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supernova Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-18-05 09:58 PM
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I have a crush on a guy at work
I have no idea why... exactly, except that he's always especially kind to me. and always laid back about what I do to his books.

He's good looking in a geeky sort of way. Very European, and great arms. :hug:

I always thought he was married, but I honestly don't know.
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Chicago Democrat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-18-05 10:01 PM
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1. I have a crush on the gardener
he's geeky and thin and 19 and doesnt wear a shirt and it so..... oh..
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assclown_bush Donating Member (573 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-18-05 10:28 PM
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15. Do you have a picture you'd like to share? n/t
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Chicago Democrat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jul-19-05 10:57 PM
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32. Washboard stomach, so thin, tall, wears low hangin pants with baggy
silk shorts.. Marine haircut. Likes to show off his body.
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Radio_Lady Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-20-05 12:00 AM
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34. This reply is for both of the above --
It's a little crude -- but my mother used to say,

"Don't shit where you eat!" (or in your garden...but maybe there's a better way to say it!)

Except for "Desperate Housewives," a romance where you work or with the help -- is usually disasterous in my opinion. Been there, done that, believe me.

Your mileage may vary... some people marry the boss. I guess I'm thinking about Melissa Gates (is that Bill's wife's name?).
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Chicago Democrat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-20-05 12:05 AM
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36. Oh screw that! I look at him from the veranda and notice his glistening
muscles flexing in the morning sun mixed with sweat. He notices me noticing him and smiles and continues his work. Noticably his manhood bulges as if in fantasy of what is to become. Our eyes meet and freeze as if time has stopped. I lick my lips and wave for him to COME HITHER!
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TimeChaser Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-20-05 12:28 AM
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38. Was that
word for word from some cheap romance novel?
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Radio_Lady Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-20-05 12:57 AM
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39. Hey, I swim with a "romance author" -- she is about 300 lbs with
a wonderful sense of humor. She also never has sex anymore, is divorced, and not especially good looking. Enjoy your fantasies, but it's no comparison to being "caught" with the gardener.
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napi21 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-18-05 10:03 PM
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2. I suggest you stay away from any relationship!
Sure, some work out, but by far, the majority do not! It's always the girl who gets fired or relegated to some stupid job out of sight.

There's an old saying that's worth remembering. "Never dip you wick in the company ink!"
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supernova Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-18-05 10:04 PM
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3. Oh, I wouldn't do anything about it
I find it curious more than anything really. Mostly these things don't work out for me, work or not. :-(

But it will be fun to just think about for a little while.
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chaska Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-18-05 10:17 PM
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6. I agree with what napi said, except....
that it ain't always the girl that gets fired. Don't ask how I know.

I would never go down that road again.

Quit first, then date him.

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Radio_Lady Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-20-05 12:01 AM
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35. See my post -- nicely said, but I don't have a wick ---
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donheld Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-18-05 10:15 PM
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4. I have a crush on a guy at work too
ok really it's just lust.
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supernova Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-18-05 10:16 PM
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5. What does your guy look like?
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progmom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-18-05 10:19 PM
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7. i married my crush at work
:loveya:
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supernova Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-18-05 10:21 PM
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10. Hee. I'm glad yours worked out progmom
How's your head? Owie.
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progmom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-18-05 10:24 PM
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12. it hurts
but i will live. ;)
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supernova Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-18-05 10:26 PM
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14. .
:hug:
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proud2BlibKansan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-18-05 10:32 PM
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17. Hey me too
That is, I married my crush, not yours. :)
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sundog Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-18-05 10:19 PM
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8. i have a crush on any guy who shows me the slightest bit of attention
and i REALLY have a crush on a guy who pays me no attention whatsoever :P
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supernova Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-18-05 10:20 PM
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9. Ha. Are you trying to tell me something?
:-) I know this couldn't possibly be any good for me.
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sundog Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-18-05 10:45 PM
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27. no, it's true with me
:)
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supernova Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-18-05 10:51 PM
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28. Aww, you deserve someone
who will pay attention to you Sundog. :-)
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sundog Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-18-05 10:52 PM
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29. aww, you do more sn
you know i think you're da bomb :hug:
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supernova Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-18-05 10:55 PM
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30. Awww,
:cry: :hug:
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Poiuyt Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-18-05 10:24 PM
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11. Women tend to fall for guys who treat them like dirt
Must be the "bad boy" image.
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supernova Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-18-05 10:25 PM
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13. I don't think he's a bad boy, though
he appears to be more the responsible type.
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Maddy McCall Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-20-05 01:02 AM
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41. Maybe women with horrible self-esteem...
who only want to be "the one" who changes the guy.

Most women DO NOT like to be treated like dirt.
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Cocoa Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-18-05 10:30 PM
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16. very European?
like this?

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supernova Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-18-05 10:33 PM
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18. LOL! He's Belgian
to be precise. :D

But yes, there's a little of Dieter in him. SNARF :rofl:
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WCGreen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-18-05 10:35 PM
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19. Girls DO like bad boys
I married one - I'm Mrs. W. C. Green
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supernova Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-18-05 10:36 PM
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20. So, is WC a bad boy?
;-)
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progmom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-18-05 10:36 PM
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21. you married a bad boy?
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WCGreen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-18-05 10:40 PM
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23. Mrs. WC Green Hijack the thread while
I was doing my situps.....

Have to keep her happy now....
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supernova Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-18-05 10:42 PM
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24. So, what's the answer?
Are you a bad boy, or not? }>
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WCGreen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-18-05 10:43 PM
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25. Hell yea.....
when we got hitched, my mother in law, from a vey republican country club type family sadi this

I don't mind the long hair, he'll grow out of it
I don't mind that he plays in a band, they aren't going anywhere
But why did she hve to fall in love with a god damn democrat....

True Story
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candy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-18-05 10:40 PM
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22. I had a crush on a guy in the supermarket when I was
pregnant with my FIFTH child.

Unbelievable where these crushes come from.

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supernova Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-18-05 10:44 PM
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26. Isn't that the truth!
Fifth kid? How many do you have if you don't mind my asking?

I wasn't expecting this at all. Totally from left field. This person also travels a lot, so it's not like he's in town all the time.
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candy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-18-05 10:59 PM
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31. Number 5 was it and it had nothing to do with the guy in the market
I just smartened up !
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liss681 Donating Member (227 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jul-19-05 11:51 PM
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33. I have a crush on my brother's best friend
and I am married! He's just too adorable.... :loveya:
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Dukkha Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-20-05 12:24 AM
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37. I got one on a girl at work, married with 3 children
only because she could pass for my ex's twin sister. She's sweet as can be too. Drives me nuts! :silly:

Ah well, I'd NEVER dip my ink in the company pool anyway. That's certain death.
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Tweed Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-20-05 12:58 AM
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40. Ummm....
or wreck a home I hope!
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Dukkha Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-20-05 01:06 AM
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42. oh hell no!
I don't date anymore anyway. I gave up.
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