Your image on DU: another approach

[Bossy Monkey]

Poll question: Your image on DU: another approach

It occurs to me that fundamentally nearly all of us are going to have a very nebulous image because so few of us post under our real names but instead go by screennames usually representing fairly nebulous concepts and often sounding alike. I mean, I don't expect that people are confusing me with underpants and undergroundrailroad, but neither do I think that you're looking at my every post thinking, "Oh right. The hick from SC with the '80s obsession." Or maybe you are, I dunno.

What you are probably doing, though, is unconsciously building up an impression of whether you think the given poster is basically a warm person or basically an asshole. Conversely, presumably you have some notion whether other people think of you as one or the other, or more likely some mix of the two.

So the question is: Do you think your image on DU is mostly warm or mostly asshole?

Heeeeeeeeeeeeey! With 10 slots, I can't have both a 100% warm slot and a 100% asshole one. Ah well, I'm pretty sure anyone who's the latter would be banned by now. If you believe you are being slighted by this omission, however, by all means feel free to reply as such below. Just try not to be an asshole about it.:P

If you're a warm asshole, I just don't want to know about it.

(PS: For a minute there I had the phrase "use usernames usually" in the first sentence. To think I once believed I was a professional writer!)

[WCGreen]

1. I never hide anything about me....

My name is William Christopher Green
I live in Westlake, Ohio
I have been a democrat all my life

[Bossy Monkey]

5. Dunno... I never heard about the return trip to perform at the coffeehouse

this past Tuesday. Yer keepin' secrets!:P

[WCGreen]

40. We wnet but the line was too long so we jammed

in the parking lot......

some kids came up to listen...

It was so 1960ish...

I love it...

My partner in crime just went ot florida, bad timing on his part, and so I am just noodling around, trying out some new stuff...

But the best part, I have my callouses back....

[Bossy Monkey]

47. Bitchin' cool! Great to hear...

and I bet it was great to hear! Good for you!:toast:

[WCGreen]

52. Yea, I'm playing better now that I did when I was in a band

I think it's cause you learn to depend on the other players...

Since everyone else in the band was far better than I was, I had the Charisma, they had the talent, I kind of focused on the show part....

But now, I realize I can do both....

I can;t wait to get in front of the people and show them how to perform.....

They all tend to just sit there and play and sing....

Except when a few of us older cats get going and make eye contact with the audience and dance a little you know, get the audience going....

i can't wait to get there early enoigh to make the cut....

[In_The_Wind]

2. I'm never anything other than real myself

a little too much of a feather-head at times .... but never an asshole

[Squeech]

3. I hope

I'm perceived as somewhat more of a nice helpful empathic type than a crank. But I'm open to the possibility of being seen as an asshole; I do seem to have a preternatural ability to piss people off.

That's okay too; uncritical endorsement and lockstep agreement is definitely not what I'm here for.

[Bossy Monkey]

9. You're almost the ideal example of what I was talking about re: usernames

as there's also a Squatch and Sasquatch on DU. Hopefully you'll forgive us if we have a little trouble keeping y'all straight. Anyway, as far as I know you've never pissed me off, preternaturally or otherwise.

[SarahB]

4. I'm pretty darned warm and open.

I'm basically just "me" here. I'm a person who needs to wear my heart, my values, and my opinions on my sleeve. I probably show more facets of myself here that is known only to those closer to me than I show to my bevy of acquaintances (who I tend to be more reserved with). There's a few people I am closer with (or have been) and I'd like to think those who know me well know I'm ultimately an honest and decent person- assorted complexities aside.

[Bossy Monkey]

6. What about that guy you killed in Reno just to watch him die?

I mean, you did it warmly and everything, but still:P

[SarahB]

22. Hence my image as Sarah B. Kickass!

:P

[Bossy Monkey]

37. He needed killin' anyway...

:)

[In_The_Wind]

8. good morning SarahBelle

I already liked you before we met :hug:

[SarahB]

23. Thank you, darling.

You as well. You are a very good person yourself. :)

[LynzM]

7. Mostly good

As far as I know, I've never really pissed anyone off around here :shrug: I will answer questions for advice and opinions honestly, which some people might not like, but hopefully most appreciate!

[SarahB]

24. I've never seen you do anything mean around here.

You're one of those people who goes out of your way to be nice. Something to be said for that. :thumbsup:

[LynzM]

36. Thanks, dude

I think it's not so much meanness, but honesty when it sometimes may not be desired. But, that is me... I'm glad it's appreciated :)

[flvegan]

10. 10% warm, 90% asshole

But I think that's only in LBN, The Lounge and GD. I think folks see me as the exact opposite in the DU Groups I post in.

[Bossy Monkey]

11. A kick when it's down, since I'm an asshole nt

[DS1]

12. My asshole is on fire!

mmmm, hot sauce :D

[JimmyJazz]

13. I think I'm 60% warm, 40% asshole

I have a pretty strong personality and some pretty strong opinions to match. I don't expect everyone to get the warm fuzzies from me for that reason.

[Kathy in Cambridge]

20. I would say it's 90% warm, 10% asshole

and you're usually the latter to someone who deserves it.

