Sex Writer Authoring How-To Book On 'Three-Ways'

[matcom]

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San Francisco sex writer Diana Cage says she's thinking about three- ways a lot these days.

She is writing a book on the topic that's due to her publisher in the next few months, her fifth book on sex in two years. Cage, who just finished a three-year stint as editor of On Our Backs, the only lesbian sex magazine in the country, talks and writes about sex with self-sacrificing honesty and disarming humor. But when asked about this new book she responds with her fears.

"I told my publisher I was going to get my lesbian card taken away," said Cage, who lives in San Francisco's Mission District. A how-to guide on three- way sex could be seen as pandering to fantasies of straight men and could play into old and tired stereotypes, she said.

The 36-year-old Cage believes that her work instead levels the ground and challenges the boundaries that define socially and sexually accepted behavior. In a how-to on three-ways, that means convincing straight men that it is acceptable -- fun, even -- to touch each other, said Cage, who believes women also have much to learn.

"What if you're a woman who wants to have a three-way but has never had sex with a woman before? You need to know some things. That knowledge does not come naturally. It just doesn't," said Cage as she sat barefoot and cross- legged on a chair in her tidy apartment, where a large furry rug dominates the living room floor.

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http://www.sfgate.com/cgi-bin/article.cgi?f=/c/a/2005/08/05/WBG25E0G8U1.DTL

[Kraklen]

1. Thank god.

I've been so confused.

I've spent all this time looking for a member of the elusive third gender that's open to new experiences.

[mongo]

5. LOL!

:rofl:

thanks for the belly laugh!

Would that be a try-sexual?

[Hugin]

6. There's a few Tri-sexuals around.

They'll try anything.

Ba-doom *pissh*!

[Elidor]

2. !!!

:popcorn:

[Jeff In Milwaukee]

3. A three-way? That's easy!

DU'ers from Cincinnati are chuckling right now. Believe me.

[Hugin]

4. Hmm... I thought there were 52 ways.

I guess it's 53 then.

[Misunderestimator]

7. So, I suppose you've already preordered yours?

[matcom]

8. i'm a consultant

;)