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foxy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-05-03 10:12 PM
Original message
I have a boyfriend who has a very different view than mine
Edited on Fri Dec-05-03 10:14 PM by foxy
But he wants to state his views about DU without me getting in trouble. Is it ok if he states his ideas in my post?

If it is a problem I will make him go to sleep.
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sleipnir Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-05-03 10:14 PM
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1. Um... may not be prudent...but it's a free world...
the Lounge is kinda crazy tonight, a lot of snowed in drunks...

If it's a worthwhile discussion, I'd be happy to engage, but I can't speak for the rest of the board.
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AWD Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-05-03 10:15 PM
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2. Make him go to sleep.....
...do you think that FR would allow you to post what YOU think in their forums?

Keep his opinions to himself...we don't need to hear them on our board.
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Systematic Chaos Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-05-03 10:15 PM
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3. View about what, exactly?
If I were you I would just have him sign up himself. Then there won't be any confusion about who is saying what, and you won't risk being tombstoned if he goes off and offends everyone, causing your user ID to get alerted to the mods.
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THUNDER HANDS Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-05-03 10:16 PM
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4. let him post...
then edit all his stuff. :D
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foxy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-05-03 10:17 PM
Response to Reply #4
5. I will probably agree but something inside me wants to see what he has to
He is such a dip-shit
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WannaJumpMyScooter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-05-03 10:19 PM
Response to Reply #5
7. Then why is he your boyfriend?
Come on, let's see it.
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foxy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-05-03 10:31 PM
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11. Here goes I am going to let him state what he thinks is right
Yes in my post since we live together.
====================================

To my understanding,this is a forum to give your opinion and discuss certian issues. SO how come when people vioce there opinion different from yours( the founders or whatever)you kick them off or close there discussion.That doesn't sound democratic, it sounds dictatorish!!!
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FDRrocks Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-05-03 10:39 PM
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18. b/c this is a board for progressives.
As stated in the rules. This is a web board, and thats what its owner chooses to do.
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cally Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-05-03 10:46 PM
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22. I have seen what the invaders post
and most of their purpose is to belittle and squealch honest discussion. This isn't a forum to debate the rw, there are plenty of those sites on the web. This is a forun to build a progressive movement.

After seeing and helping thwart a few freeper invasions, I support this rule wholeheartedly. A few polite, thoughtful conservatives do contribute to the discussions. It's the other one's who are banned.
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greatauntoftriplets Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-05-03 10:47 PM
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24. Here are the rules. They should be read.
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sendero Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-05-03 10:54 PM
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30. I'll bite....
.... your question sounds reasonable on its face. But it's not.

There is no problem with "different opinions" here. But these opinions have to be, albeit loosely, progressive in nature.

We are all (well mostly) familiar with the arguments of the "conservative" viewpoint and reject them out of hand. Most of them are based on fallacies that simply do not stand up to any intellectual rigor, or history for that matter.

I know from personal experience, if you let "conservatives" post here, all that will happen is a long fight, becoming quite acrimonious, and absolutely nobodys mind will be changed at the end.

Political discussion boards *have* to work this way, they simply devolve into useless chaos otherwise. The conservative counterpoint board, "free republic" has essentially the same rule. If you post the liberal side of the story you will be banned.

I'm sure you think you have all these wonderful counters to the things you read here. And, to be sure, not every post on this board is exactly top-notch analysis. But by and large any general opinions you have about the "war" on terror, the economy, etc, etc, would be refuted utterly and definitively within minutes of your posting. Save yourself the trouble.
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NightTrain Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-05-03 11:22 PM
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38. "Dictatorish?"
Edited on Fri Dec-05-03 11:23 PM by NightTrain
Congratulations on having added a new word to the English language! For future reference, the word is "dictatorial."

And another thing: It's "their opinion," not "there opinion." You obviously took spelling lessons from the good folks at Free Republic!
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dolo amber Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-06-03 12:34 AM
Response to Reply #38
45. I was waiting for that
And might I say you handled it admirably...so well in fact that this is me now ----------> :D:D:D:D:D:cry:
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neebob Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-06-03 12:39 AM
Response to Reply #11
47. This is his big idea that's so different?!
Um, okay. How about a new boyfriend who doesn't read over your shoulder and pester you? You're givin' me a flashback here. I could make some educated guesses about this guy's behavior and how happy you are.
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AndyTiedye Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-05-03 10:34 PM
Response to Reply #5
13. An Obvious Question Comes To Mind
> He is such a dip-shit

Why is he your boyfriend?
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JanMichael Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-05-03 10:43 PM
Response to Reply #5
20. If he's such a "dip-shit" then why...<insert vulgar comment> him?
I suppose that might be considered intellectual dishonesty, on a personal level obviously.
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liberalmuse Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-05-03 10:18 PM
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6. Hmmm...
if he's even semi-freeper, a self-involved libertarian or a self-important, snotty, elitist liberal, just warn us beforehand. I'm really not in the mood for any of these tonight.
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SOteric Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-05-03 10:25 PM
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8. As long as the Admins don't end up banning *you* as a Freeper
I would think it would be fine.

So, ultimately, it's back to being a matter for your discretion and good judgement.

