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laura888 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-02-05 09:38 PM
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Why do some fathers think their daughters are goddesses?
Just got back from visting my brother's family. They have 2 daughters. I was there for about 4 hours. I should say we are not that close, and the last time we saw each other was a few months ago.

During the time I was there, at the parent's request (not mine) - the daughters were asked to play their musical instruments. Everyone sat very still while they did so. Afterward, the older daughter (14) was asked to model a few of her new dresses. Much ado was made about what type of shoes she would wear to the next dance. The younger daughter was asked to recite a recent poem that she had written. Then, there was much talk about the girls' swim meets and upcoming school and vacation.

I wanted to tell my brother - I like your kids, but come ON!
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evlbstrd Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-02-05 09:39 PM
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1. My daughter is a goddess.
No argument.
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driver8 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-02-05 10:12 PM
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16. Mine is a "pint size princess"...she even has a t-shirt that says so!!
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The Magistrate Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-02-05 09:39 PM
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2. Because They Are, Ma'am
At least mine is....

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pitohui Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-02-05 09:43 PM
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6. ps mr magistrate
what kinda owl is that, that's a cool photo
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The Magistrate Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-02-05 09:44 PM
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8. A Screech Owl Of Some Sort, Comrade
Wife found it, to adorn my late night shifts here....

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pitohui Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-02-05 09:46 PM
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11. thanks couldn't get context
couldn't see the size

now i do see that essential screechness

nice photo, kudos to you and the wife
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pitohui Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-02-05 09:41 PM
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3. oh man are they cherokee
Edited on Tue Aug-02-05 09:41 PM by pitohui
my dad did this

i used to be told that i was descended from cherokee princesses

then finally i was told, well, actually, to the cherokee, every little girl is a princess! -- and believe you me, it was not my dad or his family that revealed this little fact

i hated performing, i still hate music, poor kids, they were probably just as miserable as you

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Lex Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-02-05 09:41 PM
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4. I think my niece is a goddess
and I like to hear her play the piano and show me all the cool stuff she's doing.

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RoyGBiv Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-02-05 09:42 PM
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5. My daughter is a goddess ...

There's not why to it. What is, is. Next question.

Now, having her model anything but her rapier wit is not something I'd find appropriate, but such external trappings have nothing to do with her goddess status.







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Fovea Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-02-05 09:44 PM
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7. Right on.
You da man, Roy.
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WannaJumpMyScooter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-02-05 09:44 PM
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9. I have two little girls, both princesses, without
a doubt.

It is just the nature of fatherhood.
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lateo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-02-05 09:46 PM
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10. Do you have kids?
I have 2 daughters...

/Goddesses
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laura888 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-02-05 09:52 PM
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13. I don't have kids.
I like his kids - they're great. But is it necessary for them to be the only topic of discussion when I am only visiting for a short while?

I adore my cats, my boyfriend, my job and much else. However - I don't talk about these things to the exclusion of all else when people visit me.
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jobycom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-02-05 09:47 PM
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12. Goddesses, Hell, mine are the universe!
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kodi Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-02-05 10:01 PM
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14. bcause they are the only females who think that their dad is smart?
.
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driver8 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-02-05 10:13 PM
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17. That would be funny if it weren't true!!
Sometimes, I'm not too sure about that!! My wife will say, "Do you realize that you are arguing with a 3 year old??!!"
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BiggJawn Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-02-05 10:06 PM
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15. "some"?
I think we ALL think our daughters are goddesses...

Mine's Vama Kali.
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R. A. Fuqua Donating Member (281 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-02-05 10:23 PM
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18. no kids yet--
but I LOVE it when parents are proud of their kids showing off their acomplishments and work on building their self-esteem.

So many families now are broken and don't get a hoot about the kids--your brother is a great man in my opinion.
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dajoki Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-02-05 10:35 PM
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19. both of my daughters are goddesses
Edited on Tue Aug-02-05 10:35 PM by dajoki
O8) O8)
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Bouncy Ball Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-02-05 10:38 PM
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20. I don't get it.
Edited on Tue Aug-02-05 10:40 PM by Bouncy Ball
I kept waiting for the offensive part. Or the obnoxious part.

Where was it?

How was that treating them like they're goddesses? Help me out here.

As for other subjects, did you bring anything else up? Maybe he didn't know what to talk about and his daughters were an easy topic to cover?

:shrug:



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Bouncy Ball Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-02-05 10:41 PM
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21. Oh and my daughter is a goddess.
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