[progmom]

14. I'm taking the 70/30 split

But it might be closer to the reverse on some days.

:hi:

[uppityperson]

15. I don't know. What do you think?

I don't know of any other uppity usernames, so I don't think I get confused with others that way. My name leads to an immediate prejorative conclusion. Sometimes I am outspoken, blunt, sarcastic or cynical, other times not. You tell me what your image of me is since I probably have another self image.

[Bossy Monkey]

34. Frankly, I always found the "uppity" in your sn to be endearing

which may of course be more a commentary on me.:)

[uppityperson]

44. Thanks. It serves a reminder to me to think before I talk or write.

or at least before I hit "post message"

[A-Schwarzenegger]

16. It is not how you feel, baby,

it is how your image feels.

[supernova]

17. I'll say 60/40 split

I'm not really an asshole so much as I can be pretty reserved, especially in GD. The more emotional I get in debate, the more detached and Spocklike my writing becomes. Odd dichotomy there.

But mostly here in the Lounge, my writing is pretty much as you would find me IRL. Though sometimes threads move so fast I don't have time to respond. It's like in a conversation where you think you have something to say, but folks have moved on to another topic.

That's why I keep a journal. I can let things out that really don't fit anywhere else.

[no name no slogan]

18. Hey, what about 0% warm, 100% asshole

Not that I think I am or anything but I'm just saying :evilgrin:

[Blue_In_AK]

19. I think I'm mostly warm ... I said 90-10.

I've only had one message deleted in 3000+ posts, so I think that's a good sign. By the way, my name is not really Blue.

[bigwillq]

21. 80-20 warm

I'm sure there's tons of people out there who find me annoying!:D

[scarlet_owl]

25. I would say I'm 100% warm.

[Mojambo]

26. I can be a tad snarky and abrasive

I'd say 40 warm and 60 asshole.

[NoSheep]

27. 70/30 for me as well.

as my username implies, I'm no follower, but I think I'm nice enough not to be considered a full-time asshole :+

[elshiva]

28. 100 % asshole here

[no name no slogan]

32. But that's why we love you!

I don't think you're 100% asshole. Maybe 99.9% maybe (but then look who's talking) :P

[Bossy Monkey]

35. When? I only know you as somebody given to apologizing for stuff

you don't need to apologize for. Pretty much as far from asshole as can be imagined.

[Rhiannon12866]

49. You're wrong, my friend.

No part of you, on DU, at least, is an asshole.:D

[Terran]

29. I'm guessing it's 50/50

Some folks just don't like being reminded that some of their posts are based on emotion and hysteria, not on facts. I have no doubt that that makes me an asshole, to those people. I'm really a nice guy, I just get rather impatient with stupidity.

[LWolf]

30. Absolutely no clue.

:hi:

[Kenneth ken]

31. 100 percent warm

although 95% would probably be closer to true. I've had only 2-3 posts deleted.

There's more than enough strife in the world, as well as on these boards; I feel no need to add to it.

:)

[leftofthedial]

33. I'm really more of a warm asshole

[evlbstrd]

38. Beats me.

I don't get a lot personality feedback.

[sundog]

39. 10% asshole, 90% slut

[BiggJawn]

41. I'm an Asshole! I'm an Asshole (That's RIGHT!)

I'm an Asshole! I'm an Asshole! (Yes, Yes!)


Aw, I knew you'd be surprised...

[enigmatic]

42. Absolutely no clue

which of course, is why I'm enigmatic..

[cally]

43. Mostly warm but I can be an asshole

so I chose 90 percent warm

[VOX]

45. I try to keep my assholiness to an absolute minimum...

And only trot it out for proper occasions, like troll invasions, etc.

[fortyfeetunder]

46. I'm proud of the asshole part

After all, the HOLE means..Helping Others to Lead and Excel!

[Rhiannon12866]

48. When people say they've always liked my posts, I'm surprised, since

There are just so darn many of us now, and that, as you say, it's hard to keep track of even DUers who we are familiar with. And I don't think anyone notices what I said, unless they reply. But it does make me feel good.:-)

[Bossy Monkey]

50. Well, apart from your own wonderful qualities, naming yourself after one

of the most popular songs of all time, such that anybody who's turned on a radio since 1976 knows it well, might be a bit of a leg up in this regard. Darned clever, I always thought!:)

[Rhiannon12866]

54. Thanks for the kind words. But I didn't choose my sn because of the song,

Though it's always been my particular favorite. I named myself for someone who was named for the Stevie Nicks song, and it suited her perfectly. "She moves like a cat in the dark, and then she is the darkness.":-)

The real Rhiannon:

:loveya:

[bicentennial_baby]

55. I notice!!

You're one of my fave DUers!! :hug:

[Rhiannon12866]

57. Thank you! Am I also one of your favorite fellow alumni? LOL!

I just got the NMH Magazine, with the Northfield "keepsake book," so had it on the brain.:evilgrin:

And you're one of my fave DUers, as well, though I still miss toolfan...:hug:

[bicentennial_baby]

58. Awww, of course you are!

I just got that also...it's a nice book, and I do think it's so sad that the Nfld. campus is closed. I drove by there the other day, it looks so empty :(

