is David Elkind's The Hurried Child. I would recommend we reread it or read it for the first time. It seems very appropriate about now.
Elkind does an excellent job describing how we have de-valued childhood, from dressing children like miniature adults, to making adult gadgets, like cell phones, available to them.
http://images.amazon.com/images/P/0738204412.01._BO2,204,203,200_PIsitb-dp-500-arrow,TopRight,45,-64_AA240_SH20_SCLZZZZZZZ_.jpgHere is the Amazon review:
Internationally recognized as the voice of reason and compassion, Dr. Elkind showed that in blurring the boundaries of what is age appropriate, by expecting-or imposing-too much too soon, we force our kids to grow up far too fast. In the two decades since this groundbreaking book first appeared, we have compounded the problem, inadvertently stepping up the assault on childhood in the media, in schools, and at home. Taking a detailed, up-to-the-minute look at the world of today's children and teens in terms of the Internet, classroom culture, school violence, movies, television, and a growing societal incivility, Dr. Elkind shows a whole new generation of parents where hurrying occurs and why and what we can do about it. http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/tg/detail/-/0738204412/104-0719962-6803964?v=glance