I need a consensus

[khashka]

My ex totally dissed me - he said (5 minutes ago) that I'm a miserable little bitch who makes everyone unhappy just so I can feel better about my pathetic excuse for a life.


So am I really like that? I would say no... but you never know how you look through other people's eyes.


So you have two choices:

1. Khash is a miserable SOB who should just fuck off and die.
2. I kind of like him.

I told him I would post this and he said if I told anyone he'd kill me.

So maybe I'm a dead man. But I'll be a dead man with a constiutiency. Hopefully.


Khash.
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[RevCheesehead]

1. Oh!

I hope I'm first in line to say I :loveya: you!

[LeftyMom]

2. I

But you knew that. :loveya:

[bridgit]

3. i say we reject ALL their baseless notions what say...

:pals:

[CaliforniaPeggy]

4. Sorry, my dear Khash.....

You KNOW those two choices will NOT cut it, esp. with me!

I certainly like you....I even love you......in a certain way, as you know!

My god, you do not make everyone unhappy just so you can feel better about your life!

You are a giant force for good here in the Lounge!

Tell him to knock it off!

:loveya: :hug:

BTW, did you get my PM?

I would like to talk to you......

[Deja Q]

5. I would love to hug you right now.

All I can do for the moment is send you this emoticon:

:hug:

We all have our downsides... but your ex redefines the concept if he has to stoop so low. Indeed, your ex is doing something that most psychologists would call "projection". He is speaking of himself. Not you. You are a wonderful, charismatic guy, and I would genuinely love to meet you one day. :hug:

[Floogeldy]

6. We are not capable.

Except for the posters here who have interacted with you and know you well, there is no way for someone like me to determine whether or not you are a miserable little bitch who makes everyone unhappy just so you can feel better about your pathetic excuse for a life.

That would be like me asking, "What color of shirt am I wearing?" You don't know.

All I can say is that I like you and your posts.

[Droopy]

7. Tell your ex

Why don't you just fuck off and die!!!! Just fuck off and die!!!!

Who gives a fuck what he thinks anyway? He's probably your ex for a damn good reason.

[LaraMN]

8. What the Eff ?!

Y'know, there's a reason our exes are our exes, right? That's ridiculous! Give him a titty twister and run away- he's a meanie. :hug:

[ScreamingMeemie]

9. Khash, I think you need to stop listening to your ex.

As I told a good friend recently, "Don't let *unamed person* define who you are. These people are simply not worth our time. :hug:

[miss_american_pie]

10. I enjoy your posts

Tell him to get bent. :hi:

[merh]

11. I don't agree with your ex.

I have seen you make an effort to make folks happy about themselves and to protect them.

I am glad your ex is your ex. You deserve far more than what that person has to offer.

:hug: :loveya:

[Ohio Joe]

12. Honestly

There is no way for me to tell. Knowing what someone posts on a message board and what that person is like in real life can be two very different things.

[ScreamingMeemie]

13. And all we should really care about is how we feel about the person

on the message board, IMO. :hi: Unless we end up meeting them in real life.

[kedrys]

14. Tell him to go soak his head

then kick him in the rear thruster. Make his self-fulfilling prophecy come true.

He's a mean idiot, you're a good person, and he probably never deserved you. IMHO.

:hug:

[riona]

15. why was the x being so nasty?

[supernova]

16. Tell you ex to go find other prey

That's just sad, Khash.

I adore you and you've been nothing but kind here in the Lounge. :hug:

Your ex is the one with the problem. Perhaps it's time to kick him out of your life permanently. I had to do that to mine.

Again, :hug:

[nothingshocksmeanymore]

17. It's a question only you can answer

Posting this may be your way of deflecting his communication. Of course you would say no...but what prompted him to say that? If you are willing to post the communication, then what about what led to such a strong statement...usually when you don't hear people or refuse to, they get louder...I said something similar to another person and I meant every word of it...and they are

[nothingshocksmeanymore]

19. I now know what this thread and your other thread are about

You are being used:
http://www.democraticunderground.com/discuss/duboard.php?az=show_mesg&forum=105&topic_id=4971775&mesg_id=4972675

[sshaw1980]

18. lol....

grtfu !!!!

lol !!!

how old r U ?

# 1 looks like a winner....

[sshaw1980]

20. ohhhhi viewwwwwww

lol i cannot stop laughin''''

[sshaw1980]

21. hmmm disturbing...

Except for the posters here who have interacted with you and know you well, there is no way for someone like me to determine whether or not you are a miserable little bitch who makes everyone unhappy just so you can feel better about your pathetic excuse for a life.



oh my god ....

[Heidi]

22. Khash, honey, you can't obsess about what your ex says.

When I left my ex-husband, many years ago in a gossipy Midwestern town, he made me out to be the Whore of Babylon (maybe because he knew how much I loathe the word "whore"), and since he was fairly well-known and respected in town and I was 12 years younger than him and therefore an opportunist (admittedly, I availed myself of the opportunity to pay his child support arrearage, buy us a house out of _my savings_, and singlehandedly raise his four sons in our home because he and his ex-wife were so busy fighting that they didn't have time for their children), I had to make a whole new set of friends, and for a loooooooooooong-ass time, I could look only to myself for the truth about who I was.

I don't like you. You're my friend and I love you. But don't look to your ex, or DU, or to me for the truth about you. Look to _you_.

:hug: :loveya:

[Briarius]

23. you're a bitch!

:evilgrin:
but you're our bitch and we love ya! Don't let other people get ya down, in the grand scheme of things their opinion means pretty much zilch. You are who you see yourself. If they can't see that then they should fuck off and die :D