Going out with a Cuban girl! ASK ME ANYTHING!

[45th Med]

After very non-climactic dates with a friend from High School (from over 10 years ago) I have moved on to seeing other people. I was dating this girl, Anna for 3 months and never felt like my efforts were appreciated. I have left the door open for her to revisit when she isn't so busy, she's working 2 jobs and her full time job is stressful as a probation officer. She's a little hottie too, half Thai and Half Caucasian. I wish we could have solidified things.

I've known this hot little Cuban girl for the past 6 months at work and after time, we've gotten close.....PDA (public displays of affection) at work.....so we're going out on a date next weekend to the opera. She is the mother of two and a year older than I am but she is a BEAUTIFUL! Beautiful cocoa skin, long, thick hair and sweet lips that I'd like to nibble on and a beautiful petite bod! Sorry, don't have a picture of her yet.

WISH ME LUCK! I haven't had a successful relationship in 10 years. I think I'm coming out of the deep depression I was in from PTSD in the Army and other failed relationships.

NOW, if only my job situation would improve!

[JohnKleeb]

1. Nice catch there

Shes pretty

[bluestateguy]

2. Does she know you are posting her picture on the Internet?

[chimpymustgo]

3. Good luck on the relationship. Just a word up:

I hope you don't really think of her as a "Cuban" girl first. I hope she's a nice girl, a pretty girl, a smart girl...

[DS1]

4. So you've met a girl, and you're posting a picture of the last girl

most likely without her knowledge?

:wtf:

[chimpymustgo]

7. OMG. I just opened the "image". Get rid of that!!!

Dude - what is up?

[DS1]

10. what the hell are you talking about?

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[Catfish]

5. good luck

If she likes to cook, maybe you'll get some great cuban cooking.

[K8-EEE]

6. Buena Suerte!

I love everything Cubano!! Especially the music and FOOD! My best friend was Cuban when I was growing up...I'll never forget her grandmother opening the door holding a cigar behind her back to hide it...a LIT cigar.

Impress your gal by getting some groovin' Latin tunes, check out the new one by Poncho Sanchez. How about Paquito De Rivera!

[45th Med]

19. I bought her the Buena Vista Social Club DVD for Xmas

HEHEHE, beat you to it! LOL!

[SoCalDem]

8. A bit of advice.. Please remove her picture

It's one thing to pass a photo around the breakroom, and then back into your pocket.. It's another to post ot on the web..

also.. beauty is skin deep.. I hope you are attracted to her for more than what she looks like.. Lots of frumpy middle aged women were beautiful at one time (self included here).. There has to be more there than looks :)

But then you already KNEW that, right??? right??

Cuban,Irish,German,Portuguese, Italian.. you don't need those apellations anymore..(never really did).. Does she address you as her "anglo" or "gringo" guy??

[populistmom]

9. I agree

If some guy posted my picture on the web without my permission, I'd be mighty pissed (end of it pissed). It's really invasive in all honesty.

[DS1]

11. but there's the rub, if you read the post, that's his last girlfriend

he says he doesn't have a picture of the new one yet

[populistmom]

12. Still though

You should have someone's consent.

[SoCalDem]

13. She's in law enforcement..

It could end up hurting her...career or otherwise..

[Cooley Hurd]

14. There's still time to edit the post and remove the pic...

I agree, SoCal. Not cool to post her pic without consent - especially since she's a probation officer. I hope you're still reading this, 45th Med...

[45th Med]

16. Yes, I have her consent to post it on my website, why not elsewhere?

What gives?

[Cooley Hurd]

17. Then you're probably okay...

Some girls would freak...

[SoCalDem]

18. If she's ok with it, that's fine

You did not say that in your first post.. But now that you are not seeiing her, why have her picture up:shrug:

[45th Med]

20. SHE IS CUBAN.....

she maintains her cultural distinction as I maintain my HAWAIIAN culture. I am not Hawaiian-American, she is not Cuban-American. We do not Hyphenate. She moved here from Cuba 8 years ago and she became a citizen through marriage. My own country was overthrown.

She tells her family and friends that I am Hawaiian, why can't I tell my family and friends she is Cuban?

I don't really appreciate you telling me what I can and cannot do.

But you knew that, right???? RIGHT?!

[Blade]

15. she is hot!

dayum!