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Things that help me ...
- getting away from computer - even a GREAT book read in bed will eventually put you to sleep.
- if you like alcohol at night, try herbal tea instead - try blends from the co-op with stuff like kava kava, skullcap, chamomile, hops. I like going heavy on the kava kava by adding more to the blend. You might like something else better - lots of people like skullcap ... skullcap makes me groggy the next day; kava makes me have wild dreams and be relaxed the next day. Talk to the hippy type person hanging around the bulk herb bins, they'll help you out. - this was a big revelation for me: mattresses wear out! I had the same bed for about 24 years, minus the eight or so years when I was at college or crashing in various places across the country. A year or so ago, my folks and brother started telling me I needed a new bed. I said nah, mine is fine. In Oct, I was given the choice of a new bed for a birthday present - was given a price range ... of the five or six in the price range, one was clearly the most comfortable: a hard one in which the springs were attached only in the middle instead of at top and bottom. Since I've been sleeping on that, I've heard about 10% of the BBC radio I was accustomed to listening to while I thought I was "trying to get to sleep" - I was actually trying to get comfortable.
- this doesn't seem to apply to me any more, but when I was trying to get comfortable, I usually fell asleep quicker if I made myself not listen to the radio. I imagine watching TV would be much worse.
- during my last "really bad" insomnia bout, I got a prescription for generic Valium (hadn't slept since a friday afternoon, got the prescription Monday eve) ... the prescription ran out in August, I had refilled it less than I could have, and haven't asked for a refill since ... I think it helped me "learn" to get to sleep, everything mentioned above seems more effective now, except for the new bed, which came afterwards.
- consciously staying still helps - when I feel the urge to toss and turn, I quietly ask myself if rolling over will make myself more comfortable, or if it's just part of me that really wants to stay awake.
Anyway, I definitely know what not getting to sleep is like, and wanted to share what has helped me.
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