Yay for Rhiannon!! :hug:

[Rhiannon12866]

59. Of course, you're mine, as well, LOL!

I was a little disappointed in the book, since I leafed through it, looking for Gould Hall, my dorm when I was there, but it didn't seem to be included. The majority of pix seem to be of the old gym. Even I used the new one. And I agree that this is very sad. It's a beautiful campus with such an amazing history. Dwight Moody started Northfield first, you know. And, if I, who wasn't all that enamored of my Northfield experience, can feel sad, imagine how the die-hard early classes must feel! I read one letter from an alumnae, from the '40s, I think, who said that they should have waited until "all us old broads died off" before they did this. Yikes!
:wow:

Thanks for the hug, and right back at ya!:hug:

[MrScorpio]

51. I'm 100% cool with my fellow DUers and 100% asshole to freepfucks

As God intended it to be.

[khashka]

53. 90% warm 10% asshole.

I mean there was that time I accidentally called fleabert an asshole. I mean I didn't really but she thought I did and it sure looked like I did.

Let's change that to 90% warm 10% stupid. I'm a nice guy, I really am, just dumb as fuck.

Khash.

[FLSurfer]

56. I'm really new here, so I'm sure

no one recognizes my screen name.
I voted 90% warm?
I can't remember the last mean thing I did,
but, I try not to make absolute statements.

[Rhiannon12866]

60. Believe me, you'd sure know it, if you had caused any trouble, LOL!

Welcome to DU, FLSurfer! I can't believe that no one else welcomed you! We're so glad to have you with us! And I'll remember you!:hi:

[FLSurfer]

68. Hi Rhiannon

No worries, plenty of people have offered me welcome in other threads.
All the names are new so its difficult to remember many.
I'll do my best to remember yours.

[Rhiannon12866]

70. Hi, FLSurfer!

I certainly hope that others have welcomed you. That's DU policy, set by newyawker99, who has the highest post count of anyone on DU and is our official welcoming committee. Chances are, you didn't escape her notice! She's also taken responsibility for Milestones and DU birthdays, both human and pets, an incredible task. She welcomed me on my very first post, making me feel instantly at home.:-)

And, with 73,000 registered members, it's impossible to remember everyone, LOL! If you frequent certain forums, you'll get to know those who usually post there. There are countless others who you'll never cross paths with.:shrug:

And some exchanges are memorable, so you'll remember those as well, hopefully all positive. I'll remember you, I promise, and do my best to make sure that you don't forget me!:D

[Rabrrrrrr]

61. Your pole is setting up a false dichotomy, and so doesn't make sense

The poll is saying that one cannot be "warm" and an "asshole" at the same time.

It's a trick that pollsters, especially from the right, LOVE to use.

"Do think that women should have equal rights with men or that women should be banned from murdering innocent children?"

"Do you think science cirriculae should use the scientific method in our public schools, or that schools should only teach evolution, an unproven theory?"

[Bossy Monkey]

62. Come again? The poll is completely about being both things at the same

time. Your assertion would only be true if it read, Are you a warm person or are you an asshole?

(And stop talking about my pole.:P)

[Rabrrrrrr]

63. It was a Freudian slip.

I can't stop thinking about poles.

:spank:

[Rabrrrrrr]

64. No it isn't - you can't be an asshole and warm at the same time

in this poll.

It's only degrees of each, and they have to add up to 100%. SO one cannot be 100% asshole AND 100% warm, or 70% asshole and 50% warm, or 20% asshole and 20% warm.

Youve set up warm and asshole as being opposites and mutually exclusive, which they aren't.

[Bossy Monkey]

65. Then write your own poll nt

[Rabrrrrrr]

66. I'd rather bitch about yours!

Doing my own is too much work.

:P

[Bossy Monkey]

67. Rabrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr's pole: Are you an assholl or a warm person?

1: 90% warm; 60% asswhole
2: 3% warm; 110% asshoal
3: 22% warm; 69% asshaul
4: 99% worm; 13% U-haul
etc.

Note: JUST KIDDING!

[Rabrrrrrr]

69. ROTFL!

That does sound like something I'd post.

Nicely done!!

5. 72% Asshole, 89% Level-headed archer, 16 ounces bear fat

[Briarius]

71. How about mostly un-noticed?

probably mostly good, but un-noticed. I usually don't mind though.

[Left Is Write]

72. I think I'm probably mostly warm.

[Jamastiene]

73. I am not sure. I wouldn't mind knowing though.

I'm probably seen as an asshole by some and warm by others. I try to keep a warm asshole though. Nyuk, nyuk, nyuk, nyuk. Okay, I try to be funny, but sometime I miss the mark. When people reply to my funny stuff, it helps me find out what's funny and what's not. I just gotta keep trying. I love to make people laugh though. I love to laugh too.

[LeftPeopleFinishFirst]

74. I dunno

I said 90% warm, 10% asshole, but I'm sure a few select people would disagree! :D

[bridgit]

75. 100% warm

:rofl: i leave the assholeiness to others genetically better suited to the task :rofl: they know perfectly well who they are ~