Eight left...

[khashka]

Well seven now.

If you don't help me out, I'll start posting lyrics.

You have been warned....

Khash.

[tjwmason]

1. I've been doing that I can.

But you seem to take half an hour to post a single response to one of my posts. :P

[khashka]

3. It ain't my fault!

I have to hunt your posts down like wild boars! You post all over the map. And the search function ain't all it's cracked up to be.

When I see your posts I always respond, if I don't then I didn't see 'em.

Khash.

[tjwmason]

4. Most of mine are in response to yours

Have you noticed that little wee "my posts" button at the top? :P

I'm just trying to give you a quick helping hand (I've only just realised the potential double entendre of that).

[khashka]

6. That was a little snarky...

"My posts" button indeed!

As for "most of mine are in response to yours" - admit it, babe, you'ld throw me over in a split second for sundog or clintmax or shall I name more names :evilgrin:


Khash, jokeingly indignant.

[tjwmason]

7. I just need to get me a harem of gorgeous DUers.

sundog seems to hate me now, and Clintmax is happily married (sorry it would appear that I confused you on that one).

But, no, I'm a loyal person - you've broken through most of my defences, I'm not about to push you aside for anybody. :loveya:

[CaliforniaPeggy]

2. My sweet Khash....I'll help you out, any way I can....

So you're nearly at 4000 posts...

This is a very good thing....and yours are ALWAYS interesting, provocative and wonderful to read...

Sleep well, my dear? :evilgrin:

Actually, I do have a question for you...in another thread I saw this AM...you said your mom doesn't know about your daughter...

This puzzles me...and if I'm overstepping my boundaries, please forgive me...

Off to the shower now...I'll check in later....:toast:


:loveya:

[khashka]

5. I'll tell you....

I was dating this girl, my parents hated her, I loved her.

She got pregnant (not by me) and so I married her. I insisted on it. We'd discussed marriage - after college - but needs must. We didn't tell anyone. Or not many people. When she miscarried we lost the few friends we had told. (It got really nasty - we were blamed, she was blamed, she was accused of not really being pregnant but trapping me. And not a fucking one of those "friends" understood how much we were hurting. Or tried to.understand.)

Later, we had a daughter.

I can't really explain this, but my marriage (now over) and my daughter have always seemed so very very private. It's only in the past few years I've talked about it, to anyone. I don't know why.

I guess part of it had to do with my being gay and her lesbianism (or bisexuality). We caught a lot of flak for getting involved with each other.

Anyway, I still love my ex-wife. I'm so proud of my daughter. And I have a lot of respect and friendship for her stepfather.

And that's the story in a nutshell. We were way too young. But Mary's been a great mom, and Mark's been a great stepdad, and I did my best. Only Ally (my daughter) can judge me as a father.

I feel I can discuss it here because it's kind of anonymous.

Just take it as a given that I'm a little weird :)

Khash.

[CaliforniaPeggy]

8. My dear Khash....

Thank you so much for opening up to me...I truly appreciate your trust.

I miscarried my first pregnancy too, and so I know how painful that is...

And I was in my marriage that everyone approved of....I can only glimpse how much pain you had when that happened to your wife...

Props to you for marrying her even though it wasn't your child...many men would not be able to do that...

I do not see you as weird...not at all...you are very calm here, and you make your points calmly, and intellectually as well...You are so very literate and well-spoken...It is a treat to talk to you, and to hear your thinking...

Thank you...