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YellowRubberDuckie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-15-05 07:42 PM
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Have you ever lead on other guys while in a relationship?
This dude IMed me yesterday at random. He works at the radio station I worked at back in 1999. He's rather famous in the City because he's part of a really great afternoon drive show. Anyway, he starts hitting on me after I ask some questions about the old workplace. God, he totally thinks I want his junk, and I have never said one way or another if I'm single or taken, into him or just playing. He's a sweet kid, and I'm starting to feel bad. But at the same time, he's not the brightest crayon in the drawer, so it's his fault. What do you think?
Any of you ever do this, string someone along while you were in a relationship just to get rid of the boredom?
God, I just realized this sounds a lot like Dear Abby letter. LOL
Duckie
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Straight Shooter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-15-05 07:44 PM
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1. Never.
That's the truth. I don't play with people's emotions.

Maybe there's something more there in it for you, and your heart just doesn't want to admit it, though ;)
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YellowRubberDuckie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-15-05 07:46 PM
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2. Naw...he's a cute kid...
And I can do what I want as long as the BF can watch. lol
Duckie
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hippiechick Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-15-05 07:47 PM
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3. Oh, hell yes ... and more.
This girl doesn't do fidelity real well.
Ask most of the men I've known - I tell 'em that upfront.
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tjdee Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-15-05 07:48 PM
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4. No, because I'd feel bad. I'm totally jealous, though!
I have a friend that does this, and she does it because she likes the attention and she likes to flirt. Nothing wrong with that...but I do think you could hurt someone's feelings....it's not really his *fault*, because in his mind your signals are saying "keep going".
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YellowRubberDuckie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-15-05 07:52 PM
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5. I really love the attention.
And I've never said one way or another.
Duckie
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