I think I got stood up tonight

[alarimer]

I was supposed to meet someone tonight at a local beach bar. I spoke to him just before 7 and he said "I'll see you in a little while". I got down there about 20 minutes later and waited for over an hour but he neve showed. If he was lost, he would have called, right? This was something of a blind date; we had never met before. He is in town for a bowling tournament this weekend. I left a voice message on his phone but he hasn't called back yet.

I am really pissed and depressed. I so rarely go out and do anything and this just completely ruins my weekend.

[RevCheesehead]

1. Aww, I'm sorry that happened.

Consider it his loss, and hold your head high. :hug:

[alarimer]

5. something might have happened I guess

but no call? That I don't get

[leftofthedial]

2. if it was a blind date

maybe he didn't see you . . .

It was probably some sort of problem fidning you and you'll hear from him.

Otherwise, it's his loss. Life is way to short to worry about something a jerk did or didn't do.

[alarimer]

7. Might have gotten lost I suppose

yes life is too short to care about something like this

[leftofthedial]

10. you can have a date right here with all your fellow Loungers

the conversation will be way better

the making out maybe not so much

:hug:

[boston bean]

3. What a loser. Any one who does that really has the low self esteem.

Don't waste another moment of your time or mind thinking about it.

I know it sucks, but it's him, really, not you!

[reyd reid reed]

4. I know it's easier said than done

But don't let it get you down. It's HIS loss, after all, and he's gonna be kicking himself.

:hug:

[bigwillq]

6. It wasn't meant to be.

That stinks. He should be man enough at least to call.


:hug:

[alarimer]

8. Evidently not

oh well. This happens to everyone

[bigwillq]

9. Yes it does.

It happened to me. I would never do that to anyone. I think it is highly rude and doesn't show much character about the person.
I would be at least man enough to call and say I can't show up. Even if it's a lame excuse, you deserve a call.

Sorry.

:hug:

[DesEtoiles]

11. he might be shy, or nervous