Jessica Alba digs older men, I like bad boys, what about YOU?

[Rising Phoenix]

[evlbstrd]

1. I dig Jessica.

I'm somewhat older, and still a bad boy.

[Rising Phoenix]

2. well you have your bases covered, don't you?

[evlbstrd]

9. And a fat lot of good that's doing me.

[JVS]

3. Young and chaste

mmmmmmm

[tjwmason]

75. Are you sure that that shouldn't read chased?

:shrug:

[sniffa]

4. i Like them fem

not too muscuLar. bLeached bLonde do is nice too.

[Rising Phoenix]

5. remember when I was blond

[ronnykmarshall]

46. Who you talkin' 'bout?

[sniffa]

86. oh, no one in particuLar

:loveya:

[bicentennial_baby]

6. i like so many kinds...sigh

older men, bad boys, professional guys, femme girls, and on and on... :)

[Rising Phoenix]

8. yeah, I like femme girls too...

and an occasional older man

[Trigger Hippie]

7. I must admit I like older men too

And I'm way attracted to the punk, tattooed boys with BEARDS OF COURSE! But none of those bad boys ever seem to be interested in me. But the older guys always flirt with me. Oooh, and I love guys with a bit o' nerd in 'em too. Hell, I love em all. :)

:hi:

[evlbstrd]

10. Someone told me semi-geeky creative types are the hot commodity now.

[Trigger Hippie]

13. Good for them!

But less of those nerdy boys for me...:(

[evlbstrd]

15. Just say no to pocket protectors.

[Trigger Hippie]

18. Yeah, guys with PPs

are a bit TOO nerdy for me. :)

[evlbstrd]

22. I'm assuming initials, there!

[Trigger Hippie]

25. Yes, assume initials

:rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl:

[fudge stripe cookays]

68. Those are the ones I've ALWAYS gone for.

Dead Giveaway: One of my exes is now a comic book artist.

But I dig em exotic: Asian/Pacific Islander, vaguely Latino/native American. Like Benjamin Bratt or Jason Scott Lee. Yum!

FSC

[Wapsie B]

84. Hmmm

ya coulda fooled me. But then again I've never felt like a hot commodity. How about the quiet guy in the corner? That's more my speed.

[LaurenG]

11. I adore

Nice men with off the hook humor. I love the silly, seductive, humorous ones. I don't go for looks, I only go for nice,(honest, wise) , funny men as long as they are over 21.

[gmoney]

37. .

[LaurenG]

40. That is very clever

Your humor is off the hook. :yourock:

[nickgutierrez]

12. I like smart women. n/t

[Javaman]

14. I'm old and was a bad boy, now I'm a bad old man. LOL

[no name no slogan]

16. I like brainy women with attitude, a big vocabulary, and cynicism

to match my own. But there's one I really really like in particular...

[Wapsie B]

17. Well I'm an older guy

and want to be a bad boy.

;-)

Pluse I thought Jessica was hot even before this little revelation.

[grace0418]

19. I like smart, funny, bookish sorts.

I don't go for guys who are super buff, because I always wonder how much time they spend in the gym to look that way. I don't go for guys who are super skinny, just because it makes me feel too huge. I like guys who are medium to broad build, with something to hug and cuddle! Height doesn't matter much to me because I'm pretty short. Race doesn't matter either, I like all sorts. I do seem to prefer dark hair and eyes, but that's not a hard and fast rule.

I think it's personality that attracts me more than anything. I go for guys who are funny, and smart, and nice. I love affectionate guys who are silly and playful and good with animals. I cannot be with an overly macho guy, or a Republican, or a guy who only watches sports and action movies. He must love travel, good food and music.

Hmmmm... sounds suspiciously like my sweet husband! :)

[Divameow77]

20. I have to say I like Bad Boys too

then I married a clean-cut geek :loveya:

[Poiuyt]

21. I like younger women with long straight hair

Of course, I'm bald and in my 50's so that doesn't get me too far! I think my tastes were frozen when I was younger. Plus, most women are conservative where I live.

[Lilith Velkor]

23. I like my men the same way I like my coffee, sweet and creamy

[WCGreen]

24. Hey I'm old and I have a new found respect for

the young ladies acting talents......

