Do you fall in love with every person with whom you "sleep?"

[Floogeldy]

Is it difficult for you to get emotionally involved, or do you fall for every one of them?

[FuzzySlippers]

1. What are you implying, Floog?

That there have been a lot? Are you calling me a slut, Floog?

:grr:

[Floogeldy]

14. I would NEVER imply such a thing about you.

At least not until I got to know you better. :P

[Lilith Velkor]

2. No

It's not difficult for me to get emotionally involved, but I don't fall for every one I "fuck."

[WCGreen]

4. Cool......

[Wapsie B]

3. I can sleep with someone and feel

an incredible sexual attraction. But falling in love takes a whole 'nother connection in addition to the physical urges. So no I don't. Not hardly.

[beyurslf]

5. No. Love has nothing to do with sex. I could fall in love with someone I

had not fucked.

[BikeWriter]

6. I fell for damned near every one, yes.

:cry:

[L A Woman]

7. unfortunately i don't get to sleep with everyone i fall in love with...

:-(

[Lilith Velkor]

8. Me neither

:(

[Starbucks Anarchist]

24. Welcome to the club.

:D

[ZombieNixon]

9. So far, yes.

But, then, I've only slept with two people and I was (or in this case, am) in a relationship with her (not both at once of couse, that would be awkward). :shrug:

[Boojatta]

10. It would be awkward, but a website might help

http://www.helpwinthisbet.com/

[ZombieNixon]

20. Wow!

That guy got three million hits. I wanna be him! :wow:

And I could make a much better website too.

Now if only I could get my girlfriend to agree to—no, no, never mind. :yoiks:

[u4ic]

11. No

I may care for them, but it's not always love...

[leftofthedial]

12. well not with my dog

and not with the people who are paying me to be there

otherwise, I'm in love with everyone

[Broken_Hero]

13. I do...

I'm sad/sorry to say. Every woman I have slept with, yes, I was in love with them....

[uppityperson]

15. Almost. I wonder if this is related to how old we are, when we grew up

I grew up before legalized abortions, with the warning that if I got pregnant I would be stuck with the person so make sure he was one I would want to be with, hence leading me to be emotionally involved with most every one.

[Floogeldy]

16. Insightful

:)

[Heidi]

17. Love is such a _strong_ word.

;)

[Whoa_Nelly]

18. It's been so long :::sigh:::

But, if memory serves me correctly, the answer is....No! That would be dumb!

[pitohui]

19. good lord no

i doubt any woman is capable of falling in love just because a guy is a good lay, else being a professional sex worker would not be such an easy fallback for so many of us

men are the romantic gender, hence, so many male stalkers in this world

[Spider Jerusalem]

21. No

I can count the times I've been in love on one hand with fingers left over; if I counted the number of people I've slept with, I'd run out of digits.

[Evoman]

22. Nope, but every person I do the nasty with....

falls in love with me.

Yes.

I am that good.

*gyrates hips and makes ass slapping motion*

heh...lets get this baby locked.

[DrGonzoLives]

23. Nope

If fucking is all that prompts you to fall in love with someone, it's not love.

[rbnyc]

25. No. (Way back before I met my husband...)

I had a very active and varied sex life. I had a LOT of "friends with benefits" and I loved some of them, but wasn't in love with them. I had some kinky sex partners and we weren't in love, we just had similar interests. I had some boyfriends and girlfriends with whom I was in love, and others who were just a good fit for me at the time. I had some one-night-stands with people who turned out to be jerks or idiots and I had to regretfully inform them that I probably should have taken the time to realize I didn't like them before hopping in the sack, and they shouldn't bother to try to get in touch with me again. And I've fallen in love with some one-night-stands who weren't interested in seeing me again. And I've been in love a very few times with someone I could never get into the sack. (Actually, I can only think of 2 cases...most people are pretty easy.)

But that was long, long ago. And of course, LATEX SAVES! No glove, no love. If you're not gonna sack it, you can go home and whack it. It will be sweeter, if you wrap your peter.

:evilgrin:

EDIT: typo

[olefty]

26. You have got to be kidding!

Are you asking me if I fell in love with every girl that I tutored in HS and college (it's good to be a math genius :P)? The f*ck Buddy thread was locked but for us younger (I'm 25) people we don't have the quaint hang-ups of earlier generations. Most, but not all of us have cut loose from the bonds of oppressive religiosity and can see sex for what it is: a physical act that feels good. Having said all that, now that I'm getting older (I'm 25) I am looking for just one girl to have a monogamous relationship with. That's probably because I'm a kinky (BDSM, nothing weird) boy and finding a kinky lady can be hard. Having screwed up my last LTR I'm not going to blow the next one.

[Nicholas D Wolfwood]

27. I don't know. I don't have casual sex.

It's not for me.

[LaurenG]

28. So far yes

I haven't gotten out much though.:shrug:

[In_The_Wind]

29. Yes, a little bit.

Especially if they're good. :evilgrin:
I mean really: I wouldn't "sleep with" someone I didn't already like.

[Iniquitous Bunny]

30. No

Emotions are something else entirely.