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greatauntoftriplets Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-05-03 10:26 PM
Response to Reply #8
9. Depends on what his views are.
Do you want to be associated with them?
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foxy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-05-03 10:37 PM
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16. I'm not scared
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greatauntoftriplets Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-05-03 10:38 PM
Response to Reply #16
17. Why do you want to be associated with them?
Has he seen the rules?
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brainshrub Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-05-03 10:29 PM
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10. It only takes 3 minutes to register under his own name
and you won't risk getting tombstoned.
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otohara Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-05-03 10:32 PM
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12. No!
DU is for democrats and progressives, not right-wingers. There's a place for him at freerepublic.com
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johnnie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-05-03 10:36 PM
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14. I'm interested.......
And yes..there are a few snowed in drunks tonight...mmmmmm Gin tastes good on these cold snowy nights. Plus...he can't get any less responses than I have in the last year I have been here..lol
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greatauntoftriplets Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-05-03 10:37 PM
Response to Reply #14
15. No, he will start a flamefest.
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JanMichael Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-05-03 10:40 PM
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19. Jesus potatoes! Why not have him just create a username & be done...
...with it?????
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foxy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-05-03 10:48 PM
Response to Reply #19
25. It stlll comes back as my ip address right?
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JanMichael Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-05-03 10:52 PM
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28. Is he going to suggest killing the Jews or something?
They delete "usernames" Foxy, not IP addresses. BTW My cable modem has "shifting" IP addresses so that doesn't count. But I'd bet that the DU admins would never delete YOU bcause of a proxy fuckup.

Does he hate the "darkies" or sumptin'?
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Wonk Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-05-03 11:28 PM
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40. You remember that previous "foxy" thread too? I think it was around June,
Edited on Fri Dec-05-03 11:36 PM by Wonk
or maybe May.... Don't bother looking in the archives. It was zapped after about 20 replies.

Hint: it was a "poem" written by this Nazi fuck.
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kodi Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-05-03 10:43 PM
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21. no way, the guy has no balls if he cant post himself..dump him immediately
but is that perhaps the kind of guy you want in your life, a guy with no balls?
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johnnie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-05-03 10:46 PM
Response to Reply #21
23. LMAO..(nt)
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foxy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-05-03 10:49 PM
Response to Reply #21
26. No he just does not want this to come back on me
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kodi Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-05-03 10:59 PM
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32. but, but, why, if he posts under his own monker would it come back on you?
jesus christ, what the hell are you thinking?

this guy has the backbone of a jelly fish.
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SOteric Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-05-03 11:01 PM
Response to Reply #26
33. Then why is there a problem with him spending the 3 minutes
to get his own log in and say what he likes in his own name.

What he wants is to say whatever he likes with impunity, and he wants to do it in your name. Those are not the actions of eirther a courageous or an ethical person.

Show him how to get his own account.
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Shakespeare Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-05-03 11:13 PM
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35. My guess is he's already registered for an account and been banned.
Thus, he wouldn't be able to use the email address again.

I don't understand why foxy even started this thread. She presumably knows what the rules are, and if has such a problem with not being able to post rightwing views here, she can just point out the relevant paragraphs in the rules.

If he's a republican, dump him. Surely you can do better.
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FarLeftRage Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-05-03 10:51 PM
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27. Far from my place to say it... but
sounds like you need to get a new boyfriend.

Especially one who shares your views on life, rather than being a "dipsh*t"...

However, to each their own.
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foxy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-05-03 10:54 PM
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29. Someday hopefully!
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johnnie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-05-03 10:58 PM
Response to Reply #29
31. LOL
Is he just a temp until a progressive mind comes by?
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C_eh_N_eh_D_eh Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-05-03 11:04 PM
Response to Reply #31
34. And if so...
are you by any chance a female over age 20 living in the greater Ottawa area?

Uh... I'm just asking for, uh.. statistical reasons, of course.
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FarLeftRage Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-05-03 11:14 PM
Response to Reply #29
36. I don't mean to be rude
but, when someone gives me an answer of "Someday hopefully!"...

I just have to ask, what does that mean exactly???
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Syncronaut Seven Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-05-03 11:34 PM
Response to Reply #36
41. I think it means that the sex is good
enough to overlook the flaws

A case of (A)ss over (B)rains a/b. Tell me I'm wrong, go ahead! Tell me. ;)
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foxy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-06-03 12:31 AM
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44. No that was not the answer.
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sendero Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-05-03 11:28 PM
Response to Reply #29
39. Or use the power...
... that women have to convince him to open his eyes.

It was a woman that made me see the light :)
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dweller Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-06-03 12:23 AM
Response to Reply #29
43. Make it
November 6, 2003.

otherwise, keep him and his pov to yourself.

dp
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Booberdawg Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-05-03 11:18 PM
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37. Get him his own account!
He's being an asshole!
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Zomby Woof Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-05-03 11:41 PM
Response to Reply #37
42. Booberumptious!
Booberifficbooberblunt! :D
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foxy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-06-03 12:34 AM
Response to Reply #42
46. Hey yawl are right he is a dingbat and he is passed out now
cool beans maybe I can rest from his retardedness tonight.
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Booberdawg Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-06-03 12:44 AM
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48. GOOD! Now, get him his own account to fuck around with when he's drunk!
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Moderator DU Moderator Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-06-03 12:44 AM
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49. Locking
Let's all say 'goodnight' to foxy and her, um, skeptical boyfriend.

Moderator
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