[Left Is Write]

26. I like men who make me laugh and who value honesty.

[AnarchoFreeThinker]

27. hey babe, that's me on the five dollar bill.

[Left Is Write]

29. Going for the humor and the honesty label all in one fell swoop, eh?

[AnarchoFreeThinker]

32. yeah, two birds with one stone. Did I mention I invented DU?

[Debi]

57. What do you think you're doing?

:grr:

[AnarchoFreeThinker]

74. aw, honey, it's just innocent flirting. I didn't mean anything by it.

[Debi]

76. Well, forginess will cost you...

[AnarchoFreeThinker]

77. you win. check under your pillow.

[Debi]

81. Awwww

:loveya:

[Left Is Write]

28. .

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[JVS]

30. We may have argued about this before, but I believe that humor and honesty

are at odds at a fundamental level. Humor seems to be at the very least a spinning of reality and quite possibly complete fabrication.

[yorgatron]

31. hmmm...

[JVS]

33. hubba hubba

[Adenoid_Hynkel]

73. was counting how long it would take

for a hot pic of her to get gratuitously posted in this thread

[AnarchoFreeThinker]

34. humor, IMHO, reveals much more than it hides

[JVS]

35. I think it tends to distort. It reveals something, but the veracity of...

the revelation is questionable.

[Left Is Write]

36. No, we personally haven't argued about it before, but

I see no reason why a sense of humor and honesty can't co-exist quite nicely. I've seen and known many examples in my life.

[progmom]

38. weird....i guess i got really really lucky

i have a really funny, really honest man. :)

[SOteric]

47. Whoa. I passionately disagree.

A lie is a statement made by a person who either believes or suspects it to be false, in the expectation that the hearer will believe it to be true.

Fiction and humour involve making statements believed to be false that the hearer/reader is intended to recognize as a falsehood.

The essence is in the intent to deceive.

[Joe Chi Minh]

62. I don't think you're right there.

TV satirists in the UK found out pretty early that they needed right-wing governments in power, as by far the most fertile source of humour.

Since r-w governments, in all but the most corrupted countries (e.g. currently, the UK and US) depend on mendacity and hypocrisy, it's inevitable.

On the other hand, while dishonesty tends to seriously blind people to truth, it does happen, sometimes, that individuals can be deeply, deeply dishonest, while yet recognising at least some of the very truths they routinely try to conceal and misrepresent.

But a characteristically honest person surely tends to be more aware of the absurdity all around us, and will prefer to see the humour in it than the tragedy, since the latter woud be unbearable. If we couldn't laugh, we'd cry, sort of thing. Well, them thar's my thoughts on it.

[GOPisEvil]

69. In my humble opinion, that's a crock of shit.

:)

[khashka]

39. I like older bad men

And girls like Jessica who could kick my ass....

Khash.

[tjwmason]

50. Where do I fit into that scheme

I'm younger than you, I won't claim to be good - but I scored far below you on the purity test.

Does this mean that Khashka's gone off me - just as I've learned to type his name without looking too. :cry:

[khashka]

52. You are an exception to the rule, tj

There should always be exceptions to rules.... it's what makes life interesting. Besides, how could I not fall for you?

Khash.

[tjwmason]

54. I'll take it as a great compliment to be an exception

As for your question how could I not fall for you? very very easily by opening your eyes on a picture thread.

:hug: :loveya:

[khashka]

59. A pix thread?

I will take this opportunity to not tell you how gorgeous you are yet again.

Khash.

[tjwmason]

60. I've only seen a few pictures of you

and so have little to back me up when I tell you how gorgeous you are - but I'm still sure that you are, I can positively feel it (N.B., F.W.I.W. and B.T.W. more pictures always most welcome).

[ghostsofgiants]

41. I'm willing to bet a search for...

"Scrawny, dorky guys with glasses and dreads" Won't turn up many results in this thread, haha.

As for me...as long as they have decent taste in music and decent sense of style (ie. NO tracksuits; especially no VELOUR tracksuits) then I'm happy.

[henslee]

42. I'm eighty, my teeth chatter and I wear depends, bring it on, Jess.

[tjdee]

43. I like guys who are smart, nice to children and animals, and who dance.

Dancing is a requirement. Doesn't even have to be good.

[SOteric]

44. I like darkly twisted, geek assbuckets

with a level of passion, sensitivity and complexity not easily comprehended by the population at large.

