last week. We never spoke again. The last word Molly ever spoke to me was "whatever" before she slammed down the receiver.

I never got to say good-bye. I never got to tell her that I loved her.

Do not go gentle into that good night.
Rage, rage against the dying of the light.


Good-bye, Molly. I love you.
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kick-ass-bob Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-23-05 10:10 AM
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1. This was very touching.
So, how much time DO you have on your hands???
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StopTheMorans Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-23-05 10:16 AM
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8. i second your sentiments. what a tribute!
:cry: :7
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arwalden Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-23-05 10:12 AM
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2. I'm Sorry For Your Loss...
Edited on Wed Feb-23-05 10:12 AM by arwalden
this is tough for everyone. Especially you. :hug: Stay strong!
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On the Road Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-23-05 10:14 AM
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3. My Daughter Made Swimming Pools So Small
that the people couldn't climb out once they got it. Then waited for them to die.
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progmom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-23-05 10:15 AM
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6. OMG - that is sick!
:scared:
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On the Road Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-23-05 10:33 AM
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22. She's Actually a Very Kind-Hearted Girl
She just doesn't see them as real beings.
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xmas74 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-23-05 10:16 AM
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7. That might be fun.
Sometimes, my family members create Sims and give them the names of people that they do not like, just to watch them die.
My brother did Dubya. I think I need a Matt Blunt.
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Solly Mack Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-23-05 10:39 AM
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30. lololololololololol


Sims must be experienced...you never know what they will do until you create the circumstances.
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dolo amber Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-23-05 10:14 AM
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4. I never knew Molly...
But I can see how hard this is for you. My deepest sympathies for your loss. :hug:
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Blue-Jay Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-23-05 10:15 AM
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5. I've never seen such a fitting tribute.
<sniff> You, sir, have the heart of an artichoke. The biggest artichoke EVER.

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ElectroPrincess Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-23-05 10:18 AM
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9. OK, please excuse me for my ignorance but what exactly is a Sim.?
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alittlelark Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-23-05 12:49 PM
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42. a video game.
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eyesroll Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-23-05 10:19 AM
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10. I'm sorry, Al.
It's clear from this tribute just how much you loved her, and how much she helped you to heal.

I'm sorry it didn't work between us, but I'm even sorrier you lost the opportunity to even try with Molly. Be well.

:hug:
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Magrittes Pipe Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-23-05 10:20 AM
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12. I suppose I'll have to make a go of it with my "plan B girl."
x(
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ElectroPrincess Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-23-05 10:23 AM
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14. OK, I'm going to take a guess that this is fiction ... "simulation"
Gee, IMO some folks have too much time on their hands. :P
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kick-ass-bob Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-23-05 10:25 AM
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17. The Sims by EA
Edited on Wed Feb-23-05 10:25 AM by kick-ass-bob
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ScreamingMeemie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-23-05 11:08 AM
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35. Yes, I have wasted half a day that was supposed to be jam packed
with reality. ;)
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tigereye Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-23-05 02:03 PM
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46. ah, reality bites, anyway
;)
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terrya Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-23-05 10:19 AM
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11. Dammit....this is awful. I'm so sorry for your loss.
My sincerest condolences. :cry:

Hang in there, friend. :hug:
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LynneSin Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-23-05 10:20 AM
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13. Nothing personal - I think you killed Molly
You're the killer - you set the stove on fire and tried to make it look like an accident
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Magrittes Pipe Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-23-05 10:23 AM
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15. Fuck you. n/t
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Midlodemocrat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-23-05 10:24 AM
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16. Locking.
No threads by alleged murderers allowed, per DU rules.


Thank you.
DU Moderator.
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Magrittes Pipe Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-23-05 10:25 AM
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18. Should a moderator really be mocking the pain of DUers?
:eyes:
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Midlodemocrat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-23-05 10:33 AM
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21. I am not posting as a moderator
but as a concerned citizen.
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LynneSin Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-23-05 10:32 AM
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19. Don't let his fake sympathy affect you
he did it!!

We can't prove it, but then again we've start wars without any real proof - so there!
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Magrittes Pipe Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-23-05 10:33 AM
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20. So in other words, you're just like George W. Bush.
Fucking fascist.
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Midlodemocrat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-23-05 10:33 AM
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23. Name calling won't save you from the needle, pal.
You're toast.
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TXlib Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-23-05 12:20 PM
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41. Wouldn't "fake sympathy" really just be...
SIMpathy?

:evilgrin:
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ChavezSpeakstheTruth Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-23-05 10:36 AM
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24. I remember Molly well. We used to get together now and again - she was
Edited on Wed Feb-23-05 10:36 AM by ChavezSpeakstheTruth
a tiger in the sack. ROAR! I will miss hittin' that :cry:
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Magrittes Pipe Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-23-05 10:37 AM
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25. We all will, CStheT.
We all will. :hug::cry:
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ChavezSpeakstheTruth Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-23-05 10:37 AM
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28. Yeah......yeah
:grouphug:
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LynneSin Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-23-05 10:37 AM
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27. Let me guess, whoisalhedges caught you 2 together again....
...and killed Molly in a fit of Jealousy???
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ChavezSpeakstheTruth Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-23-05 10:40 AM
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31. All I know is I got mine
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XNASA Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-23-05 10:37 AM
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26. Cry not for Molly. For now she is immortal.
Oh, gosh....I can't help myself. :cry:
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Magrittes Pipe Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-23-05 10:40 AM
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32. Eternal rest grant to her, oh Lord,
And let perpetual light shine upon her.
May her soul, and the souls of all the faithful departed,
Through the mercy of God, rest in peace.

Amen.
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Midlodemocrat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-23-05 10:51 AM
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33. It is unseemly of you to pray for her
after killing her. It mocks my faith and I will have none of it.
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Aristus Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-23-05 10:39 AM
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29. And you, my father, there on the sad height,
curse, bless me now with your fierce tears, I pray...

Do not go gentle into that good night,
Rage, rage against the dying of the light
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ScreamingMeemie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-23-05 10:55 AM
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34. Sniffle. I could not have written a more fitting tribute for our dearest
Molly. :cry: :cry: :cry:

She won't soon be forgotten.
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LynneSin Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-23-05 12:18 PM
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40. HE KILLED MOLLY AND YOU'RE LETTING HIM SLIDE
:grr:
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ScreamingMeemie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-23-05 01:04 PM
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43. No! No! I typed this before I was alerted to what was going on. And then
I could not edit!!! :bounce:
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asthmaticeog Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-23-05 11:30 AM
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36. I didn't know Molly,
but I shall nevertheless co-opt everyone's greif and conjure tales of my own deep pain at this tragic passing. Because that's how I roll.

:cry::cry::cry::cry::cry::cry::cry::cry::cry::cry:
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Magrittes Pipe Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-23-05 11:40 AM
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37. I feel you, friend.
:hug:
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jpgray Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-23-05 11:59 AM
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38. Open your eyes
Molly knew too much. I will be starting a thread on this topic, but I'm sure the admins will remove it and then retroactively erase my memory using robotic surgical arms that are secreted in my disk drive.
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Magrittes Pipe Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-23-05 12:16 PM
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39. No.
I'll never believe that Hunter S. Thompson killed her with a gay tsunami when he realized that Jeff Gannon was behind the chemtrails. NEVER!
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blue neen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-23-05 01:19 PM
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44. Have you started a defense fund yet?
Inquiring minds want to know.
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tigereye Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-23-05 02:04 PM
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47. LOL
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Wat_Tyler Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-23-05 02:02 PM
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45. Meh. You're just saying that so we'll like you more.
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