My brother spentd 14 months in Yugo during the civil war in the UN.

[Swede]

He saw unspeakible things. He crys when he gets drunk. This was 15 years ago and it still haunts him.

[madmax]

1. Very sad for him and you, too.

:hug: for you both.

[babylonsister]

2. Swede, II'm here. I'm saying "Peace!"

I have a history, but life goes on.

[HEyHEY]

3. Where was he? All over?

[Swede]

7. Hey fired on unfriendles when there was no-one else to help.

He was in a two day firefight with Croats, you will not hear this on CBC. You will never see this on TV Dead and wounded on both sides. Towns burned to the groud.

[JimmyJazz]

4. There are no words to begin to express how sorry I am.

:hug:

[Swede]

5. Dad is gone now,he was such a help.

He went through this in World War two. I never tapped that strength. Now my brother has dreams of murdered children and burning buildings and I do not understand his his deep sadness. I can ssy I "Please Wayne,move on." but this does nothing for his sleepness nighs.

[skygazer]

6. How horrible

Has he ever gotten any counseling or would he be open to it? It might help him at least find ways of coping with his memories - that stuff just percolates inside and becomes more and more powerful instead of less with time.