:hi:

[Dukkha]

56. you just decribed me perfectly

:hi:

[ronnykmarshall]

45. Bad boys.

But I married a "good" boy.

I guess I'm a bad boy to him.

[Kat45]

48. I like younger men.

Currently banging a man 15 years younger than me. :D

[Rising Phoenix]

49. go you!

[Dastard Stepchild]

51. I like introverted geeks...

of the male and female persuasion. Though, I can be tempted by a "life of the party" type person. But no... really I'm too much of a homebody for that. So, I stand by my original statement.

:hi:

[LissaM]

53. smart and funny

and cute... No country music, must love to travel preferably a pilot! ;)

[LSU_Subversive]

55. i luvs the geeks. n/t

[JimmyJazz]

58. smart and funny and a little bit bad.

:D

[A HERETIC I AM]

61. This thread needs more pics of Jessica

So here is a couple




Just. Frickin. Gorgeous.

[Liberalynn]

63. Men with hint of old world charm

who has confidence in himself enough so he won't begrudge me being smart too. Who will open doors not because he thinks I'm helpless but just because he wants to be sweet and caring.

gooey, unrealistic, and romantic I know but there it is.

[4_Legs_Good]

64. I have to admit that I like thin women

Not absurdly thin, but ummmmm, pretty thin. Athletic is even better and mousy yet stmart (and athletic) are the best of all.

Oh my yes.



david

[Solon]

65. I like smart women, with a good sense of humor...

that will at least pretend to laugh at my jokes. I'm somewhat introverted, so no "hanger ons" and no high maintainence women please. Creative types, doesn't really matter what they are, writer, artist, poet, love them all. I prefer a woman that is grounded in who she is and where she wants to go, in general terms of course. Honesty is definately needed. Open minded as well.

[u4ic]

66. Geeks/nerds

with my sense of humour, honest and just a bit shy. Somewhat serious is ok, too, I like to make'em laugh. :bounce:

DON'T like bad boys, steroided blokes or kool-aid drinking conservative corporate-speak types.

[Lydia Leftcoast]

67. I like witty intellectuals

:loveya:

[friesianrider]

70. My ideal guy would be...

Someone who acts like a hard ass but is actually very smart and very sweet. Only met one guy like that...

[yorgatron]

71. hmmm...

[friesianrider]

72. She is...

very gorgeous, and I say that as a straight female! :) And quite the liberal, I hear...

[WI_DEM]

80. by acting like a hard ass

you mean somebody who treats other people rudely and acts all macho but then when he is alone with you is sweet and considerate?

[NewJeffCT]

78. Personality is more important than looks for me (honest)

I'm not saying I don't like looking at Jessica Alba, but I'm generally quiet & laid back, so have always been attracted to intelligent women with outgoing, energetic personalities.

I like to joke now that before I married my ex-wife, we didn't speak for 6 months... I didn't want to interrupt her while she was speaking. And, after our first date, she called me & we talked on the phone (long distance) for like 2 1/2 hours. When we were saying goodbye, she said, "it was nice talking to you" and I responded, "and it was nice listening to you."

My wife now is also outgoing and energetic, though not nearly as long-winded as my ex.

Lookswise, they are quite different - my ex was mabye 5'0", curvy Hooters girl figure, fair skin, blue eyes. My wife now is Asian, 5'4", very slim, black hair, dark eyes.

in between, I dated a smorgasboard of women of all shapes, sizes and colors. But, the ones I dated more than once were all the intelligent, outgoing types.

[WI_DEM]

79. how do you define a "bad boy"?

[justacitizen]

83. I am a very

bad boy.}(

[WI_DEM]

85. Good

and welcome to DU!

[Ron Mexico]

82. Tall women, tall, tall, with long, long, looooooong legs.

I'm 6'2" and my ideal woman is at least that tall.

[Bush_Eats_Beef]

87. I'm always grateful for yet another excuse to post THIS photo:

:evilgrin:

[chaska]

88. Bad boys are just that, boys ... children.

[Reverend_Smitty]

89. considering I'm only 21

If I liked younger guys, it would be borderline illegal. Give me an older man any day of the week...what I wouldn't do to have one night with George Clooney!

[leftofthedial]

90. how do you feel about bad older men?