If you get the chance, please see this Danish film:
Brodre or
Brothers in English. It is one of the best films I have seen in a long time. One of the best acted and most gritty, affecting films in years.
It is directed by Susanne Bier (director of the 2003 film
Open Hearts) and stars Ulrich Thomsen (from
The Celebration), Nikolaj Lie Kaas, and Connie Nielsson (best known to Americans from Gladiator, here in her first role in her native Denmark).
The story concerns two brothers: Michael, an upstanding, honest Major in the Danish army who is sent on a peacekeeping mission to Afghanistan, and Jannik a ne'er-do-well black sheep who has just been released from prison for a botched bank robbery.
After Michael is sent to war, the two brothers essentially grow in opposite directions due to the pains of war. Jannik becomes more responsible, Michael becomes deeply distraught and suffers from post-traumatic stress. At the center of all this is Michael's wife Sarah, played by actress Connie Nielsson in a stunning performance.
The acting is superb. The directing top-notch. The film is shot on a digital home camera in near-minimalist style. There is a tremendous amount of intimacy. The characters truly feel like real people. Moreover, given the consequences of the film, it clearly is a subtle antiwar film, showing the toll of war on all those involved.
I'm not going to give away much more about the plot because I feel it would ruin the experience. Please, if you can, try to see this movie. I cannot praise it enough.
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