A question for men (or women of course)

[New Earth]

Please answer. I need to know this and humor me, please.

Now, if a guy happens to glance at a girl's boobs once, that's just natural. Right? But if they were to "glance" at least 3 more times, as if you didn't notice, that's a little more intentional, is it not? :shrug:

remember, you are all humoring me here :smoke:

[merwin]

1. Actually, it's perfectly natural for a guy to stare with a dropped jaw.

It's in our jeans.. err... genes.

[New Earth]

2. hahahah

you were supposed to humor me :eyes:

[merwin]

8. Well, if it's you he's glancing at, that means there is something there

that he likes :)

[New Earth]

12. of course it's me

i mean i am talking about me.

oh god.......i'm gonna die :blush:

[merwin]

15. For a guy, normally a first look is a given, even if it's a bit long.

Kind of scoping out the territory. A second look may be necessary to come to a decision. A third look means something (unless there's a frown on his face, then that's bad).

[jobycom]

3. He wants you Faye, go get him!!

Is it the same guy from a few weeks ago?

To be fair, some men do it without realizing it. Depends on how nice the objects in question are.

[New Earth]

5. lol

thanks now THAT's what i wanted to hear :bounce: :P

[kanrok]

4. Really it's natural for us to stare and stare and stare

[gmoney]

6. Well, it's rude to maintain eye contact for too long

If some guy just stared into your eyes unflinchingly during a conversation, you'd complain about that, too!

Maybe you had some maranara sauce on your shirt or something, or he was trying to figure out if womens blouses really button the wrong way compared to a man's shirt.

Or maybe you have a splendid bosom worthy of lengthy and frequent appreciation!

Could be worse, no?

[khashka]

7. Girls never get this

and it can't be explained to them but....

We guys look. And look. And look. And look. Etc......
We can't help it. "Intent" doesn't even come into it. "Necessity" would be a better word.


Khash.

[New Earth]

9. lol

you weren't supposed to say that!!!!!

[rwenos]

10. A Woman Explained it To Me This Way

A quick glance down is a compliment, especially if she dresses to emphasize her bust.

Two glances down, or looking down too long is an insult.

I have NO IDEA why. But them's the rules. I guess.

[New Earth]

11. not for me!!!

i was not insulted at all......absolutely not one bit!!!

[texas1928]

13. I don't have to stare.

They are on my eye level. SO, I can look all I want.

:P

[New Earth]

14. are you short or something?

awww

[texas1928]

16. I am 6'1"

but am only 4' from the top of my head to the bottom of my wheel.

[New Earth]

18. ohhh ok

that makes more sense then! you get a good view from that perspective :P

[texas1928]

20. Yep I have seen some train wrecks as well.

SO you have to take the good with the bad.

[Maddy McCall]

17. I know a woman--her name is Martha--she's been married for 35 years.

And for as long as I have known her, she cannot look you in the eyes when she talks to you.

She stares at chest-level when she talks. It makes me uncomfortable, but I know that it's just a bad habit that she developed and can't break.

However, it does make me very uncomfortable. It's hard to listen to someone who is staring at your boobs.

[New Earth]

21. well it wasn't staring

just sneaking some peeks :P

and it wasn't really 'while' we were talking, it was when he probably thought i didn't notice

[Wapsie B]

19. It would depend on how long the looks were

and how many. A couple glances cool. More than that it's a fixation.
Honestly if I liked a woman's tits she'd still have to have nice eyes to hold my interest.

[New Earth]

24. well it's not like i'm offended by it

i was pretty damn happy about it :loveya:

so i'm just blowing it out of proportion to humor myself :blush:

i always do this stufff lol

[Wapsie B]

32. It's good that you're happy about it.

Now to find a woman that would feel the same way if I ever happened to do that to her. :)

[New Earth]

22. and here i've gone and done it again

left myself a trail to embarass the hell out of myself....haha if he happened to wander over here tonight from another place i mention this board on, i'm gonna hide forever :blush: :hide:

[enigmatic]

23. He's interested!

Go for it:)

[New Earth]

25. are you humoring me?

:hi:

[enigmatic]

26. nope!

Well, yes, if you want me to........wait, I mean........Oh man, I gotta go...........:)

[New Earth]

28. LOL

I'll take your word for it then :)

bwahahah

[BattyDem]

27. As a woman ...

I don't have a problem with a single glance. But 3 or 4 more times ... that's a problem, LOL!

Funny story ...
My boyfriend (who's now my ex-boyfriend) and I were at the beach. It was off-season, so we were fully-clothed and sitting by the car having some ice cream. There weren't many people there, but there was a cop on a horse and a couple of college-age girls, who were wearing jeans with bikini tops. The girls were talking to the cop.

I looked over at my boyfriend and I saw him looking at the girls. They were really pretty and they had great bodies, but I didn't freak out over one look ... he is a guy, after all. But a few minutes later, I glanced over at him again ... and he was staring at the girls (who were still talking to the cop on the horse). I was starting to get a little pissed off! I mean, it's one thing to look ... it's quite another to stare, especially when you're with your girlfriend. :mad:

I sat there fuming, trying to think of an appropriate way to make him pay for dissing me like that. Then he said, "Hey babe ... look over there. Isn't that the most beautiful horse you've ever seen?"

I looked at him ... my jaw dropped ... and I said, "Are you f*cking kidding me?"

He looked a little nervous and said, "What? What's the matter?"

I said, "The horse? You're looking at the HORSE?!?!" (I don't know why, but that made me feel worse than if he was looking at the girls. It was as if my boyfriend was defective or something, LOL!)

By now, he was very confused and he didn't quite know how to answer. He cautiously said, "Um ... yeah. Why? What's wrong?"

I said, "You're looking at the freakin' horse?!? There are two beautiful girls standing there with their tits hanging out and you're looking AT THE HORSE?!?!?!"

He looked over there again and said, "Oh shit ... I didn't even notice them. I was just thinking that the horse was way too beautiful to be a police horse. Oh ... I'm really pathetic!" He blushed! He was really embarrassed for not noticing the girls, LOL!


So, the moral of the story is ...
Don't get mad over a glance unless you're REALLY sure of what he's looking at! :evilgrin:

[New Earth]

29. i'm NOT MAD!!!!!!!!

not mad at all......i'm insanely obsessed with him!!!! :rofl:

[BattyDem]

30. Oh ok. But still ...

don't obsess unless you're REALLY sure of what he's looking at! ;-)

[New Earth]

31. i'm sure

absolutely positive :)

[Bethany Rockafella]

33. That guy wants your body. :-)

My ex boyfriend was bad about staring at women. Big boobs are not. Pretty or not. I really had a problem with it because he did this a lot, even when we first started dating. He claimed he was observing when I finally talked to him about it. Yeah right. He would do it right in front of me. Very rude.

[New Earth]

35. i wish

haha just had to kick this thread :shrug:

actually that was prob. the dumbest move ever at this second :o :rofl:

[RPM]

34. A great way to meet your wife.

Yes, she married me anyway...

[hfojvt]

36. people who are always watching what other people are looking at

sorta creep me out. Like Harriet the Spy or something. That is what makes TV and the movies so great. You can look as long as you want without having somebody jump on your groove. Mirrored shades are nice that way too.