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Syrinx Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-21-03 11:08 PM
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I found out today that a girl I went to school with died
We weren't good friends or anything. But she was a very sweet, cute girl and it's so sad. She left behind a couple of kids and a husband. She was 37 years old, and that's just too damn young to die. I think she had cancer. Jill, bless your heart, I love you baby.
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WannaJumpMyScooter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-21-03 11:11 PM
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1. As you age, it happens more and more
You get used to it.
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Syrinx Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-21-03 11:13 PM
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2. Can't you make it stop?
:(
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WannaJumpMyScooter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-21-03 11:17 PM
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3. Not me... maybe Listenup can... she can squish people
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Syrinx Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-21-03 11:23 PM
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5. hmm, I thought listenup was a dude
learn something everyday.
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Rocinante Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-21-03 11:20 PM
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4. A lot of my friends from school have died
I'm 47 and it started happening before I was out of high school. I miss all of them.
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Syrinx Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-21-03 11:26 PM
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6. some people died in high school
My best friend Andy had a wreck that put him in a coma. He finally died a couple of years ago. I think my life would've been a lot better if he didn't have that accident. He was such a sharp guy. I miss Andy too.
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Lydia Leftcoast Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-21-03 11:32 PM
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7. I've lost both high school and college classmates
:-(

The first one is especially rough, though.
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Syrinx Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-21-03 11:47 PM
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8. I was friendly with her in school
But I haven't really been around her since, except for bumping into at the grocery store once or twice. Still it hurts. I'm not sure why it hurts as much as it does.
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StaggerLee Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-21-03 11:52 PM
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9. My condolences
I found out earlier this year that an ex-shipmate of mine died. Cancer. Also 37 years of age. Left behind a wife and two young children.

So sad.
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Syrinx Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-21-03 11:59 PM
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11. maybe they can get together in heaven
They've got a lot in common.
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jab105 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-21-03 11:54 PM
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10. I found out a friend of mine died in a car accident about a year...
out of high school, an incredible shock because she was just about the most alive person I'd ever known...I think as a way of dealing with it, I tried to become a bit more outgoing, a bit more like her...it was always something special about her that I admired so much...

Hugs to you right now...

:grouphug:
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Syrinx Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-22-03 12:00 AM
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12. thank you very much!
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Ellen Forradalom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-22-03 12:36 AM
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13. I had a similar experience recently
My best friend in fourth grade. She also died of cancer at 40, leaving three kids behind. I found out about it when I opened my newspaper.
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Syncronaut Seven Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-22-03 12:37 AM
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14. I've lost two women friends to domestic violence
12 and 15 years ago. Both murder suicides. When it happens like that, you don't get over it. :( When the neighbors fight my adrenalin pegs & I get sick, still.

Harrad.
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