Nice guys and women

[GaYellowDawg]

The worst woman I ever knew is attracted to men who ignore her.

Contrastingly, all of the best women I've ever known ended up with nice guys. I got interested in a couple of them just a hair too late, and had to admit that dammit, they were dating nice guys, so I couldn't even get worked up about it.

So what's up? It's my opinion that many nice guys who complain about women don't put themselves out there enough. I'm guilty of that myself. I like to make the excuse that my timing sucks, but the fact of the matter is that I don't get out enough.

Want a good woman? Find a hobby or several hobbies where you can meet as many women as possible. Be sure it's something you enjoy or find important. Are you an activist? Then get out there and volunteer/march for everything you find important. Like sports? Go to the events instead of sitting home and watching them on TV. Don't be afraid to ask someone out who seems interesting. If she says no, don't waste a second pining about it, worrying about it, or analyzing it. Don't try to change her mind. You can't. Only she can. Go on to the next one. Repeat as needed.

You have to develop the same attitude towards asking people out as you do in sports. No matter who you are or how good you are, you're going to have days when you get burned, and you gotta put those days out of your mind. Keep trying and you'll find success.