Democratic Underground Latest Greatest Lobby Journals Search Options Help Login
Google

Have you ever had a one night stand?

Printer-friendly format Printer-friendly format
Printer-friendly format Email this thread to a friend
Printer-friendly format Bookmark this thread
This topic is archived.
Home » Discuss » The DU Lounge Donate to DU
 
ButterflyBlood Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Sep-18-05 03:11 PM
Original message
Poll question: Have you ever had a one night stand?
yes, I have.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
ZombieNixon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Sep-18-05 03:23 PM
Response to Original message
1. No, but I'm willing to.
Taking all applications! I prefer brunettes.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
radwriter0555 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Sep-18-05 03:48 PM
Response to Reply #1
4. Yes. Luckily I began having sex about 3 years before AIDs and HIV were
discovered.

I literally remember reading the article in the Tallahassee paper at breakfast, about a mysterious virus killing NYC gay men...

I remember dating a fellow shorly thereafter who told me of his single homosexual experience a couple years prior, and actually doing the math in my head, wondering if it was something I should worry about.

So, I at least got to have some wild, late 70's one night stand sex before it became lethal.

*sigh*
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
WCGreen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Sep-18-05 03:24 PM
Response to Original message
2. Too many to count.......
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
KitchenWitch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Sep-19-05 01:44 AM
Response to Reply #2
15. You decadent trollup
:rofl:
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
CaliforniaPeggy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Sep-19-05 01:45 AM
Response to Reply #15
18. My dear KitchenWitch...
Are you still up?


Feel like chatting? Call if you do....
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
KitchenWitch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Sep-19-05 01:48 AM
Response to Reply #18
21. Sure Peggy, let me log in.
:hug:
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
WCGreen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Sep-19-05 01:56 AM
Response to Reply #15
24. Oh that's me all right.....
Chris Green, Male Prostitute......

Nah, I never got paid to get .....

Let me just say this...

The seventies, drinking way too much and sprinkle some drugs on top of that mess.....

Let's just pray to the gods of love and I will thank them I never had the pleasure of contracting an STD......
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
KitchenWitch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Sep-19-05 02:05 AM
Response to Reply #24
26. You are LUCKY!
I know a lot of folks who were not so fortunate. HIV, Hepatitis, Herpes, the whole nine yards.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
billyskank Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Sep-18-05 03:44 PM
Response to Original message
3. Yes
I would have gone steady with her, but it wasn't meant to be.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
alarcojon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Sep-18-05 06:03 PM
Response to Reply #3
10. The closest I've come is a three-night stand
I think I get your drift, Billy.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
WCGreen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Sep-19-05 02:08 AM
Response to Reply #10
28. Listen to Lucinda Williams These three days......
It's heart wrenching....

Those are worse than the one night stands....

ONS are like a test drive....

But three days, a lot of heart can be involved and torn and tattered....
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
bikebloke Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Sep-18-05 04:13 PM
Response to Original message
5. Eventually grew away from them.
Not that I had so many that I was a tart. They began feeling empty, so I veered away from them. Later, if I was feeeling randy, I'd look back with regret. The moral: Might as well go for it, as long as it's up front and mutual.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
In_The_Wind Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Sep-18-05 04:19 PM
Response to Original message
6. yes
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
CaliforniaPeggy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Sep-18-05 05:56 PM
Response to Original message
7. I haven't had any......
Long marriage, no temptations as yet...

But one never knows about the future.......so I put that I'd be willing to have a one-night stand......


:shrug:
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
FuzzySlippers Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Sep-18-05 06:10 PM
Response to Reply #7
12. Good lawd, Peggy! You shock me!
I think I have an attack of the vapors.:wow:
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
CaliforniaPeggy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Sep-19-05 01:42 AM
Response to Reply #12
14. I'm not entirely surprised at your being shocked, my dear Fuzzy Slippers
I do believe that most folks here see me as a fairly straight-laced married woman...

Who might not have the appetites of the younger women....

Suffice it to say that I am a well-rounded female with all the appetites and needs of anyone....

And if someday I am deprived of my marital state, I just might find myself in the one-night-stand situation...

I don't really expect it, but you never know....

Never is, after all, a VERY long time.....
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
FuzzySlippers Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Sep-19-05 03:20 AM
Response to Reply #14
32. I'm not really shocked, Peggy.
I've done it myself.:blush:
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Gothic Sponge Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Sep-18-05 06:00 PM
Response to Original message
8. Does masturbation count as a one night stand?
If so, I have one every night. :P
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
alarcojon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Sep-18-05 06:02 PM
Response to Reply #8
9. It shouldn't count
sounds like a committed relationship to me! B-)
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Akoto Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Sep-18-05 06:04 PM
Response to Reply #9
11. LOL.
The most devoted partner I've ever had. :p
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
no name no slogan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Sep-18-05 06:13 PM
Response to Original message
13. Yes, and tried to turn it into a relationship
but it didn't work out. It was 10+ years ago, and I'm much more selective about that kind of thing now.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
LaraMN Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Sep-19-05 01:44 AM
Response to Original message
16. Probably.
:9
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
enigmatic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Sep-19-05 01:45 AM
Response to Original message
17. Yep
In my younger musician days. It was a fun time in my 20's..
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
blonndee Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Sep-19-05 01:47 AM
Response to Original message
19. Yeah, I've had plenty. I wish it wasn't considered such a
taboo thing...what's wrong with two people getting together with no strings attached?
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
MissHoneychurch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Sep-19-05 01:47 AM
Response to Original message
20. Yes
I had my share.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Wapsie B Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Sep-19-05 01:49 AM
Response to Original message
22. Yes.
But what I wouldn't give for one of those to turn to love.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Droopy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Sep-19-05 01:49 AM
Response to Original message
23. Yes and I won't do it again. n/t
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
BlueIris Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Sep-19-05 02:00 AM
Response to Original message
25. For some reason, I clicked "no, but I'm willing to."
Edited on Mon Sep-19-05 02:01 AM by BlueIris
Mostly because although I cannot say that I would desire to be in a relationship anytime ever again, I could, at some point in the future, perhaps see myself sleeping with someone. So, one stand stand it is, even though, back when I was dating, that sort of thing didn't work for me at all. I was always one of those "have to know them first" types.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Broken_Hero Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Sep-19-05 02:07 AM
Response to Original message
27. Yes....
but didn't mean to really, sorry, my only one was at the Comfort Inn in Riverside California....and Brenda if you are out there, thanks.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
RevCheesehead Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Sep-19-05 02:09 AM
Response to Reply #27
29. Damn - I wish I was going to DC.
Edited on Mon Sep-19-05 02:10 AM by RevCheesehead
There are bound to be a few that weekend, aren't there? :evilgrin:

