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LiveWire Donating Member (372 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-03-05 08:36 PM
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So I am dating a Republican...
So, at last, the girl who everyone thought I should go out with in High School is now dating me. Heres the kicker: in high school we were both Republicans, now I am not. In fact, I am pretty hard left on most issues. I think I have an unofficial officers position in the UCSB campus democrats. She is the senior copy editor for the Cal Patriot (the conservative magazine in UC Berkeley). Politically, we should be tearing eachother apart. However, this doesnt seem to be the case.

It is a very strange relationship indeed. I call her my Rapture Right, and I am her hippy liberal. And even though I have become a pariah of my organization, I really could care less. Politics rarely come up in our day-to-day conversations (although I could use a some ammunition on Bush's tax cut if anyone wants to help me out). I hope everyone would get teh chance to date one from the other side. Its sort of like living a bad romeo and julliette play in real time.
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Kelvin Mace Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-03-05 08:40 PM
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1. The only thing I will say on the matter
Opposites may attract, but similarities endure.
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Deja Q Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-03-05 08:50 PM
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6. Wrong.
I know people married 30+ years and are quite different with interests.

It's that they care for each other so deeply that keeps them together through thick and thin. When richer or poorer. In sickness and in health.

Many of the folks who froth at the mouth about "defending marriage" should look at those folks and then note how many times THEY have been divorced.

Yes, similar interests to an extent is good. But loving, trust, and caring works out for the true long term. I'm sorry our "society" puts wealth about all other things; many divorces happen BECAUSE one partner merely lost a job. x( x( x( x( x( x( Fuckin' PATHETIC.
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LiveWire Donating Member (372 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-03-05 08:51 PM
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Why does...
everyone talk about marriage when we are together!!! IM TOO YOUNG TO DIE!

PS-For richer or poorer...after student loans we will be both "poorer" for quite some time.
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Mayberry Machiavelli Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-03-05 08:42 PM
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2. Undergraduate age: Being horny might factor much larger in
the relationship than any other element.

At least if you're like most people I know.
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El Fuego Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-03-05 08:43 PM
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3. So you need to convert her!
She might come around, maybe she was brainwashed by an important person in her life and doesn't know better.

Hilary was a Goldwater republican. Ariana Huffington was a republican. If she has a brain she might have an epiphany.
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LiveWire Donating Member (372 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-03-05 08:46 PM
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5. lol...
She is a moderate republican, and therefore ostracized by much of her club.
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bertha katzenengel Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-03-05 08:44 PM
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4. It's worked for my sister (the lib) and BIL (the con) for 25 years.
It's not impossible. More happiness to you! :bounce:

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tedoll78 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-03-05 08:51 PM
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7. You're a better person than I am.
In my book, Republicans are not worthy of nookie.

Unless you think you can convert her.. :evilgrin:
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LastKnight Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-03-05 08:54 PM
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8. all of my relationships have been with some of the 'other side'
and the ones ive known for any considerable ammount of time i wind up turning to at least moderate liberal.
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liberaltrucker Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-03-05 08:58 PM
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9. Hey, Carville and Matalin hit it off....nt
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chaska Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-03-05 09:03 PM
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10. Picture of things to come....
Edited on Wed Aug-03-05 09:03 PM by chaska


You're doomed! Get out while you can.
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LiveWire Donating Member (372 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-03-05 09:07 PM
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11. Youre a sick puppy
But its been the most passionate two months of my life.
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chaska Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-03-05 09:13 PM
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13. Oh man, you're toast.
Enjoy the gravy.
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RetroLounge Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-03-05 09:10 PM
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12. Republicans are screwing the country
Turnabout is fair play :D

RL
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steely Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-03-05 09:17 PM
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14. I blame the parents.
seriously, I hope it works out - but from my experience, it's blossomed into a frickin sore spot.
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