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beyurslf Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-07-06 07:06 PM
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I have a blind date tonight. Any advice?
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Jigarotta Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-07-06 07:08 PM
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1. practice facial reaction thing.
if he/she is beautiful, don't let it show. same the other way.
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beyurslf Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-07-06 07:14 PM
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8. Facial relaztion thing? Does that hurt? :)
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XemaSab Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-07-06 07:08 PM
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2. beyurself
:shrug:
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bigwillq Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-07-06 07:09 PM
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3. That's very good advice.
:thumbsup:
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beyurslf Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-07-06 07:09 PM
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5. LOL. Thanks!
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Shine Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-07-06 07:15 PM
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11. Awww...you took MY answer!!!
great minds....:pals:

:hi:
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bigwillq Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-07-06 07:09 PM
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4. Who set you guys up?
:shrug:
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beyurslf Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-07-06 07:11 PM
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6. My friend Maurice. It isn't an official "date" I guess.
We are meeting for drinks and some light food at a little restaurant/bar here. We are not meeting until 9ish. We may go to J's (a local gay bar here) after that.
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bigwillq Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-07-06 07:15 PM
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10. Sounds like fun.
My advice is not to go into it with much expectations. Just take it slow.
Get to know him. And if it goes well tonight than maybe a second date will be in the future.

Let me know how it goes.
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beyurslf Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-07-06 07:17 PM
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12. Oh I try to not have expectations... But I usually expect it to be a
tough experience. Blind dates have not gone well for me in the past :)

I am hope it goes well and least have a friend from it. He is just here for job interviews so he may not even end up living here. But maybe a second "real" date tomorrow.

I will definitely let you know.
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EstimatedProphet Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-07-06 07:13 PM
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7. Relax, and have a good time
I met TheProphetess through a friend that 'fixed us up'. Worked out pretty good I'd say.
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beyurslf Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-07-06 07:15 PM
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9. God the last blind date I had was TERRIBLE!
I wanted to kill my friend who set us up... and I am pretty sure the other guy wanted to kill him too :)
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taught_me_patience Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-07-06 07:17 PM
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13. At the end of the night
Edited on Fri Apr-07-06 07:19 PM by taught_me_patience
pull out a bottle of wine (from under your car seat) and say "can I come up?"

Works every time.


j/k

Actually:
Dress well - especially the shoes!!!!
Groom well - no hairs sticking out of the nose and clean breath!
Be polite - everybody still like a bit of chivalry
Be yourself


taught.
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beyurslf Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-07-06 07:21 PM
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14. Great advice. The grooming process is going to have to begin soon.
It takes some work and time to make this old dog look pretty. :)
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texas1928 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-07-06 07:21 PM
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15. Watch out for their cane.
and if they touch your face it is to see what you look like, they are not getting fresh.
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beyurslf Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-07-06 07:23 PM
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16. LOL. Thanks!
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WillParkinson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-07-06 07:30 PM
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17. Be sure to bring a treat...
for the seeing eye dog.

(Just smile. Have fun. Relax. Enjoy!)
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beyurslf Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-07-06 07:33 PM
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18. I am going to try. It is off to start the showering process....
And it is a process :)
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NNadir Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-07-06 07:38 PM
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19. I once had a blind date where I showed up and my date was making out
with someone at a bar. In fact she came close to screwing him right in the bar.

Yours can only be better than that. :evilgrin:

I actually got drunk one night later on and woke up next to her myself. The problem then was getting her to leave. It was very embarrassing and is the only time I can ever recall doing something like that.
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beyurslf Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-07-06 07:44 PM
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20. Oh my. Yeah your bad blind date beats mine.
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