edit: sorry, meant to respond to original post.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Wapsie B Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Sep-19-05 03:17 AM
Response to Reply #29
31. Damn you ARE naughty aren't you?
:evilgrin:
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
RevCheesehead Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Sep-19-05 11:05 AM
Response to Reply #31
37. I certainly have my moments.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Wapsie B Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Sep-19-05 11:51 AM
Response to Reply #37
41. Good!!
So do I. ;-)
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
LeftyMom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Sep-19-05 03:11 AM
Response to Original message
30. No, even in my wilder days that sort of thing never interested me
I'm boring. :boring:
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
DS1 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Sep-19-05 04:42 AM
Response to Original message
33. I've tried, they just kept coming back for more
the next night :shrug:
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
SOteric Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Sep-19-05 07:32 PM
Response to Reply #33
44. I can understand why.
:hubba:
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Trigger Hippie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Sep-19-05 07:46 AM
Response to Original message
34. Yeah, and I wish
I hadn't. :puke:
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
GOPisEvil Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Sep-19-05 07:53 AM
Response to Original message
35. Once. It was really, REALLY unfulfilling.
:(
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
eyesroll Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Sep-19-05 07:54 AM
Response to Original message
36. I don't know -- does it count if it was your best friend at the time?
If so, then yes. But there was a lot of lead-up (we both had major crushes on one another, but we were almost never single at the same time), and the friendship continued after the initial awkwardness wore off. (We had a couple of make-out sessions after but only did the deed that once. I was 16 or so.)

Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Shell Beau Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Sep-19-05 11:07 AM
Response to Original message
38. Nope, never have probably never will since I am married!
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Blue-Jay Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Sep-19-05 11:09 AM
Response to Original message
39. Yes. Several.
Back in the day...
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
RetroLounge Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Sep-19-05 11:44 AM
Response to Original message
40. Yes, I had one this weekend!
with this HOT redhead I picked up at a wedding in Lake Geneva, WI.

She was wearing this fantastic green beaded flapper dress with 4" black heels and could dance like an angel. I loved watching her dance all by herself on the dancefloor, and every guy there was staring at her. So I walked up and asked for the next dance, and she softly touched my cheek and said yes, and we then danced together all night.

And she was the sexiest woman I had ever met in my life, with a smile that made my heart melt, and big green eyes that I could get lost in and never resurface.

She was at once beautiful, gentle, confident, intelligent, vulnerable, charming, caring, funny, tender, and amazingly exciting.

I instantly fell in love.

We danced until 2am and then she came with me to my room and I thought I had died and gone to heaven.

RL

Oh, wait a minute, that was my wife... :shrug:


Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
VelmaD Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Sep-19-05 11:54 AM
Response to Original message
42. Yup...
Edited on Mon Sep-19-05 11:54 AM by VelmaD
though most of them have turned into 2 or 3 day flings. Sort of more like one-weekend stands. :) The first one I had in college...not so good. But the couple I've had since then...wonderful. :)
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
RedCloud Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Sep-19-05 01:09 PM
Response to Original message
43. Wasn't planned that way... She did mention I was guy #150!
Or it could have been that three way one nighter. Does that count for anything at all around here?? :dilemma:
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
bigwillq Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Sep-19-05 07:33 PM
Response to Original message
45. Oh yeah.
:evilgrin:
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
xmas74 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Sep-19-05 07:37 PM
Response to Original message
46. I'd prefer to forget about it.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
DU AdBot (1000+ posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to view 
this author's profile Click to add 
this author to your buddy list Click to add 
this author to your Ignore list Thu Dec 26th 2024, 11:29 AM
Response to Original message
Advertisements [?]
 Top

Home » Discuss » The DU Lounge Donate to DU

Powered by DCForum+ Version 1.1 Copyright 1997-2002 DCScripts.com
Software has been extensively modified by the DU administrators


Important Notices: By participating on this discussion board, visitors agree to abide by the rules outlined on our Rules page. Messages posted on the Democratic Underground Discussion Forums are the opinions of the individuals who post them, and do not necessarily represent the opinions of Democratic Underground, LLC.

Home  |  Discussion Forums  |  Journals |  Store  |  Donate

About DU  |  Contact Us  |  Privacy Policy

Got a message for Democratic Underground? Click here to send us a message.

© 2001 - 2011 Democratic Underground, LLC