help.

[Splatter Phoenix]

...i just got into the biggest fight with my best friend ever, and i fear it's the end...

the thing is, i don't have any other close friends, period...and i'm one of those super-dependent personalities...

the whole thing's hard to explain, but...suffice to say i really think it's over.

i don't know. i don't know what to do.

[AirmensMom]

1. What did you fight about?

[Splatter Phoenix]

2. it's really, really hard to explain...

but see...she...has this thing about proving me wrong all the time...making me admit to things i've done wrong...i usually give in and admit because 999 times out of 1000 she's right.

but this time she was wrong. and i said so.

[AirmensMom]

4. Yikes!

And you call her a friend?

[Splatter Phoenix]

6. *actually crying, how pathetic is this*

i know...i KNOW she's abusive.....i don't have anyone else...

now i really don't have anybody...

maybe it's better that way, i always end up hurting them anyway...

[Omphaloskepsis]

5. That's what I was thinking..

You wanted Taco Bell and they wanted Burger King. That is easy to repair. Hey, I got drunk and slept with your ****friend. That might really destroy things.

I would suggest getting some sleep before dealing with it. That usually helps for me when I have fight with someone.

Good luck..

[Splatter Phoenix]

7. sounds like a good idea....

thanks...:hug:

[philosophie_en_rose]

3. Is it too late to mend fences?

A true friend is a treasure - as the greeting cards say. It's sad to lose a friendship over a fight, in most cases. You could tell your friend that you recognize that you need some time apart, but that you value your friendship and that you'll call in a few days or weeks.

If you have a superdependent personality, you might want to give your friend some space.

[Splatter Phoenix]

8. Maybe it is me...

I really don't know anymore...this has been building up a while..

thanks for your time and suggestion.

[philosophie_en_rose]

15. It can't all be you.

It takes two people to fight. There are plenty of people in the world that would want to be friends with you, so don't invest your self-worth in a friendship that isn't meant to be. If it isn't meant to be.

[Floogeldy]

9. Need more facts.

Do tell?

:)

[Splatter Phoenix]

10. don't know if i can explain it properly...

i really don't think i can...it was dumb to put this on anyway...stupid pity-whoring angst-bucket that I am....

I can say she was trying to make me admit that something wasn't true, and that I'd been lying to her about it...and I refused to budge. it happened about 50 minutes ago and I think I'm in shock or something....

God, I'm an idiot, I'm so sorry for wasting everyone's time with this. >_<

[AirmensMom]

11. You're not wasting anyone's time.

But it might be a good idea to sleep on it ... if you can.

:hug:

[Splatter Phoenix]

12. Thanks so much.

I guess I just...needed to vent or something... :hug: x_X without DU I might...I dunno, kill myself or something retarded like that...

[Floogeldy]

13. Oh, cover us up with vague and meaningless bullshit again.

Such a joy. :)

[Splatter Phoenix]

16. ...myeep....

definitely a bad idea to post this here.

[AirmensMom]

14. Post in the morning and tell us how you're doing.

Don't do the retarded thing.

:hug:

[Splatter Phoenix]

17. Though it would have been easier.

I now heavily, heavily sympathize with the abused in spouse relationships. it is hard as fuck to break away, and i can't do it.

[AirmensMom]

18. One thing's for sure ...

abusive relationships are no fun. I hope you can do what's right for you on this one.