the pity party thread

[Guava Jelly]

No one (living) loves me or is in love with me.
I hate my job.
and my soul mate is still in love with another man.
My cat thinks hes a dog.
I missed my wieghtloss goal this month for the first time in 7 months by 4 lbs
And this smile is fake

who's got the violins
I was just informed i can't spell

[crispini]

1. Well, you're awfully cute, if that helps.

Awww... Bad karma all 'round these days eh? :hug:

[Guava Jelly]

7. thank you

Karma is a bitch these days

[YellowRubberDuckie]

16. Seconded....

You're a hottie. I'd love you....:evilgrin: But can we just settle for a friendship since you live so far away?!
Duckie

[Guava Jelly]

24. I can always use friends

thank you.

[Robb]

2. Probably not the time to harp on yer spelling

:rofl: :hi:

[Guava Jelly]

3. not really

I type like a bafoon

[Gidney N Cloyd]

4. I type like a bassoon but I reed OK.

[billyskank]

5. That could be a new word

Bafoon, n.: a particularly dull-witted baboon.

[Robb]

6. Up, Up and awaaaaaaaay...!

In my beautiful bafoooooon! :D

[Guava Jelly]

10. I'd still misspell it

the older i get the worse my spelling becomes

[MiniMandaRuth]

8. 1. The lounge loves you.

2. You'll soon be promoted to 'Remote Control Tester'
3. She'll soon see the light.
4. Train him to fetch your slippers.
5. You're building muscle. Muscle weighs more than fat.
6. It's still cute.

:hug: :hi:

[Guava Jelly]

9. thank you

god i hope you are right

[elshiva]

11. OMG, YOU ARE CUTE.

:loveya:

[Guava Jelly]

12. thank you

for the esteem booster

[elshiva]

13. You are welcome

:)

[graywarrior]

14. You're freakin funny

[Guava Jelly]

20. sometimes laughter is all you got

;0

[Floogeldy]

15. Stop whining!

[Guava Jelly]

17. And now i am a whiner

guess i need to append the list

[Floogeldy]

18. You know . . .

. . . . I'm not into guys, but you are a handsome dude. Intelligent, too.

Don't worry. ;)

[Guava Jelly]

19. thank you

btw I am not into guys either :)
I try not to worry but damn its hard.

[Guava Jelly]

21. its late good night all

time to go to bed
I will read any responses in the morning

[Guava Jelly]

26. well after taking 1/2 an ambien

for some reason i am very awake

[Skittles]

22. "in seven months I have only missed my weight-loss goal once"

you're doing fine now get back at it :)

[Guava Jelly]

25. thanks

I sure will.

[Haole Girl]

23. Here's a violin for you...

Seriously, though, a cat who thinks they are a dog is pretty cool.
Sorry to hear about the other things, though.

Your smile doesn't look fake at all, by the way.

[reyd reid reed]

27. Well...I think you're cute

1. You'd be surprised at the people who love you, just might not profess it.
2. Jobs can be changed. You'll find one that you love, it just might take a while.
3. Your soul mate is misguided...she'll come to her senses. If she doesn't, she doesn't deserve you and you'll find someone better who does.
4. I thought I was the only one who had a cat who thinks she's a dog. You and me, we're lucky. Ain't everyone who has one of those, y'know...makes us special. :)
5. Muscle weighs more than fat. And meeting your goal for seven months is nothing to sneeze at. Keep it up. You're doing better than a lot of people out there. Hell, I'd go so far as to say that, at seven months, you're doing better than Most people out there.
6. Fake or not, you've got a great smile. Use it more.
7. My daughter's got the violin. Be grateful you aren't next door.
8. Spelling...well...I didn't see it so....

Keep your chin up...things have a way of getting better...

Sleep well.

[Guava Jelly]

29. thank you

reyd
I need to go lay down and clear my mind of all this .but man is it hard.
Sometimes i think i am my own worst enemy..
I really don't think we are going to make it.
In a way i don't think she wants us to make it.
I think she doesn't want to be the bad guy...I am coming to the conclusion that i might have to be

[LeftyMom]

28. You should smile for pictures more often.

:D

[u4ic]

30. That doesn't look like a fake smile to me!

I used to have a bird who thought he was human...:shrug:

Sorry you're going through such a rough time...I can relate to some of what you're saying. :hug:

You know what you have to do, what's best for you...you're already on the road (that's a huge accomplishment, the weight loss), and acknowledging the problems in your relationship.

Sometimes the road to wholeness can be a lonely one, but that's usually temporary. Keep on plugging at it; if you want to really be happy, you'll have to make some more changes... :hi:

[Guava Jelly]

31. thank you u4ic

I know what changes i am going to have to make now.
Its 1 am in the morning i been back to bed twice and yet cant sleep.
you allways have nice things to say to me and I think you are a wonderful woman for being so kind to me.
I am thinking today may be the day
or at least the begining of the day..
baby steps
thank you again

[u4ic]

32. You don't know me very well, do you?

:rofl:

Thank you for your kind words. I was in a similar spot a year ago, and knew the changes I had to make in my relationship...which was getting out of it.

It was very, very tough indeed leading up to the inevitable...but there was such a huge relief when I finally made the step. I realized that it had had it's time, sometimes things do end and one can kick and scream and fight against it all they want, but...it was still time.

It was surprisingly easy to dump the load (emotional, not my ex! lol)once I made my mind up. I have never regretted a moment since.

I took time for myself, what I want and need, and what I won't put up with again. The re-evaluation has been extremely helpful.

I hope today is the day for you. Do what feels right for you...some people just need to sweep everything away, some need those baby steps. You'll know what's right for you.

Good luck! :hi:

[Random_Australian]

33. ...

:hug: