i havent been here in awhile...

[LastKnight]

but i figure i can always count on DU for a friendly place... just need somethin to keep my mind off the recent lobotomy of my soul via girlfriend breaking it off out of the blue...

so, whats up, DU?

[BlondieK143]

1. Hey there!

We've missed you around here! Sorry to hear about the breakup though. :hug: You've got quite a few single gals here that would hop on ya in a heartbeat. :D

[LastKnight]

2. thanks for the encouragement.

had breakups before, none hurt this bad... it just feels bad when she can bring me to tears and destroy me and i hardly hear her flinch, and 3 days ago she was going on and on and on about how happy she was with me. I dont get women.

-LK

[BlondieK143]

5. I'm sorry.

And trust me, sometimes we don't even get ourselves fully. I know it's hard and it sucks, but think of it this way - do you really want to spend the rest of your life with someone that changes their mind in a few days? You're a great guy and there's someone amazing out there for you. :hug: Until then, try to enjoy being single and do things YOU like to do instead of trying to make someone else happy all the time.

[LastKnight]

6. heh. thats a way to look at it...

why do i always seem to run into you needing a smile, and how come you always seem to put one on me, making at least a small difference? dont get me wrong, its a good thing, i just wonder how you tend to do it.

thanks Blondie.

[BlondieK143]

9. Anytime.

You're more than welcome. :)

[ayeshahaqqiqa]

3. Some comfort, I hope

Sufis say that when a heart is broken, it opens it up for more capacity to love. In my life, much of my spiritual growth seems to happen after a time of trouble and tribulation.

You may wish to try visualizing the perfect partner for yourself. Then be patient. From personal experience, I can tell you the practice and the wait can be well worth it.

[LastKnight]

4. thanks...

although i may try and wait on that visualization, i think the only thing ill come up with tonight is what put me in this situation.

but i understand what youre sayin, that which does not kill us, right?

-LK

[xultar]

7. Hey! Sorry to hear about the ol' ball and chain. Come on in..

grab a seat and watch the stream of loonies roll on in.
:pals:

[LastKnight]

8. sounds fun.

what kinda loonies we talkin?

[tjwmason]

10. You sure need some cheering up

:pals:

Pull up a seat, grab a drink, and let's all have some fun.

[LastKnight]

11. sounds like fun...

ill have what yer havin...

[tjwmason]

12. Working at the moment - but given the weather

I'd go for either gin and tonic (mixed 50-50), or Pimms (which is pure sunshine and wonderfulness in a bottle).

[LastKnight]

13. hell, ill take both...

2 of both, i could use it.

[tjwmason]

14. I mix drinks very strongly

I take it that this is a good thing.

[LastKnight]

15. i usuially dont drink...ever.

but i think i may change that. at least ill see.