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datasuspect Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-01-06 02:09 PM
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"who's this?"
where the fuck do people get off?

YOU CALLED HERE ASSHOLE!!!!!!

you're supposed to say "hello?"

guy calls and asks (rather forcefully): "who's this?"

i asked back: "who da fuck is this?!?!"

jeez
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bleedingheart Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-01-06 02:12 PM
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1. my personal favorite is when I answer the phone at work...
and someone starts into what kind of problem they are having and they don't even bother to say...

"Hello...my name is Sue and I would like to ask a question..."

I work with professionals who consistently call me on the phone and start off with...

"this code isn't working and I need to know why xxx and www can't be done in this type of coding scenario..."
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mad-mommy Donating Member (884 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-01-06 02:12 PM
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2. they must be very important people who ...
don't have time for hello and is so and so available.
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datasuspect Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-01-06 02:13 PM
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3. what's funny is that it is a residential line
i hate talking on the telephone anyway.
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Pool Hall Ace Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-01-06 02:39 PM
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4. I had to give my husband hell for doing that.
Say hello and identify yourself, first.

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Debi Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-01-06 02:47 PM
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5. We have caller ID and so we know who is calling when the phone rings
but I still answer the phone and say hello. My husband just picks up the phone and starts talking to the person. That would freak me out. :scared:
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prole_for_peace Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-01-06 06:23 PM
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18. we have caller id at work now and when i see friends or
family are calling i just pick up and say "what?" the first time i did that the bf freaked out. i told him that we now have caller id but he still gave me a hard time.

i still do it though.
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petronius Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-01-06 06:32 PM
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19. I'm really careful not to do that...
We use our caller ID to screen callers (and a lot of people who get screened would be shocked to know it!), so I really don't want anyone to get a hint that we know who's calling...
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Mad_Dem_X Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-01-06 02:54 PM
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6. One of my pet peeves
I get that one at work occasionally. I usually just say, "This is the front desk." What I *want* to say is, "Who the hell is THIS?"
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datasuspect Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-01-06 02:58 PM
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7. or anyone who answers "(insert generic department name)"
and doesn't identify themselves.

i'd much rather communicate via cb radio.
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redqueen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-01-06 03:01 PM
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8. GRRRRR I hate that!
I've just hung up on people before for doing that. SO annoying.
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StrictlyRockers Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-01-06 03:08 PM
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9. Civility and politness go a LONG, LONG war
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asthmaticeog Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-01-06 03:10 PM
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10. That's a hell of a typo.
;)
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redqueen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-01-06 03:14 PM
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11. Yeah like you've got room to talk, typo man!
Wait... what?

Nevermind.
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StrictlyRockers Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-01-06 05:05 PM
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13. It is impolit to point out people's typos.
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Left Is Write Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-01-06 04:11 PM
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12. I absolutely, positively hate hearing "Who is this?"
when I answer the phone.

It's incredibly rude on the caller's part.

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skygazer Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-01-06 05:28 PM
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14. "I'm the person whose phone you just called."
"Now, who are YOU?"

That's my standard reply.
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idgiehkt Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-01-06 06:01 PM
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17. perfect
thanks for that!
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idgiehkt Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-01-06 05:36 PM
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15. I hate that!
it drives me nuts...and then you ask 'who's this' and it just goes on. I just hang up.
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Spirochete Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-01-06 05:58 PM
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16. I really hate that too
The last time I said "Don't you know who the fuck you were calling?"
They hung up.
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Oeditpus Rex Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-01-06 06:33 PM
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20. I used to get that a lot at work
"Who am I speaking to?"

I'd stifle the urges to correct their grammar and to say "Did you call to ask me that?" I could understand why they asked, because the vast majority of people who call a newspaper have no idea whom to speak with; they just want to bitch about something, and the front desk connects them to whichever editor's available.

So I'd tell them my name and that I was the city editor. Once in awhile they'd say, "No, I want to speak to the editor," when, unbeknownst to them, I was more likely the right person to handle their gripe.

But they never, ever, gave their name. They're just "a reader" or "a subscriber." I told them my name, and it's in the paper and on the web site. But they get to be anonymous.

:eyes:




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datasuspect Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-01-06 06:34 PM
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21. or in sales
people who get all uppity about giving their contact info when they call YOU about something THEY want.
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NewWaveChick1981 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-01-06 08:12 PM
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22. My mother taught me that doing that was RUDE AS HELL.
Mom taught me telephone manners, and I'm really glad she did. People who do that should be drawn and quartered.... :grr: :mad:
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